Would it be a big deal if your significant other doesn't see eye to eye with a lot of people, doesn't fit in necessarily, etc?

[Anonymous]

That's how I am, so no

I would wonder why they have so much trouble

Yes, them having a good reputation is important for me

No, as long as I like them, idc

A total of 37 votes were cast: 13 girls and 24 guys. See detailed results

[DishLady]

If it’s someone who consistently runs people the wrong way but is sweet or kind with only me then it’s a red flag.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

That’s a sign he’s either a psycho or will stop at nothing to keep you happy

[DishLady]

Yeah.

[Purpleronnie]

I wouldn’t need my significant other to be best friends with all or even some but without justification I’d expect her to be civil , sociable , polite & tolerant etc. sure people can say dumb things that might rub you up the wrong way but there isn’t always a need to react aggressively or quick to judge. After all opinions are like arseholes , everybody’s got them.

[Avicenna]

It's usually a big problem in a relationship

[Anastasia76]

If his opinions are justified and he does not try to make others feel inferior then it's not a big deal. But if he acts superior towards others and thinks that his opinions are justified even if they're not, red flag.

[HawkPerception]

Agreed 💯

[TheRealPepperPotts]

Yes. It's a red flag. The reason is because no one will 100% agree with everything we think, and if they do, they are lying or a codependent. It's important for someone to be able to allow others to have a viewpoint that differs and still be kind and able to seek out points of agreement.

I would not date someone who had such limited emotional intelligence. We have to be able to hold two differing viewpoints and not feel so threatened. It is an essential skill for marriage because we will disagree. Someday, it will be me on the receiving end of them "not seeing eye to eye". And they must be able to empathize with my perspective just as I empathize with theirs to reach a point of collaboration.

That's a red flag and a dealbreaker for me, personally.

[OlderAndWiser]

If she doesn't know how to get along in social situations, it's a huge red flag.

[paledreams]

It's amazing though what hot looks can get away with on a ♀️

[OlderAndWiser]

@paledreams An attractive woman can get plenty of first dates but her good looks won't keep guys. "For every good looking girl walking down the street, there's a guy somewhere who got tired of fucking her."

[HawkPerception]

Honestly that's been me for most of my life. I've always felt I haven't really fit in. I never try to rub people the wrong way and don't ever try to put people down, but I am a blunt person and my views can be pretty extreme. It's led me to always have a small circle of close knit friends that understand my intentions are never bad.

If I had a partner like that, it wouldn't bother me as long as I agreed with them with most of their views as I believe similar views is a huge aspect of chemistry/compatibility. But they should always try to be kind to everyone around them. As long as they are, the whole world could hate them and I'd have their back.

[mobiusforniner]

If the large majority of people seem put off by them, it’s usually a sign they are unable to socially integrate and compromise. They likely lack self awareness and empathy; hallmark traits of a narcissist (everyone’s against ME, people don’t understand ME, me me ME). Yes it’s a red flag

[Radiate143]

If it's being contary to keep everypne on edge and attention on themselves then no. This indicates a personality disorder. If it's because they are knowledgeable and informed so they can debunk BS andhave no issue standing on that, then no problem.

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[paledreams]

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[ArrowheadSW]

It would make me wonder why they have so much interpersonal trouble. It could be a red flag or a deal breaker depending on the circumstances.

[bobby_bush_eater]

As long as it's not someone's identity so to speak.

If it's just how you are and you keep to yourself so to speak and aren't seeking confrontation then it's fine

[Lester102]

It could be a flag what happens if the relationship is serious.. could be socially awkward we are social creatures by nature no man is an island lol comes to mind… living in love but in isolation.. yikes!!

[DrPepper12]

Id likely lose the so if she can't get along with the crew

[OddBeMe]

I’ll ask her. I may have fucked up her life.

[DizzyDesii]

We can stand out together then 🤷‍♀️

[Nikki1989]

That sounds like a lot of work.

[ggrurrllz]

nobody gets along with everybody.