I know many guys will not date single moms but why do you hate them?

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hi_it_is_me123 · Accepted Answer

Gag guys dont represent the majority of men. This year gag become a home for more and more incels to the point more and more women leave this site and to the point many takes and questions has replies that trashtalk women or there are more and more questions and takes that tend to be sexist. Therefore, this site kinda mess up with my mental health. Imagine seeing bunch of people trashtalking your gender. I can't stand this anymore. I deactivated my account many times because of this. [By the way an incel ain't a virgin for me. Incels are misogynistic people. ]
Not only single mums, but also women over their 30s are seen as leftovers by many gag guys.
I have seen a traditional submissive girl in her 30s who even get told that she is leftovers due to her age. What do you want? Should majority of women kill themself since majority of them ain't in their 20s, virgin or childless?
Now some of the guys in the commentsection say that they dont hate them but i have seen them saying in their other posts that they would use single mums as sextoys. How would you feel when women women use you for your money? Then dont complain about golddiggers when you are not better than them. It is perfectly ok if you dont prefere single mums but why do you hate them so much?
I also see many or some single gag males in their late 30s,40s,50s and even single dads but they have the audacity to shame women for being single mums or being over their 30s.
I also notice that these same guys are kinda obsessed with young girls which is disgusting and creepy and grooming behaviour. I saw a guy in his 30s who indirectly admit that he dates highschool girls although her parents were not ok with it. I reported him and even mods agreed with me but they could not do anything.
These guys probably want very young women because women their age dont fall for their shit but young women tend to be naive etc. but they also leave them when they get older aka grow up. This is one of the reasons why the divorce rate is higher the bigger the age gap

I know many guys will not date single moms but why do you hate them?

I also dont generalize men. I am just summarizing the opinions of many gag guys and add my opinion. I just explain how i see more and more radicalized guys on gag and youtube. I did not even see any feminazi that hate men on the same level the mgtow/redpill guys hate women. It is kinda scary to me. Fortunately, men in real life are very nice and cool. Dont get me wrong. I also like some guys on gag who are very nice but just the redpill/mgtow incels scares me lol. I get death threats, stalked and harrassed despite blocking them since they create new accounts Now my replies get systematically disliked because even posts about my favourite food, celebrity get dislikes for no reason and i even simp men in some of my posts to see if i get still dislike and i get it. My very old posts get new dislikes too. So these people search my nickname and stalk me to give me a dislike 😆🙃.

Sorry for writing so much and i am sorry if i offended anyone.

Bee-Hatch · Accepted Answer

Oh it's because boys don't like the idea that you might have had sex with someone else. The kids kind of a giveaway.  Once they grow up, men don't mind.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

I date single Moms only cuz I am a single Dad , But to answer your question , Most single guys don’t want a girl that has kids from another guy , Mainly cuz they don’t want to take on the responsibility of having to take care of a child that isn’t theirs , Most guys are very territorial when it comes to falling for a girl , They want her all to themselves , It’s a turn off to most guys if she already has kids, mainly because most people don’t like thinking about their partner having sex with someone else , so by her already having kids he will hate the fact that it wasn’t his kids, it’s some other guy that made them with her , Kids are walking proof that she was pounded by another guy sorry to sound so blunt but it’s truth , I will be honest when I was younger and single with no kids , I didn’t want a girl that already had kids , I was totally against it , it was a turn off to me because I wanted a girl to only have my children not someone else’s , Girl’s that I would date some of them lied to me or kept it a secret that they already had a child and to me that was a turn off the fact they lied about not having a child but As I got older and had my own kids I realized it was stupid of me to be that way and I understood why those girls I dated kept it a secret cuz again they were looking for love but guys would turn them down cuz they had kids , Girls have turned me down when they found out I already had kids , so it’s one of those things that just happens , I realized I am going to dislike someone just cuz they had children already , Having my own kids made me realize how much I love kids , But the funny thing is now that my kids are older , I am looking for a girl that doesn’t want more kids , I am at a point in my life that I can’t see myself starting over raising kids , so I am ok if she already has kids and doesn’t want more , So again I think it all just comes down to where someone is in their lives. kids are a lot of responsibility and most people aren’t capable of taking on that responsibility , Why I really didn’t date much after my divorce I mainly focused on my kids and didn’t want to put that responsibility on to someone else , Now that my kids are older and pretty much taking care of themselves makes me more open to dating cuz I know my kids are at an age now that they can take care Of themselves pretty much and I am not looking for a girl to take care of them

ShadezMcgee · Accepted Answer

I don't hate single parents by any means. When it comes to single mothers, there are a lot of reasons why men view them in a negative light.

