How should dates be paid for?

[Anonymous]

I rather go Dutch. Pay for myself.

50/50

Guy/woman should pay

Dutch

A total of 21 votes were cast: 8 girls and 13 guys. See detailed results

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+1 y

Wow! Option 2 and 3 are almost neck and neck. Though I’m shocked #2 was picked the most.

[ChiTown33]

I've repeated this time and again. If I go out with a woman I'm paying. That's my mindset. Of the 100 things that i'm concerned about on a date this doesn't make the list. Now having said that at least HALF, probably better than half of the women I've dated have offered to pay thier share. I think it's important to note this. Because I don't think ANYONE male or female should go into a date EXPECTING the other to pay. I've always declined the offer, but I've always appreciated the gesture. When a woman offers that tells me a lot about her.

Just my take.

[es20490446e]

Call me weird, but I don't care about money.

I prefer dutch, so the interaction is less about the money and more about the people.

I don't think there is a thing as someone paying without expecting something back at some point.

Who doesn't pay, gets a karma debt. And I don't want to have that with anyone.

[idonotlikeyou]

If at least one person wants to pay for themselves, their choice should be respected.

[Iron_Man]

Pay for yourself but be positive on the dates be nice and friendly and smile. People can see if you have anger if you don’t trust and you’re very cautious.

[DarkLegacy]

It seems fair enough for me, id go the same way

[sirderpsalot123]

I think men should pay for the first couple of dates.

[ChinaGrove]

Dutch is good.

[shortster]

The inviter pays for the invitee.

[eagle1951]

in my days, the Man always paided

[Jennz6]

Dutch treat

[BarryLiverstone]

I’ll pay