Do I secretly resent my bodybuilding boyfriend?

[mimia396]

My boyfriend of 1 year is a bodybuilder, my first time dating a bodybuilder and for half of the year he preps for the competition. Meaning he goes to the gym twice a day, weighs out what he eats (has to cook the food himself), can't drink alcohol etc I mean when we first started dating, he would take me out we would eat together and drink and socialize. But the whole bodybuilding lifestyle hadn't really set in for me. He wants to stay home all weekend in front of the tv or at the gym with me. When we do socialize he can't eat, drink, he's grumpy or low energy. It's no fun. Lately I've been avoiding him cause I can't stand to be around him with he's lifestyle! We love each other so much, he's so good to me. But I fear I secretly resent him for he's lifestyle.
Any advice?

[kyleelyn199723]

I’ve dated a body builder and I am sure your relationship is also sexless or limited lol been there, done that. I was miserable with my ex when he wasn’t taking steroids because he would be absolutely sexless. Also you will have to deal with the after affects of him being on steroids from body building if he uses steroids which will only affect him even more when he’s older. (Erectile dysfunction, fast aging, gaining lots of weight etc) I’m happy as hell I’m not dating my ex anymore lol. I recommend dumping him if you aren’t interested in dating someone like this forever

[Anonymous]

You say you love each other but at the same time you are saying you can’t stand to be around him and that you haven’t adapted to his lifestyle that to me tells me you both don’t have a future together and that you are better off walking away from this relationship and be with someone who you want to hang out with and more importantly whose lifestyle aligns with your lifestyle

[RHK36]

Sounds like you don't want to adapt to his lifestyle nor should you feel obligated. Maybe the relationship has run its course, consider moving on.

[fred_durst]

what an asshole , dump him now , u deserve much better

[TallAnon]

Yeah, sounds like you two don't match

[In_Trance]

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