My reasons for not being interested in single mothers would be below. Again, don't hate them, but definitely not something I would have the desire or energy to go through with.

1.) The kid will always come first over you, rightfully so. A kid requires a lot of time, especially when the mom is not working to make money. Her spare time will mostly be dedicated to the child. Any dates will be dependent on baby sitters and her schedule from her commitment to work as well. This isn't counting any emergency the kid may have like sickness, school, etc.

2.) The baby daddy. Most of the time the baby daddy is in the picture one way or another be it with split custody or alimony. If she still has any interaction with the man who is the father of her child to a heavy degree, there is a good likelihood she would go back to him on a physically intimate point and I believe a part of that is do to pair bonding and biology. I would rather not deal with being in competition with or face a possibly hostile dude.

3.) The kid. I don't like the idea of helping raise a kid that isn't biologically mine. The possibility of getting attached to him/her and vice versa or him/her resenting me just sounds like an annoying hassle to deal with. The other bit to go with that is I have no say on how the kid is raised if there is something I don't like. Plus I feel rotating doors of men in a single mom's life takes a toll on the kid emotionally and psychologically.

4.) I would rather date a woman who is free from those commitments by being single and not having the responsibility of having a kid.

5.) This one is a personal opinion and very judgmental, but in my eyes, unless she married and widowed young, if she is single and taking care of a kid at a young age I feel it is a sign of poor judgment and decision making. Divorce, impulsive decision on having sex with the wrong man, etc.

6.) Financially I am really only able to support myself. Taking on a woman and her kid as well would be a bad move on my end.

VanillaSalt · Answer

Hate? Not hate just unacceptable to date… and I’ll tell you why.

1. All women bring trouble of some kind so if your going to date find the best you can get to make it worth it.

2. You will never come first. First to her is always someone else’s child then hopefully your children, then usually her because that’s a mans place putting women first, then you… who wants to always come in 4th. If it’s just 2 the last still means second… if you have a kid well it’s your kid after all so be a man and put the kid first anyway… but to put someone else’s kid first? You went from 2nd maybe 3rd to 4th.

3. You have to support that child but generally you hear I don’t need a daddy for my lid. You cannot punish my child… etc. Your always the stepfather never the dad. And I’ve done the stepparent thing. Their never quiet… yours. As bad as that is to say.

4. She’s a single mother. Nothing could be more irresponsible in my opinion. I would never date someone that made such bad choices. Sure there's rape and specific situations and widows but that’s barely a % of all single child births. Ima just assume your a whore and don’t know how to wear a condom. But I’ll respect a single mom still more than some whore that performs abortions to fix her mistakes. Their irredeemable.

Browneye57 · Answer

Nobody 'hates' them, they just have no business dating in the first place. Whatever time they have left after working and running a household by themselves, they owe to their children. That's the least she can do for them, having fucked up their family life with a broken home in the first place. They NEED this time, they NEED their parent, whatever is left. When the kids are grown and gone then MAYBE she can dip her toe in the dating pool once again.

Secondly, everybody knows that a new love interest in this situation is never their priority. EVER. Those kids, her mother, her job, her friends, ALL come before the new guy. He just has no real value to her - maybe some sex, or if he's really a plow-horse, maybe she can convince him to help her out with this huge project of raising her children and running the household.

And finally, everybody also knows that the new guy will NEVER have final say in ANYTHING. EVER. Zero authority. He's always a second-class parent, he's always a 'step'. Even the kids know this.

No, a guy would have to be a moron to want to raise someone else's crotch-fruit. If he wants a family he should start his own, not try to marry into someone else's. It just never quit works like you had hoped or wanted it to.

