Why do guys discuss sex on the first date? (Page 2)

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Why do guys discuss sex on the first date?

JanetMaree · Answer

He trying to have sex lol better that he’s honest than wasting your time he greatful for that !

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Only guys who only want sex do this. Guys who are genuinely interested in a relationship will want more substance.

Nerdvana · Answer

Not all guys, at least I don't. A guy is trash and has no respect. You have every right to end the date if he starts talking about sex on the first date.

Radiate143 · Answer

Testing boundaries. Figuring out what box to put you in and how they will handle you.

helva · Answer

I don’t know but when this happen on a first date it will be the last date.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm currently chatting to a match on Tinder where we've openly been chatting about our sexual desires and likes even before a first date 📅

It's healthy and refreshing being able to discuss sex as adults.

Anastacia1989 · Answer

Guys who are respectful and actually looking for a real serious relationship don’t talk or ask about sex in the early dating stages

Bubbble · Answer

He's just wondering if you have the same take on this topic as him. He wants to see if you're 'open' enough for sex. Ditch him because seems like all he wanted is sex.

Anonymous · Answer

My man didn’t so I don't know but I’m assuming maybe some men bring it up to see if you have the same sexual desires as them. I guess depending on what they’re asking I don’t think it’s a bad thing.

Kabluie · Answer

Sometimes it's smart. Can't be too careful, whether on birth control, testing regimens.

bowenw · Answer

I normally wouldn't unless it came up in conversation or she initiated it.

Goahead76 · Answer

In my experience this has never happened, although on a few occasions it was the women who brought it up.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

Maybe he's just very forward/doesn't want to waste time. It's an approach... Doesn't seem like you it

Anonymous · Answer

Because they are horny and wants some cheap pleasure they don’t want to put in any work.

Crimson79 · Answer

Because they think it’s their business who you had sex with in the past, and it’s not. Past sexual relations are completely irrelevant to the present, except it, or find someone else.

valentina25 · Answer

They ask from the beginning because they are worried whether the girls will want it or not. It's bullshit in my opinion

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t talk about sex on a date with a girl I know she’s going to be turned off and think I’m some idiotic, horny, fuck boy

Xwtxx · Answer

I do because I do not like to find out that she has a fetish that turns me off.

Juxtapose · Answer

I'm starting to think you women really hate sex.

jeremy_09 · Answer

If she wants to have sex with you that night, she will let you know when you talk about it.

Wiredone · Answer

Not all guys do. He probably just wants to see how compatible you are

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Cause that's what he wants. Just make it clear to him that you not even entertaining the thought of having sex until you get to know him better

Pohjolan · Answer

To figure out potential deal breakers early on instead of wasting time of both sides?

nawtee_me · Answer

Sex is a big part of a relationship and boundaries should be set.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Cause they really want sex and don’t want to waste their time and money on a prude

nudeNhorny · Answer

because guys think a lot with their other heads.

AlfApAşA · Answer

Because of Their Male Hormones, That is, Because They Are Male 🤠

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

He is stating his intentions upfront. You should appreciate it.

OhLongJohnsoning · Answer

Likely wants to see if you do it on the first date Some girls do, some don't

Chaylez · Answer

Some guys do these so they'll know what kind of girl you are. A fun & short-term fling or a serious & long-term one.

TallBlondeJohn2 · Answer

I don't and believe women respect me (a person who doesn't talk about sex on first date. I let the woman bring it up.

Lonewolf1974 · Answer

Because that is probably what they want and they ghost people

IWILLPLEASEYOU · Answer

I have recently been told that I have never asked soon enough for me it's a little more about

Jason2469 · Answer

I sure as fuck wouldn't. The last girl I fucked was after we dated for half a YEARl

TeatimewithCowboys · Answer

I don’t but I want to because sexual compatibility can break our relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

Because they want it right there on the spot and to take you home.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

Most decent men don't

Anonymous · Answer

It seems crude and inappropriate to suggest having sex on the first date But when you say talking about sex... What do you mean?

Jojojojojojojo · Answer

Because he s disrespectful

femalenpc · Answer

Because they're single

spartan55 · Answer

What guys? I sure don't.

kwsmith2 · Answer

Lack of impulse control

AngelLily · Answer

Only Creeps an Male Thots Do such

Booklover_90 · Answer

Because that’s what he wants.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

You should talk about deal$

_Troian_ · Answer

Do they? Damn these crazy Americans lmao

paledreams · Answer

Sounds like he's over eager lol 🤣

Phoenix98 · Answer

I've never discussed sex on a first date.

Anpu23 · Answer

Because they want to see if its an option.

hafinjun · Answer

Wishful thinking or complete lack of respect

Danny_dan92 · Answer

When this happens… they want sex

worldscolide · Answer

Good ones don't. Red flag.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Shows you exactly where his mind is at with you.

Jay-_- · Answer

Not all guys just the ones you've ran into.

Vegasrunner · Answer

What date should they discuss sex?

Dongie · Answer

Only the honest ones do.

MrGSpotHer · Answer

Because they want it?

Luopio27 · Answer

I never do so on first dates!

hisstarrr · Answer

Good question. I still do not know.

Nikki1988 · Answer

Perhaps to see how you react to the question.

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