My boyfriend likes his friend's fitness pics and then getting angry that I think it is insulting to me?

[Deimy]

[Anonymous]

What’s wrong w that? Maybe he’s trying to encourage her. Unless he’s proven to you he can’t be trusted there’s no need to act this way. Now f he’s proven to be unfaithful, that’s on you for continuing to be w him. Even if he was checking her out, I don’t understand how a lot of women think that having a wife or girlfriend automatically shuts down that part of a man’s brain that finds women attractive? You’re not the hottest person on this planet. You’re even making yourself look less than you are by acting this way. You have no idea what it’s like being a male. Maybe you could learn something from him by talking to him. But you probably don’t talk to him. You probably say you do, but more than likely you’re talking at him, not to him.

[BetaBucks]

If the friend is a guy, then you're being weird. If it's a girl and the pics are thirst-trappy, then I understand what your feelings are. Especially if you're out of shape. It's almost a hint at you to get in better shape. Or, a hint that he's just attracted to the friend.

Not much you can do to change his feelings though. You can mention to him that it makes you feel bad that he likes girls' thirst traps, and it might make him change his behavior. But his internal feelings won't be any different. You have to consider the situation, as a whole, and consider if it's something you can live with.

[BetaBucks]

I just saw your other comment about the pics being thirst traps from a girl. You're right to not like what he's doing. Don't listen to these people telling you that your feelings aren't valid. This has zero to do with him being faithful, and everything to do with him showing sexual interest in other women. Other women that are in better shape than you, most likely. Other women that he personally knows. It's normal to not like that. If he's angry that you're insulted by it, then that's his right. But it's also your right to have fucking feelings. You just have to decide what you will do about it. Break up? Get in better shape? Demand he stops interacting with her? Carry on like nothing ever happened? Start liking other guys' thirst traps? I don't know

[DishLady]

A good guy is right to be upset if he feels he’s not trusted by his gf… especially if he’s proven to be faithful etc. Just bc the friend is female doesn’t mean there’s anything going on.

[Deimy]

Fitness pics where she clearly shows her ass and boobs

[DishLady]

That’s how most fitness pics are….

[sethtav]

I would be angry at you too. He can like something and you don't have to agree. Get over yourself.

[Luckycharms12]

Insulting you? How