MCheetah · Answer

I don't hate single moms. I MAY dislike the fact that many of them have terrible attitudes and think having children and being slutty in their early 20s somehow makes them "braver or stronger" than intelligent women who use protection, don't get knocked up, and are smart with their choices of men (as in, not sleeping with Chads and assholes who aren't daddy material). You don't deserve a medal for being a single mother; screw that BS. Now, you deserve SOMETHING for being a GOOD mother, but single moms, statistically (unless they're widowed or something) are far less likely to be good mothers being as they can't even get their own lives correct, most of the time.

The reason no one wants to date a single parent is because it's a lot more work and investment, for a lot less payoff (you have to impress both the mother and her kids, and she will always put you dead-last in her list of priorities, not that you can blame her for that). I use the metaphor, it's like buying a used car at 50% more the price of a new one. Unless it was owned by a celebrity or is a one-of-a-kind car, you'd have to be foolish or amazing to take such a bad deal.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t hate them. Some of the time it happened through no fault of their own. They met a guy who seemed to be good and he turned out to be a piece of shit.

What I do hate is the way many women think about it and their attitudes towards it.

When it comes to this the main priority should be the children. Children do better with two parents in a healthy, loving relationship. That’s a statistical fact. But many women see it as no big deal.

In response to the above many women will say “yeah but shit happens”. Sometimes it does, but sometimes it also happens because you didn’t think about the consequences of your actions.

If you think that becoming a single mother isn’t a big deal you’re probably not going to vet a guy to see if he’s going to he a good father to your children. You’re probably not going to be as careful about who you have unprotected sex with. You’re probably going to choose based entirely on feelings without any logic.

So a woman like that meets a guy who is good looking, funny, makes her feel good. He knocks her up, and he’s not ready for a kid. Or maybe he sticks around, but he’s just no good in the relationship now that the kid is here. It all goes tits up and now she’s a single mother. Might not have happened had she thought about it a little bit more.

Some women also attempt to shame men into doing things to suit them, no matter what, and these women are delusional. It’s the same as nice guys calling women who don’t want them sluts.

Some of the answers here for example say that those women deserve better than the guys who don’t want single mothers because those men aren’t responsible men. So responsible, high value men are those who want to take on another man’s kids. Those are the “real men”. It’s bullshit.

Some will call those guys incels. I’m married with kids, obviously not an incel. I wouldn’t be with a single mother when I was single.

backblueblack22 · Answer

I absolutely don’t “hate” single moms. I respect most of them for taking responsibility of raising their kids.

But what I don’t like is how some women fall for worthless assholes, have kids with them and then all of the sudden the “nice guy” is a best option. I have no interest in being your fucking safety net. I was the guy you friendzoned years ago while you happily spread your legs for abusive/irresponsible assholes.

Now again not all single mother’s are what i described above. I dated a widow a few years ago. Her husband died in a car accident. That was different. But again I have no interest in being a “savior”.

DJB72 · Answer

I don't understand why a Real Man wouldn't be prepared to date a single mum. I've got two girls I love (as friends) who are single mums who if I wasn't married I'd definitely consider asking out. It's tricky when you get involved with a single parent because you have to take the child into consideration - you're not just taking on one heart, you're impacting two (or more). An emotionally immature guy is more likely to be self-involved in a relationship and not see the benefits of getting involved with a single mum.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Single moms do not bother me. Frankly short of importing a childless women from some other location, single moms are the only option in my area. That being said, not all single moms are created alike. Some are completely irresponsible serial poor decision makers around here whilst others lead very productive and happy lives. Unfortunately the irresponsible serial poor decision making variety are in great supply in my area. Granted, even prior to motherhood they where irresponsible. I mean pretty much every women in my area has the same cheap bottle of vodka in their purse that they drink warm and chase down with some equally cheap warm drink.

loveslongnails · Answer

There are a lot of morons on here who voice the opinion that "all single moms are ho's who either drove their men away or just tried to trap them". While that might be true if the woman is trash, none of the single moms I know personally come close to that description. All the ones I know either got dumped by their guys because the men decided they didn't want to be "daddy or hubby" and take responsibility for their actions, or it was a mutually agreeable divorce. They all work hard to make ends meet, and I have a lot of respect for them.

If a guy just flat out calls single mom's whores, or says he hates them, consider the source. He's probably had a bad experience, or knows anecdotes of bad experiences, or is a loser himself. No one should bash a single mom without knowing ALL the facts.

ZackBan · Answer

Because guys are generally reluctant to having kids of their own much less raise someone elses.

Most single moms make it sound like it shouldn't be a big deal for a man to take her and her children on but the fact is it's a huge deal especially if the guy has never had kids before since usually guys get mentally prepared for these things during pregnancy and have 9 months to accept their new reality. But telling a guy you just went a date with that you have children and and he will have to take on that responsibility is not gonna fly well 9/10 times.

The best bet for a single mom is to find a single dad. Because a single dad is already in that headspace and mentally ready for kids and if they like eachother they can have a mutually beneficial arrangement about the kids

djmzes · Answer

Simple

There will be always some that will hate you, love you or neutral about it and it is their right to do that.
If someone hates you, so be it. Accept it and find someone you like you for what you are.
Everyone makes mistake, but the key is to accept the mistakes, but accepting the mistake if ever, does not means reset button. It means agrees with whatever consequences that will come with it whether you like it or not.

Oigit · Answer

Given the fact that I could be force to pay child support for a child that isn't mine is the main reason that I will not. I do not hate them for it. Because its a example of the pendulum swing too far the other way in the legal system. Single mothers for a very long time had next to no recourse against men that simply left them with the child and kept a low profile. Even collecting child support from the men that owed it is still like pulling teeth. Now the pendulum has swung the other way. So men that choose to date single women had the tables turned against them in the legal system. So its not that I hate dating single women. Its very much a choice I made to protect myself.

DeltaCharlieEcho · Answer

Single-motherhood is a display of bad decision making either in her choices in men or her choices in life. It displays that you either have a history of thinking you're better than the men that you're dating or that the men you're dating don't want to stay with you and it could also mean that you've too self involved and think that the world owes you everything simply because you're 'special' in your mind. No man will even measure up to a woman like that; and no man, no matter what he says, wants to raise another man's kid.

Ronald_25 · Answer

I will date single mums but they won't date me 😄 not long term anyway, they just want casual relationship with me. I would like 4 mixed race children with a Caucasian partner, so If she already has 2, then we have a total of 6. That might be too many children for one vagina 🤷🏽‍♂️. Example of half Indian half British-White people below 😊.

ohshee · Answer

I Think most guys might be over thinking it and they're being selfish for me I like single moms because they have their shit together. And you can tell exactly how much they do just by the way they treat their kids they know what they have to do in life they know what comes first in life and hopefully that's their kids always no matter what if a single mom can prove that to me did I would rather date her

Fireguy17 · Answer

I have in the past.
As you get older the chances of dating someone that doesn't have kids becomes less and less.
What you been to look at is how the mother and father get along with each other concerning the kids.
Are they able to put the past behind them, and not use the kids to get back at each other.
Are there always petty arguments about anything and everything.
Those type of things might make you want to move on.
Who would want to subject themselves to that type of behavior.
It will become all consuming and you will find yourself getting drawn into it.
Some disagreements will always come up, that is normal.
Constant fighting over everything is not fun.
You need to factor in the kids into a relationship, they aren't going anywhere.
Don't expect the kids to like or accept you right away, to them you are just someone that is banging their mom or dad.
It can work out just fine, it just takes a bit more work.

AgentRED · Answer

Hate single moms? No there’s no hate, but that’s your choice if you want to believe so, really.

It’s not hate but most of us don’t really see a point in dating a single mom for several reasons and ofcourse , these reasons do stack. I really wouldn’t want a one-sided relationship where the single mom and her kid will benefit only and there wouldn’t be time to bond with the mom to see if you’re both compatible? Besides, they’re single for a reason and I do not want to be just a walking atm in that “relationship”.

In fact, I’d rather spend money on an E-girl than a single mom. Oops….

The-Wise-Phoenix · Answer

Because single mothers are cancer on any society.
They do nothing but cause pain and dysfunction.
They are low IQ women having sex with low IQ men and producing low IQ kids.

Most of the boys they raise end up in prison.
Most of the girls they raise end up as single mothers themselves and perpetuate the cycle.
And they suck the taxpayers dry by collecting welfare or living on unemployment most of the time. We are living in a time where we are literally subsidizing single motherhood.
And that is why many people not just guys have a problem with single mothers.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

It’s not hate, but it is complicated.. it’s more resentment. Within men’s circles it is widely believed that stereotypical single mothers are often women who had their party days and fun in college, ended up pregnant, and now want to settle down with a “provider” that they never would have bothered to even look at before.

