Isn't it strange that I still haven't had a girlfriend with 27 age? 😁 solution?

[saeid98]

I'm 27 years old and I haven't any girl freind until yet
I ask both girls and boys if they have any solutions for this issue?😅

[SueShe]

It is not strange at all. That simply means that you haven't found the right person yet or that you did not search for her. It could also mean that finding a girlfriend has not the same priority in life as for other people and that you may be comfortable without a girlfriend.

You are the only one that can help that situation.

In order to have friends or a girlfriend, you must be proactive and find friends. They will not just pop up in your life without you being involved in the relation. Best is to join a club, take a hobby where you can meet people with similar interests.

If you are good at one specific occupation, then see if you can find a club or place where others meet that share that passion. The rest will just fall automatically into place. Sharing the same interests with a person is always a good start to get to know that person better because you have common grounds.

But you have to work on yourself first. That would include shyness and social anxiety if those are part of your problem.

You can train your approach, your attitude and expression in front of a mirror for example. Think of what message you want to bring across and rehearse it until you are satisfied. The next step is the most difficult one and that is the one where you have to put in practice what you learned and rehearsed.

But without you wanting and acting upon it, nothing will ever happen. You have to get out of your comfort zone for it to happen. The most important is not to be afraid to fail. If you are rejected, get back onto your feet and try again.

[HelpfulWoman]

not really. you're the one making this a weird issue

[Ευδεμονια]

Strange? No, the world is full of forever single people way older than you (I’m an example).


Solutions? You have two possible solutions if this condition makes you feel bad:
1) Since girlfriends aren’t like miracles or meteors, you can’t receive them by the sky. So, go out, try joining clubs, try new experiences, travel alone or with stranger groups… there’s plenty of ways (but I’m not the one who can tell which one is effective, it depends on you);
2) Accept your solitude as a point of your life. Don’t complain about it and try to accept it completely. Very hard to do (complaining is easier) but it can make you become like a prophet.

[Sasquach]

Everyone moves at their own pace. Don't sweat it. To get a girlfriend just pretend to be an extrovert and play bumper carts at the grocery store or something

[Nikki1989]

Not strange for men on this website. For everyone else, yes, it is very odd.

[saeid98]

Also, not having a boyfriend for a woman like you on this website is not strange.😂

[butterly248]

I'm pretty sure she is married lol

[butterly248]

Not strange. Try local dating hangouts or something

[saeid98]

🤔...

[butterly248]

I'm not sure then. Dating apps..

[butterly248]

People at work

[Tuti-iMucize]

I think yes but it's your choice

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes.