What attracts you to dating a "weirdo"?

[Anonymous]

[Mwolf]

First off I don't know if I'd call it a weirdo. Definitely not the definition of or in the "box of normal", 💯! Normal is boring. I'm not normal and I own it. My interests are FAR from normal and feminine. I'm outgoing, blunt, sarcastic, the friend who will give you a solution to your problems and hand you a Kleenex instead of letting you soak my shirt in unnecessary tears and completely invade my personal bubble space. Don't try any funny business or touchy feely stuff. Trust must be earned and you have 1 chance. I'll turn around and🦵🏻you in the 🥜 and 🍆. Any dishonesty will be immediately spotted and I'll call you out on as if on a megaphone at a football game, like a dog sniffing out drugs stuck up in from Karen's ass. Contradictory, hypocritical, narcissistic, dramatic, attention seeking, whiners, crybabies, show off, and liars will be called out pronto & can see themselves out the door. I don't have time for ridiculous bullshit and drama. Don't let the🚪hit ya where the good Lord split ya!👋🏻

[Katelina99]

My boyfriend is a self-proclaimed weirdo, and I can agree he is. He is very outspoken and is not likely to follow in line with everyone else. He does his own thing and sticks to who he is as a person. This alone, is why I truly love him. Despite him sticking out like a sore thumb from the crowd, he is himself - all flaws and good qualities are on display. He truly is a treasure in my eyes. He never tries to be accepted by anyone, his just himself. Thats all that matters to me and why he considers himself a weirdo! 🤣 His a great guy overall

[BootyKiller06]

@Katelina99 This is one of my concerns about how women will see me :(

[Katelina99]

You just need to find the right person who will accept you as you are

[BootyKiller06]

@Katelina99 mind if I ask you about it? :) I need someone to talk with.

[Katelina99]

You can ask here

[MoroccanPrincess]

@BootyKiller06 lmao 🤣

[BootyKiller06]

@MoroccanPrincess STop laughingg youuu!! :O lol

[BootyKiller06]

@Katelina99 sorry really personal and based onmy insecurity

[Katelina99]

You should seek support elsewhere if it is personal issues. I am not a licensed therapist nor adequate to provide assistance.

[MoroccanPrincess]

He was asking me the same things in my dms that's why I laughed because wtf lol I hope he gets the support though I blocked him...

[Katelina99]

Yeah I know their are people who try and seek support via DMs but it ends up getting strange 😬 My follows are closed off as well as my DMs

[WodensGedriht]

So your boyfriend is autistic?

[Taylor22424]

You all are weirdoes.

[Anonymous]

Well this completely depends on your definition of a weirdo. Honestly, as long as someone isn’t in danger. Don’t worry about who someone else is dating whose right for them maybe isn’t right for you. Just be glad as long as they’re happy, if they’re not then don’t make the same choices.

Now to answer the question. Some people seem perfectly normal at first but who they really are doesn’t come out until later. People pretend to be someone that they’re not to get someone to love them.

Another possibility is that they’re a weirdo themselves so they pick weirdos. I tend not to feel sorry for people who choose people they know are bad, I feel bad for kids they have but this is about the extent of it.

Now, there’s people who are weird without anything nefarious behind it. Look maybe there’s someone who just has a good heart who brings the best out of them and sees the good in him/her. Be happy that this person found a genuine love.

[ProbablyClueless]

At this point, nothing. I recently totally lost interest in a woman that most people would consider to be about as close to a perfect 10 as you can get for 2 distinct reasons.

1. She admitted to being on psychotropic medications and leaning heavily into religion to deal with her crippling anxiety.

2. She has very little to no dating experience with men and, due to her over bearing father, doesn't have any understanding about what healthy masculinity looks like.

I'm sure that there are plenty of lovely weirdos out there. I personally will not be dating any of them. I have learned my lesson and don't plan on repeating it.

[OlderAndWiser]

I only did it once and I will admit that the sex was too good to give up!

[DishLady]

Typically, the person doesn’t initially present themselves as a weirdo….

[exitseven]

@DishLady you never met me.

[DishLady]

😂😂😂

I’ll ask your wife if she thought you were a weirdo, then.

[hanabunny]

It depends on what you mean by weirdo because if a guy is really off-putting and creepy I don't like that but if he's dorky and doesn't have a lot of friends and considered "weird" in that way, I usually find those kind of guys more interesting than guys considered "normal."

[Lynx122]

I think what's normal and what's weird shifts over time. If you want to live in a society you need to fit in to a certain degree, but it doesn't mean you have to think the way everybody else thinks. You can still have your own view of the world you just have to adjust some of your actions.

[paledreams]

To me, she doesn't like sushi and she doesn't like oral - she's vanilla and she's pale to boot as well :) mmm my kind of 20s fussy woman ♀️ without being uptight, yet with a tight-arse and tight big natural pale tits - tans and spray tans aren't her thing either - I date a weirdo in my daydreams because I'm a weirdo and it's hard to find an ideal weirdo woman in this particular world lol - so I daydream instead lol as the man that I'm ♂️

[Bubbles934]

What’s a “weirdo”? One persons norm is another persons “weirdo”.


Too many people try to be different. If someone’s genuinely unique they are actually worth my time.