Further, regardless of the reason, dating a single mother has significant obstacles. You will always come in last place in her life and most importantly, if you do cohabitate or get married and it doesn’t work out, you are responsible for child support of a child that isn’t yours.

Anonymous · Answer

There’s a number of reasons. One is she’s probably never free as much as opposed to a girl w out a child. Two there’s potential for baby daddy drama. Three, he’s not ready for an instant family. Four he just doesn’t like the idea of raising someone else is kid. I dated a girl before w a child, it was ok but everyone, which it should to a degree, revolved around the kid. We’d have to cancel plans, child is sick I can’t go, babysitter cancelled, child’s father is coming by to visit I can’t go. Overtime as we were together for a while I tried to discipline the child for throwing food by telling him not to, course she got mad sad not to scold her kids who was 4 at the time so I’m like fuck it you want me to be w you but when it comes to your child we’re separate. Plus for me women are difficult as it is, now throw a child in the mix, all the crying, breaking down, mad at the ex for not helping, etc, etc.

Anonymous · Answer

We have men being raised by single moms who were raised by single moms...

We have men who have been used as a meal ticket.

we have men who dated single moms, became attached to the children, then she leaves..

We have women who passed up the good guys when they were young to have fun , then expect the good guys they ignored to pick up the tab..

I've seen it all, I watched my mom walk over the good guys to chase assholes and finally settled for the good guy once she turned 40 and wanted stability. Hardly a fair deal for him was it?

ronaldo75 · Answer

It has nothing to do with hate. You're using the word hate as a way to make single mothers into victims. The truth is many guys don't want to put that kind of weight on their shoulders. There's nothing wrong with that and we have the total right to feel that way. The same way a lot of women don't date single fathers, won't date short men, won't date poor men, won't date black men , won't date men without a car, won't date men in many different situations.

We have the right to say we don't want to be burdened with the responsibility of raising another man's child. Period.

Guanfei · Answer

No one hate single moms. It's just complicated to date them.

First, you're never a priority to them. Whatever happens, you'll get to see her whenever she has the time, which is often never.
And the rest of the reasons are linked to it. If everything goes well with the mom, but the kid doesn't like you, you're out.
And on the contrary, you can get along with the kid and get attached to him, but if it doesn't work with the mom, you'll never see the kid again.
Also, you have to take care of a child who isn't your own, and you have no say on his education, and no authority on him. The mom of course, but also the real dad are before you, even tho you're more present. You give the same amount of effort, but the result is even less guaranteed than in a regular relationship.

In the end, you're just an option in the relationship. It's not the mom and you, it's the mom, the dad, the kids, and maybe you.

Lazi-boi · Answer

I don't hate them up to the point where some start commenting that I should want to take care of them, and implying that only a "real man" is "strong enough" to look after them.

Basically, I don't like the ones that act like douchebags.

HawkPerception · Answer

I don't hate them, but having a kid is symbolic that you've went that far with another guy. And although mistakes happen, and I don't judge others for their mistakes, I do want to have my own blood as a kid. A mother of a kid is less likely to want more from another guy in my opinion and is focused on raising her own. Not that I would hate the mother's kids or treat them less, but wanting continuing our own bloodline is a guy thing.

JustAnj · Answer

For the guys who don't like single moms and won't date them I think it's actually good they feel that way because these women deserve better men and responsible men. No woman should have to deal with a man with these kind of mindsets.

The mature men have the decency to understand that they could not give a good life to her and her kids being that they are not ready to be in that stage of a relationship. So honestly I see this as good, let them tread far away.

slatyb · Answer

We don't hate them, but we know her children will come first for many years, and the man will get what's left over. "Hey, want to go out tonight?" "Let me check... sorry I can't get a baby sitter" Why would a single childless man want to deal with that when there are single childless women available?

Nik1hil · Answer

1) Man is never the higher priority to her than the kids..
2) Do you know when a lion conquered a new territory.. He kills the existing Cubs of the lioness so he can pursued them to mate with him..
Being similar to that man do not want to raise other men's kids.. (it's against our natural instinct ) although we repress it because we are civilized..

