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This new guy I’m seeing since March , never asked me to meet family & im depresed. I will end things as sex August to December is not a boyfriend / relationship. 😞 my fear is coming true any new guy I meet will be same like my ex that used me , we never move next level, they never ask to be his girlfriend. Things don’t progress it’s just dates & text forever for years.
I think a boyfriend is living together, August meet his family, Sep be invited to his family event, ocotber go to 2 day trip together in love, nov he ask to live together, Dec spend Christmas together, this is a boyfriend, this is bliss happiness, this is a relationship. And like always it’ll be a fantasy and 27 years of my life this won’t come true like always. 😞
im sad & crying everyday but it’s better end things so he no longer gets sex augsut to Dec & this continue years to come forever 10-30 years we never move next level.
my ex did this to me & i never see progres with guys. 😞😞
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Now I get that’s a huge amount of time to meet family, however your timeline seems pretty obsessive in a sense. Being in a relationship is all about being understanding towards the other person. Did you ask him why he never introduced you to his family, or did you just assume? Some people are not as close to their family as you or others may be and I feel like that’s important to take note of.
My relationship is kind of like this. I’ve known my boyfriend for 3 months and he did not recently meet my family until this past weekend because I am not close with him, and if I didn’t have a family event it probably would’ve been longer.
Having standards is very important, and wanting progress is understandable, however being an understanding partner is also very important and realizing people may be different than you is even more important.
I am not close with my family***
U said u met family in 3 months, I’ve known this guy since March 5 months!
I’ve never met a guys family and the one guy I dated many years he use me 😓 he deny meet fmaily 7 years deny take pics with me. Etc
But again have you asked him, or did you assume? Because like I said, if I didn’t have a family event, my boyfriend wouldn’t have met my mother or family because I am not close with them
If I continue seeing this guy to Dec and next year , it’ll be same shit and we neevr meet family I don’t do friends with benefits
What I’m going to tell my family augsut to Dec in all the family parties, I have no boyfriend? EVERYOBE in my fmaily shows up with a boyfriend. If u show up alone it means u have NO boyfriend
I think it’s important to ask questions. When you are seeing the same results in different people, you need to ask yourself why that is and a huge pattern I see is you don’t ask
Christmas be alone? And this guy don’t exist? How is that a relationship?
Staring at my family taking pics by the tree with their boyfriend? And everyone see I’m single.
And guy prob tells family August to Dec he’s single and I don’t exist and he hides me.
But you aren’t asking questions towards what you want either
When I ask I will be rejected and guy will say he’s not my boyfriend or he’s not looking for a relationship, he don’t want a girlfriend.
That’s y it’s better dump him now so he don’t get sex August to coming years.
Assumptions girl. And if you feel like he feels that way, why are you still talking to him? You aren’t being used, you aren’t providing boundaries for yourself and it’s showing in different men you associate with
I will put boundaries then dump him as he won’t want to be my boyfriend 😞 No guy wants a future with me. No guy likes me. Liking a girl is having a relationship. 😔 no guy has ever asked to be his girlfriend.
You have to place boundaries from the very beginning. A guy will make it very apparent that he wants to be in a relationship. If he doesn’t mention wanting to be in one, chances are you will not find that with that person.
I never had a boyfriend 27 years of my life , god don’t let me have a boyfriend. 😞
I’m now scared of men. I never met a guy that agrees be his girlfriend.
I like men but men don’t love me back never 😞
Because you lack boundaries
Never spent vakentines day, no aniversaries, neevr introduced any guy to my family , no guy desires live with me. 😞
Thank u for the advice I will put boundaries but I think he’ll say I don’t want a girlfriend and he go look for new girl for sex. 😞
I’m sad becuz I really liked him it’s very rare for me to like a guy. It’s better I give up and no longer talk to men and be 30-60 alone in my house forever 😞
It’s awesome to like someone, however if they aren’t aligning with what you are looking for, it’s going to be hard to maintain that like for someone over time.
Im depresed becuz no guy wants be my boyfriend, im traumatized as my whole life men say they don’t want a girlfriend. God wants me alone forever and no guy exists for me? A guy that love me won’t be a guy I like. The guys I want and love don’t love me back. My entire daily got married super young except for me. I’m almost 30 😞
I hope this guy gives positive response but I’m
Already crying all week depresed. All guys in my lifetime give me same negative response. But it’s best end things early so he cannot hav sex rest of the year. And it might take years til I’m 30-35 to meet a new guy that I fancy. Or just be single forever and never experience a boyfriend 😔
Girl, I totally get why you're so sad and frustrated right now. You clearly want a real relationship with intimacy, commitment and progression, and it's hurt that this guy hasn't stepped up to give you that after so many months together.
I don't blame you at all for wanting to end things before he just keeps you on the back burner for who knows how long again. You deserve so much better than that! At the same time though, breaking up now will be really hard, so make sure you've got your friends and support system around you when you do it.
I know it seems like you'll never find what you're looking for, but try not to lose hope either. Maybe have an honest talk with him first about where you see this going, and hear his side too. If he brushes off your concerns, then for sure end it. But there may still be a chance he comes around and puts in more effort once he realizes how serious you are.
You're right to stand up for your needs and wants. Don't settle for anything less than the long term relationship you want so deeply. You'll get through this - stay strong, lean on your girlfriends, and don't stop believing your forever person is out there! Lots of hugs ❤️ You've got this.
How much of all this elaborate plan you actually communicated to him and how much of it is he supposed to guess? 🤔
Well my fears actually come true and once I say my thoughts and that I want relationship guys say they don’t want a girlfriend 😞
So I’m crying all day all week as I know he’ll be next guy in line to reject me
Yeah, great.
How about talking and taking it one step at a time instead of frightening the guy away with your masterplan?
I have a question, what if I ask the guy I don’t want friends with benefits and he says he don’t want that either but after meeting again few more times still neebr asks to be his girlfriend? But acts like a boyfriend?
Do I just assume he’s my boyfriend or what
Lady, you need to learn to communicate with the guy. Not with me, or your aunt or the invisible man in the sky. And learn the intermediate steps, the grey tones. So far you either leave the guys guessing with zero communication or you completely drown them with your multiphased masterplan.
U didn’t answer my question tho
Because I obviously can’t. I am not him, I don’t know him. You need to communicate directly.
I get scared comunícate becuz I get rejected by guys 😔 I never get positive response by the guys I desire & want future with. & NO he’s not a top model guy. He’s ugly nerdy guy