Are average women considered something different?

[Anonymous]

So I don’t know if it’s advisable or not but I just have never gone for the super attractive women and have found myself going more towards average women. Well the thing is I was dumped by a girl who was average she was overweight, she picked her nose, she would fart while she and other people were eating, she would leave mountains of clothes laying everywhere she would never take her dishes and trash to the kitchen often there would be half eaten chip bags and empty ice cream containers mixed in under the clothes. So if this was average is there another average

[Skinhead-1979]

I strongly believe there is such a thing as "So beautiful that it becomes Ugly"

Look at those ladies with rather a lot of make-up, Botox lips, big fake boobs and fake bums... Yes, even I stare at them... and yes, in some way they are pretty... so pretty that it becomes ugly.

I'd rather just have an 'average', plain, natural (some make-up is of course always nice) beauty.

I also don't have to worry she will leave me as soon as she loses interest in me; I am a rather average person too

[BetaBucks]

Yeah man, I can't stand that fake look. Like, it's a mix of uncanny valley vibes and transgender woman avoidance.

[Nikki1989]

What is average to one person might be stunning to someone else, which makes this post rather silly.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like depression mixed with some mania to me

[Asker]

So by her definition she didn’t have any mental health issues and when I mentioned it she said I was gaslighting her

[Asker]

Cause she would also just let our dogs shit and piss all over the carpet it got so bad that shut was stained into the carpet and our apartment had a permanent bad smell

[Opinion Owner]

She sounds unwell...

[Asker]

Yeah she was doing this before we even started dating just weeks into our relationship when I went over to her apartment I seen mountains of clothes around her bed there was zero walking space. So being the caring person I am when she was at work I would wash everything and have it folded and ins laundry basket for her then a few days later it would return to looking like that again

[Opinion Owner]

I can almost grunted you she's suffering mentally.. or extremely lazy

[Opinion Owner]

Guarantee**

[Asker]

When I would ask she would say she didn’t have the time or space. Ok so I reason with her it was a smaller apartment but then when we moved into a much larger apartment the bedrooms were huge and she was still doing it.

[Opinion Owner]

You two were unequally yoked. She was a slob. You should of left before the bigger apartment

[Asker]

So at that point in time I didn’t understand it was part of a much bigger picture cause she also hit me two weeks into our relationship

[BetaBucks]

She's below average

[Asker]

So then why did she think I was under

[Asker]

Infer

[Asker]

Inferior

[BetaBucks]

Because she's had hook-ups with guys that were 2 or 3 points better looking than her, and her brain got tricked into thinking she was on their level and deserves guys on their level. So, with you, she doesn't recognize that you're equals (or you're even higher value) because of the guys that were better looking than you, that banged her. Super common and one of the reasons that female promiscuity ruins the ability to form lasting, healthy relationships.