What is my boyfriend trying to do?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of 5 months asks me to wear revealing clothes when we are out, or hanging out with friends. When I asked him about it, says "I want to show the people what my girlfriend is and makes me happy know that they can't have you". Should I actually worry about it, or just brush it off?

[Danny_dan92]

Some guys like doing this…. Tbh often times guys like these are also cucks. And like to “share” their girl with other guys and watch.




It’s one of those very odd fetishes lol




If not that.




He has very low self esteem and is using you and the concept of you being his girlfriend to inflate his ego. Aka he’s a “show off”

[Kelley1]

I believe he is proud of his arm candy. You give him bragging rights which is good for his self-esteem. If your form is good dressing in revealing clothes is good form, otherwise, otherwise. Moreover, if your form is good, you in revealing clothes without dressing to appear slutty. For example, wearing hot pants is revealing, wearing unbuttoned and/or unzipped hot pants is a both revealing and a bit slutty.

[Anonymous]

You decide how YOU feel about it. His immature fantasy is not important. If you're ok with it, then great. If you're not, dress how you like. It's a bit concerning his foremost thought is about how other people feel.

[DrPepper12]

It's a compliment from an insecure juvenile man. If you approach it from that angle I think you'll see he's basically harmless in his request but if it makes you uncomfortable don't do it. And this answer is coming from a person who loves female exhibitionism!

[Anonymous]

He thinks of you as a trophy.

It’s not something I seek out, but if other men think my girl is hot, well, they’re right. I don’t blame them for looking.

[DishLady]

He's gross. Ditch this guy.

[jjj101010]

He obviously wants to show u off, r u uncomfortable with wearing them?

[Billlewis]

It sounds like he's trying to show you off.