Girls, Who be the best option as a potential partner?

[Motheman]

All 3 men are 25 years of age and live alone.

please explain what you think of each guy and what you would actually like in a potential partner?

Extremely attractive, athletic body, has a very good career and has slept with 45 women, 5 were real relationships.

7/10 looks, body is average, isn' a bum but isn't massively ambitious either and has slept with 0 women but had no relationships.

[osmanthus]

1st man is more body conscious and aware and has spent x amount of time cultivating a career and has extensive experience with sex and some relationship exp. 2nd man is content with his body and is decent man who likely has a steady job and has no sexual experience and no relationship experience.

I think I would be open to dating either one but may be a bit apprehensive about dating man 2 because a man who doesn't have some exp with women and has no sexual experience is a very steep learning curve. I don't much mind a man who is average body and who might not be ambitious so long as he may support a family but it's hard to get along with a man who doesn't know where the lady parts are and what they do and even about potentially living together. Again, to each his or her own, some are more willing to train a man whilst others not so much. I much prefer a man with more experience because I have more experience than man 2 in certain criteria.

[Motheman]

Very interesting answer thank you

[osmanthus]

But that's just me. My primary love language is touch so it kind of goes without saying that I'll have my preferences leaning more towards the physical aspects of a relationship which means my inclination to want to train might be lower than some others, dependent on the circumstances.

[osmanthus]

So a man with more EXP in the bedroom and with women in general would be more up my alley.

[Motheman]

Thats fair. Excellent answer. Given you feel that way, do you think men in general would care about ypur experience levels?

[osmanthus]

My lowest would probably be words of affirmation, so, the less the man is actually talking about sex and how attractive I am and actually 'going in the kill' well, usually, the better. Sounds crude. Sure. But I've never been one to drag foreplay for too long. I'm not averse to having my mac n cheese first. KD is welcome.

[osmanthus]

'Cause when I think about it, if I need to get it on at least once a day, I'm not going to want to wait all day. Half a day, sure, but a full day when I could be getting in on the action within the next hour is a bit much. All right with spontaneous sex so long as it's discreet, safe, and I've got a quick 15 min. break on the clock.

[osmanthus]

And I'll admit, I'm not the champion of the standing quickie. I much prefer the missionary slow burn.

[osmanthus]

Maybe one day I'll get better at the quickie the more I fap myself and get it on but once a day is a starting point.

[osmanthus]

Petting and fingering, yes, together. From the front or the back, either works. I've done it. Still consider it the least frisky action even at a dinner party but still risky and entertaining.

[osmanthus]

Anyway, that's all besides the point. Sorry about the posts. I still think one ought to choose according to one's needs.

[Motheman]

No need to apologise. I love the openess. My love language is touch as well. I love sex and i love the connection. Sure i love to just fuck sometimes but in a relationship what could be a better way to say i want you then to lick eachother and penetrate, long and deep. Obviously no condom haha

[Motheman]

Maybe we could chat it seems like we are on the same wave length

[osmanthus]

Reply: Given you feel that way, do you think men in general would care about ypur experience levels?
I think so, some men might be intimidated and others turned off. We all have our opinions and boundaries insofar as with whom we are open to dating and getting into relationships. Aome men by comparison would not bat an eye whilst others are more so welcoming. I'll respect a man's opinion even if the facts don't line up and back out of any discussion of a relationship but others are more willing to fight their corner.

[Motheman]

This is very interesting take on the matter. Hit me up with a message and we can carry on

[Anonymous]

The first one has money and he’s attractive? As long as he has no diseases I want him

[Motheman]

What makes that appealing in your opinion? And is the second guy attractive at all?

[Opinion Owner]

The other one you mentioned has no ambitions and he’s average and he’s not rich? You could’ve detailed his personality to spruce him up a bit

[Apple1996]

The man with 0 body count