Is it okay to hold hands on the first date?

[Anonymous]

Too forward? Like halfway through after breaking the ice

Too forward

It’s fine

[Nirmroth]

Feel the vibe, I held hands and kissed on a first date on some only at the third/second.

If you just outright grab it, it won't go well.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes it’s ok. You can do it fairly quickly if you are walking in a crowded place.

[In_Trance]

If you and your date are both ok with it then it's ok

[Nikki1989]

Are you taking the piss?

[Nirmroth]

My guy might really not have any dating experience its not uncommon

[Asker]

Yeah I’ve tried dating since 19 but this is the only girl that’s really happy for me to take her out on a date. Nowadays it’s like 80% of all women fight for the top 2%
Extremely tough for men

[Nirmroth]

@Asker dont go that route. I as average guy get dates aswell and I am definitiv not in the top 2%. I can go between 1-2 dates a week if I am active.

[Asker]

@Nirmroth you’re not average that’s really impressive

[Asker]

For a guy that’s rare

[Nirmroth]

@Asker nah dating apps are just damn weird. A friend of mine is what you would call a top 5%. He got 200+ likes within a few days and would often get texted first etc.

After he found a girlfriend and deleted the apps he dated her for around 6 months. They sadly broke up and he made an account again with same pictures etc.

Now he only gets around 0-2 likes a day which is even worse than what I get and on some days even none at all.

Thats why I think apps are simply borked, even when attractive the weird algorythm can leave you dry.

[Asker]

@Nirmroth that’s not too 5% bro

[Asker]

That’s top 1%

[Asker]

Im probably top 5% and struggle to get more than 15 likes

[Nirmroth]

15 likes within a day or week? Anyways its just dating apps and they dont translate to irl.

[CubaPirate]

Absolutely fine