Are the guys who hate single moms just incels who can't get women?

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V_Injector · Accepted Answer

Beggers are not choosers.

If you hate sluts that have Chad's and Tyrone's kids in tow, you're obviously not a beggar and have way better options in line if you wait for it. You have to deal with women online with kids trying to shame you as an INCEL though. That's always fun.

It's like being called a loser by losers that fucked up already and they're trying to shame you into being losers like them. Or you can cave into the shame and get with her or someone like her... and then you automatically become just as much of a loser as her... while you raise another man's kid with your time, effort, and money... as well as put up with more of her bullshit.

Are the guys who hate single moms just incels who can't get women?

No... the real winners dropped a kid off in your pussy and left you like the trash you are. Now you're out there begging INCELS to stop playing video games and come deal with my kids simply because you couldn't convince me to stick around after you let me smash and treat you like trash.

I was once him. I banged a cumdumpster or two though and now you're realizing I won't put up with your shit, so you're looking at the new INCELS as potential victims to use to raise my kids with you. Congratulations on where you are in life.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Well some are yes especially if they judge without understanding. Like I’ve said every single moms situation is different.

But just because a man isn’t attracted doesn’t always mean judging as a person some people just aren’t meant to be

If these dudes are such losers why focus on them….. they don’t matter.

TheRealPepperPotts · Accepted Answer

There are a variety of reasons for it.

The primary one cited is that guys don't want to raise another man's child, even though it's for a relatively brief period of time in the grand scheme of things. Another is that they don't want to become attached to the kids if the relationship doesn't work out. Some other reasons are the moral character of the mother, the financial risks, the judgement a man might receive for dating a single mom from friends and family.

I'm a widowed single mother. Part of me doesn't even want to try because I'm afraid, and that's the truth. But I know I'd like to have a relationship again. There's something about the feeling of care and protection when with a man that is very grounding for me. But I want to make sure I am in a good place first. I want it to be a forever relationship, or at least until death strikes again.

LadyKitty · Accepted Answer

It’s true that some people may not want to date single parents, and everyone has their own reasons for that. Many men in the 18-24 age range focus on themselves and are not prepared to handle the responsibilities that come with dating someone who has children. But it’s also important to note that there are small groups online that actively bash single moms, and while their views can be loud, they don’t represent every man.

On the flip side, there are plenty of people who are open to dating single parents, and sometimes it can even be easier to date someone who is also a parent, as they understand the challenges and priorities that come with raising children. Ultimately, it’s about finding the right person who values and respects your situation.

Avicenna · Answer

Of course- all men who don’t want to settle for women who have other men’s kids in tow just can’t get women at all.

has it occurred to you that psychological manipulation is counterproductive when it comes to single moms?

andreasderjuengere · Answer

From my perception, a 'single Mom' here in Asia, and one in -say- Americanesia are not necessarily of the same kind.

Your question indicates some prejudices also from your own side - are ''all'' people really thinking the same? And do they ''all'' have the same motivations and backgrounds?

As for your thesis - frustration is not the only reason to be for or against a specific situation. But basically I'd agree that all ( ... :P ) people who hate (socially, politically, or individually) have a limited intellectual horizon that does not allow them to see the bigger picture.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

It depends on the single mother and how she became single in the first place. If she is on her sixth child and they each have their own father, I can totally understand the avoidance because that that point, it is the incel in question's turn.

If she is a widow or she is able to prove that the father of her children is a menace to society and that she didn't abandon the relationship because she was bored or wanted to "find herself." Then yes, the incel in question likely fumbled big time.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I'm trying to understand. Men that don't want a used product that comes with a insta-family are just incels?  Brilliant logic.  This is why I feel dead inside.

razelove · Answer

Just because they won't be in a relationship doesn't mean they hate you. It isn't my preference, and I have other choices when I'm dating that I do prefer more. In your age range there are more women who don't have kids than there are women that do.

In my age range it's the opposite, and more women have kids than women that don't, and the women that don't have kids probably never will. If I were going for a woman your age though, there's no way I'd settle for a single mom.

Drewtate · Answer

No. They are just guys who don't want the baggage of a woman with a child. Single fathers especially the ones who actually have their kids permanently or more than most have similar problems dating as the person they are dating isn't their n01 priority.

