How do I show him I care about him same time let him know I can walk away?

[montherobaidat]

I have a boyfriend and like he is literally taking me for granted and like he doesn't care or give me attention like it should be, I talked to him about it and he always act as nth is wrong and I get the blame of not caring and not giving him attention
How do I do it correctly, how make him understand that i actually can walk away for real, not only by talking

[DishLady]

The next time he wants to schedule a date or hang out, etc., tell him that you need to sit and chat. Tell him how you feel -- that you care for him but are ready to walk away because you feel he takes you for granted.

He's going to say something along the lines of "how so?" and you're going to need to be specific. Indicate three things that need to be done for you to feel respected and appreciated. They have to be SIMPLE and easy to achieve. There should be 3 (because the average person stops paying attention after the third instruction they're given).

Give him about 2-3 weeks to get to it... and if there's no change and you promised to walk away you have to stick to your word and do it. If you give in you just reinforce and reward his bad behavior towards you.

[Changiis07]

What kind of attention are you looking for that he isn't giving you? What shifted..

[montherobaidat]

He used to call me in the morning at night
Talk about his day
Hang out once a week
Now its only like one call for 2 minutes and whenever i call him he doesn't get back to me.
I know like he probably lost interest but whenever i see him try to get clarification or talk about it its not working

[Changiis07]

Once a week is not even enough either. If you tried talking about it and how it makes you feel and you do not see any changes than you will need to walk away and find someone who will put in the effort. He isn't stressed or anything? sometimes stress doesn't have to do with you but how he deals with it is withdrawing. Why would he lose interest if it's your boyfriend...

[TommyMountainFigure]

For it to work you have to be serious about walking away, and more importantly he has to KNOW you will!

[montherobaidat]

HOW? I told him today if you stay like this you're gonna lose me. And he said there is no way i can let you go never. I told him i am just gonna leave without a word if things stays like this

[TommyMountainFigure]

He's told you to your face you aren't going to leave,. so he's calling your bluff.. The fact you are still there tells him he knows you won't go.
The question is, are you or are you not prepared to put up with him disrespecting you? If not, then pack your bags and leave. Or better still, pack his bags and make HIM leave!