Do you prefer your date to ask to kiss you or do you prefer they just go in for it?

[HawkPerception]

And guys... which do you do? Ask or just go in for it?

I personally don't want to be accused of anything or rejected really harshly, so I always ask beforehand.

Ask

Just go in for it

[dustybiker2]

Depends. Asking is powerful. It can heighten everything too as the awkwardness is burst and you can just relax and enjoy it.

[jackieistired]

Asking is nice so I’m not taken aback. I usually say I want a kiss then they lean in after

[OlderAndWiser]

I have never asked a girl if I can kiss her, but the first time, I approach slowly enough that she has time to say "no" or turn her head to the side so I kiss her cheek. Usually, a passionate hug and staring into her eyes for a few seconds tells me if she wants a kiss.

[DishLady]

I don't like abrupt kissing or a guy who's too eager to jump into things. It's better to let chemistry build over time... and there's a nice, romantic way to ask, sure.

[Avicenna]

Well, you don't wait to be asked, you use your eyes and other body language to indicate that you want to be kissed or you initiate it yourself.

[Lliam]

I don't remember ever asking a girl if I could kiss her. Usually we would be sitting or standing close together and I could tell she was waiting for it. We would gaze into each other's eyes and, when I slowly leaned in, her facial expression and body language would say yes. And I wouldn't do an open mouth kiss the first time. It would just be tender. I would wait for her to respond if she wanted to be more passionate.

I had a few women kiss me the first time.
After a first date with one woman, I walked her to her door like a gentleman. She turned and stepped close, looked up into my eyes, put her hands on top of my shoulders, rose up on her tip toes, pressed against me as I put my hands on her waist, and gave me a lingering kiss that was so tender that my head spun.

After my first date with my future wife, she did sort of the same thing in the parking lot before we got into our separate cars to leave.

Either way, it should be a mutual thing. I could tell by her eyes and her relaxed lips that she was hoping to be kissed. I didn't just grab her and kiss her.

[_SillyShoes_]

Honestly I prefer both options - depending on if you're sure she would want you to kiss her or if you aren't. If you aren't just ask - it doesn't take away from the moment if you're a good kisser it's evident either way - and if you have chemistry it is amazing either way.

[sage2021]

I don't like when a guy asks me if he can kiss me. It's a big turn off!!

I like it to be mutual at the same time. Usually you can tell when the two of you are going to kiss each other. Your eyes melt into each other's eyes, and you both slightly move your head to one side so he can have access to your sexy lips. Mmmmm 🙂

[luvstoned4him]

I say it really depends because if its like the first date and I am just getting to know you, I would feel awkward but after some dates and us getting close especially if we are compatible then I won't mind him doing it. Thats why its so important to read the mood of the room and people.

[ArrowheadSW]

I think if it is "the first kiss" with a new romantic interest, I think they want to know ahead of time and that someone not just go for it.

[Kelley1]

I don't care. I am fine if my date just goes for a kiss because, if I am not willing, they don't force me. A light pushing away with my hand is all it takes.

[thegreenyogi]

It really depends on the situation. If someone asks I might say no. If someone kisses me without asking I don't really have any power to decide and if someone asks and I said no it might have been the wrong thing to do because I might have liked it.

[OfMiceandMen]

I've done both before, but those times when I didn't ask she was the one pressing into my personal space so it was undoubtedly mutual.

[RavVid]

I think go in for it. Women always have the option of turning their cheek to you and I think ears are sexy.

[Truthatanycost]

You guys are brave kissing anyone you barely know in this day and age. You've no idea where that mouth was 30 mins ago... or for how long it was where it may have been...

[DizzyDesii]

Definitely ask so its less awkward

[HawkPerception]

Glad I always do 😂

[JesseP1nk]

Asking a permission for a kiss? Oh wow you guys are so romantic. Next you gonna sign a document that you are ok to have sex?

I have just went for it - she dont want it - it is ok and i understand when she push away.

[RingOfFire]

That video was freaking funny! 🤣🤣🤣

[Dongie]

Kinda inform me as she leans in with a kiss me.

[Dongie]

I've had that. She gets a playful look in her eye, knowing you saw the green light a bit ago bit I just keep pressing as if I didn't see it. Then she sees that you did and are making her ask for it. That's all American fun right there.

[exitseven]

I donlt mind if she just goes in for it.

[NRTking]

I love yo my girlfriend