Ladsin2 · Answer

I don't want to pay for a kid that's not mine. I also don't want to be playing second fiddle to a kid that's not mine. Mothers should put their children first, but I don't want to be in that position so I won't date single mothers. I've had a few women... So I presume I'm not an incel.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I guess it depends on what you mean when you say "hate." Because most guys that I know agree that it's better to date someone who doesn't have children from another relationship.

The guys who actively despise and criticize women who become single moms tend to be the incel types.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I Just don’t want to get involved with them because there are to many potential issues or drama that could arise from it.

and I don’t have any desire to raise or take responsibility for someone else’s kid.

i don’t hate them or anything.

Nikki1989 · Answer

That is accurate 95% of the time. They are the same ones that put down anyone who has had a successful sex life.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

It's not about hating single moms, it's about not wanting to get involved with a woman who is a likely poor decision maker and has a kid that isn't yours and most guys, unlike women, don't have much paternal feeling for any kid not theirs. Don't want a woman with emotional baggage like that.

Agape93 · Answer

That and assholes who like slut shaming anyone not a virgin

SugarSugarplum · Answer

Many men have no interest in being the ATM that pays to raise some deadbeats kids. Also, women who let lots of guys make babies and leave are dirty and have no self respect.

Raaj4you · Answer

No, I don't want to take the responsibility of kids. I am a single guy and I want to enjoy my sex life before having kids. I don't hate kids but I need more time to father kids. First, I want to be a good husband then a good father. All these years I have dreamed of marrying a good mature woman and having lots of sex with my wife. I want to live that dream.

I think a man with kids is a perfect fit for a woman with kids. They have the higher chances of understanding each other well.

itsannalee · Answer

Most yes, but not all.  It’s just same like people who date girls online overseas. Mostly they are men who can't even attract girls around them.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Hating someone for being a single mom  does tell something strong  about one's psychology. What it means exactly, why and how is mostly the job of therapists lol

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely, all men who don't want to raise another man's child, don't want to date a woman who has made poor decisions and don't want to date a woman whose primary focus is on her child must be in incels.

slatyb · Answer

Mostly. One can choose not to date single mothers without hating them.

Apple1996 · Answer

Most of them yes. They can't get anyone so they spend their time shaming women like single moms. It's pretty disgusting tbh

NYlatefun · Answer

I don’t get why would anyone hate single moms. I’ve dated a couple and they’re great.

LadiesFavoriteToy · Answer

No... lol we are men who judge women for their poor choices and open their legs for any man. That's all... we aren't going to be taking care of another man's kids.

jahaims · Answer

They are a part of it. Most of the hate comes from the single moms who are trying to act like a prize when its just simp losers who will take what they can get.

RavVid · Answer

Who hates single moms? Just not interested in them is all.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Not all of them. You have your fuckbois and simps mixed in too.

Anonymous · Answer

Its so weird to HATE single moms. You dont have to date them why do they HATE them? Lmao. Thats psychotic.

Oncewildtwiceburned · Answer

Usually they are the sons of sine moms/no bio dad

Anonymous · Answer

not wanting to date single moms =/= hating single moms

demonics · Answer

I imagine, not being a single mother in the first place would do wonders.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Typically yes. A man that rages against women especially women they don't even no are super weird to me.

Anonymous · Answer

Are single moms just jealous because they made poor choices and now use pathetic shaming tactics like "incel" 😂

Pohjolan · Answer

Just because someone doesn't want to date you doesn't mean that they hate you.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Maybe, but they're probably no-life and/or religious fanatic busybodies.

Tomisworthless · Answer

yeah but i tend to just hate most women but it just comes from my lived experience

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

WHY WOULD WE WANT TO RAISE WHAT SOME OTHER DUDE NUTTED IN YOU?

CubaPirate · Answer

What about women who won't date single dads

buzzword · Answer

It's easy to see why you are a single mom.

ashish804 · Answer

usually many don't hate them

LiamJHayden · Answer

That does not logically follow.

Anonymous · Answer

Hate or just don't want to date?

paledreams · Answer

Nah surely not 🚭🚫

Walksbehindtherows · Answer

No, that's not true.

Anonymous · Answer

Most are

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

yeah pretty much

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