If you are talking about psychotic people. People date crazy bad people because that’s their norm and they have low self esteem

[Skinhead-1979]

I am a 'weirdo'

I am 'Down with the Sickness' (Disturbed); I am a Skinhead, and to some extend a Nerd

https://www.youtube.com/embed/09LTT0xwdfw

[Purpleronnie]

Surely most of us can fall into this category , to the weirdos , normal seems weird no? 😆 personally I tend to get on well with those that “don’t fit “ not sure if that’s meant by “weirdos” though , one persons weird is easily different to another’s

[exitseven]

I never really dated a weirdo. Girls with tattoos all over them selves or goth girls never attracted me. Hippies were a big turn off to me too.

[WodensGedriht]

I like the goth girl aesthetics but yeah these things you listed are the red flags of female mental illness.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

It's not that she's a weirdo that would stop me from getting attracted to her. Of course I still have standards and know how weird is too weird. But sometimes being weird just makes her unique which is attractive

[HawkPerception]

Weirdos are not conformists. They're not afraid to be themselves. They're unique. They add that colorfol personality to your life.

[whereismyjohnny]

I like people that are a bit eccentric and different.

[DaddyDiablo]

I guess I'm the weirdo really but if I ever date s weirdo it's mostly cause the fact that they're being themselves n that's what I appreciate the most!

[bobalife]

They’re fun & interesting. The best partners is when you can be weirdos together lol.

[dustybiker2]

It breaks up the monotony of life. Two weirdos can be a bit much sometimes.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Sincerity, the delight that comes from being genuine is a very attractive quality

[Katebfun]

I tend to like intelligent and unique people.

[Kayla45]

I’m a weirdo and my husband loves me for it, yay!! 😁

[WodensGedriht]

Aww!

[mobiusforniner]

When I saw this picture I thought it was Chewbacca with sunglasses

[jahaims]

Everyone is weird. The weirdo is just secure enough to be themselves.

[Retsam]

Uniqueness and out side of the box point of view

[Luckycharms12]

There is no such thing as normal in this crazy world. And if they're is I'll stick with the weirdos sounds more fun

[OtterMan68]

sense of adventure, not a conformist, most likely not high-maintenance

[Anonymous]

I could be drawn to dating a weirdo because they typically enjoy having violent sex.

[ArrowheadSW]

Anon... Is that a fact? Never heard of this... LOL

[Opinion Owner]

@ArrowheadSW I think so, but maybe you could prove me wrong if you are a weirdo. Lol

[Anonymous]

The sheer number of women today that are weirdos. It's less of a choice and more of a relegation.

[FarmBoy13]

Never a dull moment and keeps life super interesting

[Anonymous]

I know they can’t judge me harshly because they’re weirder

[rosemilk]

because i am also weird

[snowboarder720]

Being a weirdo, myself. 🤓

[NathanDavis]

I'm a weirdo...

[Ms_Facesitter]

Not seeing him as weird.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t date, weirdos, only crazy girls

[LiamJHayden]

Her quirkiness.

[Anonymous]

Us freaks have to stick together.

[FarmBoy13]

YESSSS!!! Keeps life interesting

[dragoblack]

She vibes with my type of weird.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

I would never date a weird guy.

[Zoi1986]

If their a silly weirdo. Creepy weirdo no.

[ManInChains]

Define “weirdo”

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Hahaha!

[Anonymous]

Well.. I am also a weirdo.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Normal is boring 😂

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Weird is creepy

[ChicoFromThe305]

No it's not, just cause the only form of weird you've experienced is creepiness doesn't make it the only form of weird crumble 😂

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Yeah, Jeffery Dahmer was weird. I wouldn't want to be called weird.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Jeffery Dahmer was sick, being weird doesn't make you sick, you are twisting it all up

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Yeah being weird is just another way to describe being sick, nasty, gross, creepy, bizarre, abnormal, strange etc

[ChicoFromThe305]

I disagree, I like to consider myself weird and inm none of those things 😌

[PrettyCrumblBb]

You got some growing up to do. Tsk tsk.

[ChicoFromThe305]

According to you perhaps, I'm sure the future wife doesn't think so tho 🤷🏽

[PrettyCrumblBb]

When is the wedding?

[ChicoFromThe305]

When the time comes I guess

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Invite me so I could throw rice at you 😂

[ChicoFromThe305]

Don't forget who has the power at my wedding crumble, I can make one of the party games "throw rice on the crumble" then everyone would rice you 😂

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Ima bring a zip lock bag and catch all the rice 😎 I gotta eat

[ChicoFromThe305]

Then make it two ziplock bags lol

[Mwolf]

Exactly. Why most females are intimidated by me and I never have/can create real relationships with other women.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@Mwolf Maybe you're boring?

[Mwolf]

@PrettyCrumblBb mostly hear the same response from every guy who ends up being a friend (like I said earlier females and I don't have much in common and they are too dramatic, girly girl, flirty, etc.) they all say I'm "intriguing" . Said with a tone of voice as if I'm mysterious or something.🤷🏻‍♀️

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@Mwolf Guys call you boring too? Maybe your more masculine?

[Mwolf]

@PrettyCrumblBb guys say I'm intriguing and start asking questions as if I'm some sort of riddle that is interesting to figure out. Some sort of quest for knowledge of becoming friends or something? I seem to either attract or repel with 0% in between, clear cut black and white, and like or dislike.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@Mwolf So you confuse them? 😂