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So I have a lovely boyfriend that I’ve been dating for a year now. We are long distance and comes every month once or twice to see me. Since he lives with his parents it’s quite hard for me to go there constantly but I live alone so it’s just better.
I’m his first long term girlfriend, (I have been cheated on before with an ex friend by the way) once he came he met my friends and one of them likes going to the gym and he does too he was asking her, her routine and she just said she casually does some here and there and then he responded “I can send you a personalised workout routine” the conversation was bit flirty and I came back extremely upset and he realised it and apologised to me a lot. He does try to set these friends up with his but they live in a different city.
Recently he got into poker and I don’t want to learn cos I have quite an addictive personality so later he asks me if my friends want to learn. I responded vaguely saying no no I don’t and he responds your friends ask them, I said they don’t play and he’s like well neither did I.
Am I just being insecure or are these comments genuinely sounding weird?
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Like I said before just communicate with him this is the most important thing and genuinely listen to him as well.
Otherwise this is just going to build and build and can become very nasty later on if things aren’t communicated
No your right on the money feeling bad and weird about it.
Guys do want to connect with your friends but this sounds like he wants Thier number and to talk without you!
With the poker id leave that will only get back and he will lose his money! Becoming broke and trying to bring your friends into it so he can get more money and more girls playing.
If it was the one hey wanna be gym buddies let me help... Sure he was dumb not thinking of you
The others are huge red flags! This is an uneven relationship! Good lucky sorry you were cheated on. I was to in the past
I confronted him about it and he immediately backed away saying nothing I don’t want to teach anyone. It’s really heart breaking because he’s such an amazing boyfriend in so many ways but I find this disrespectful.
Very disrespectful and he probably is when you see him. Ldr hide a lot of things. It takes time to see someone for who they are. In person it comes in like 2 years over the internet it might take like 5 years!
Good luck
What do your friends say? Like when he wants them playing poker and your against it
I genuinely don’t believe he’s a cheater of sort because of how assuring he is and how he continues to put a lot of effort into our relationship.
As for the poker part, I didn’t ask them. They don’t play we’ve never played
He does and it's good just be careful how often he reassures you. To much and you know he is hiding something. Making sure your happy and not looking or sus
Will do he once told me he told his friends “if I am happy so is he” anyway I did message him angrily he hasn’t responded let’s see
Yup let's see!
Angry about what today?
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Okay we spoke and he absolutely did not mean it in such a way, it’s just something he’s excited about and wants to share with others. He also wrote he comes to spend time with me and that he only wants to see me. This is what I mean by he is a good guy after all.
Nevermind that long distance relationship bullshit, you're setting yourself up for failure. You can play poker for poker chips and not gamble for money. Once you start playing for money is when it can become a problem.
How is it failure, we’ve done great this whole year and I plan on moving to his city because it’s work wise and economically a better choice.