Dating

How do you tell the difference between a high value man with options and a successful player?

The highest quality of man with a good income, good looks, and good personality will always have a lot of options and women who want him but how do you know the difference between that and a player?

This is not talking about self labeled players or men who have to approach 20 women to get 2 phone numbers. By a player I mean a genuinely attractive man who has many many options and uses those options at will not just ugly men who have cheated on their girlfriends or seek out masses of women to prove they have choices. Successful real players are often also good looking, are well off financially, and despite common belief have a good personality which attracts all the women. Other times they have the personality of a cardboard box or they’re complete dicks but I think people forget most players are charming and fun men who just attract a lot of company socially just not great to date because they have their pick of the lot and no resolve to not take advantage of that. Unlike a high value man they like to keep women around them for attention and validation they’re willing to wast their time on them just for the kicks.

By a high value man I mean man with all the things you’d want plus sincerity, a kind good hearted attractive wealthy man. Every woman wants a rich attractive genuine man who would love you creating a high demand for these men. However unlike a player a high quality man wouldn’t just sleep with any women, waste his money, waste his time, and entertain just anyone. These men work on themselves and until they decide to choose a woman to invest in. Even they’re dating is very particular and mindful not just a string of hookups.

How can you tell the difference between a confident high value man approaching and a player? I find it hard to tell because they both approach with confidence, look good from the outside, sometimes both have great personalities so how do you know?

How do you tell the difference between a high value man with options and a successful player?
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