Anonymous · Answer

I don't hate them at all. But I wouldn't date one at my age. I would not like to deal with the problems of schedules to see us or to go out. Obviously the children will be their priority , I would gladly accept their children be priority only if the child was mine too.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I will date a Single Mom, the last girl who lives on the West Coast I had to let her down to date her cause the reason I live on the East Coast and I told her distance is the issue, she wanted to date long distance but just think, no physical contact, no dating to eating out, no holding hands, no cuddles, no kisses, no hugs... She had a 2-year-old
child who had heart problems but that wasn't the issue

FakeName123 · Answer

Hate may be the wrong word - but as a matter of fact most single moms are at best reckless people and cause a lot of societal damage.

Most young people with mental instability, suicidal tendencies, criminal tendencies and more come from single mom homes.

Pj1981 · Answer

I don't hate them at all. In fact I have more respect for them. I would never let the fact she has kids get in the way. However I have had a bad experience with my exes kid making things difficult for our relationship at times but that's life. I still fell deeply in love with her, who she was, and how she handled things.

worldscolide · Answer

Don't hate them all, just the ones that actively alienate the father and force the father to go to court just to see his children.

bolverk · Answer

First off , guys do not hate single moms, we differentiate between those who could have used any of the 12 methods (in total and counting) and did not or if they are divorced.
And single moms who have lost there partner through illness or accident, these we are most likely to date.

TheFlak38 · Answer

Yeah congratulations to single mothers for contributing to the destruction of society from within and perpetuating the vicious cycle by giving us more criminals, drug addicts, sluts, white knights, fat man-babies, feminists with strange-coloured hair. Apparently for you we should be praising them instead of hating them for the shit they're producing.

Hairylegs222 · Answer

I don't hate them, I just no longer date single moms. Had bad experiences with the ones I dated too. I didn't make the mistake of having kids with a partner than it didn't work out. If a couple has kids they better make sure that guy or girl they're with are 100% going to be together forever. Having kids on accident excuse is irresponsible and wreckless in my opinion.

phorse · Answer

I don't hate them, but I understand why they can be annoying. Quite a lot of them have unrealistic expectations and high standards when it comes to dating. Meanwhile they don't have much to offer, only problems and drama.

Nikki6t6 · Answer

Probably a few reasons pop to mind. Younger dudes don’t want to get teased by their friends that they’ve hooked up with a ready made family. Second reason is that guys feel they’ll be chained down by having to be more responsible because of the kids involved.

Obviously, not all men have the same viewpoints and the idea of dating single mom’s doesn’t bother them.

Iron_Man · Answer

I’ll date them but I’m not going to get married or make any commitments I’m not the original father. Plus I would always be the third wheel behind the children and feel like an outsider every time we’re all together. All
my plans would have to be made around the children if I had something to do I would be given hell over it

Anonymous · Answer

because they are the ones supposed to be happy that someone would even think of wanting to touch their tainted lives and be part of it yet they come with all kinds of demands that, frankly, they don't deserve to be given AND they put their child first no matter what. Why would any man put himself through that kind of shit when he could rather take a normal woman without kids

dragoblack · Answer

Hate them? Absolutely not.
I understand that when you go into a relationship with a mother, the kid takes priority. which a great deal of time, makes it really hard to go on dates and do romance stuff, making it extremely difficult for romance to grow.

Protein_mate · Answer

I certainly don't, I would date a single mum depending on how we got on.

I'd imagine these men adopt a "used goods" approach which to me in my opinion is just so superficial and negligent of what who she is as a person and individual

Longbeachguy2010 · Answer

I ain't instrested or stupid enough to take the responsibility on a kid that isn't mine or in dating a woman that has 3 baby daddies!
This is why I only date 20 year old young childless woman a woman my own age if she single with a kid NO THANKS GOOD BYE!

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

I’m sure you’ve heard of the saying damaged goods & when it comes to dating once someone says they have kids that’s a whole new ballgame & when some people hear that they are out like a fat kid in dodgeball.

Paris13 · Answer

No man Should Hate Them. It is their Right to NOT--Date them. xx

Jackalope307 · Answer

For myself. When rateing a single parent (I was a single dad for a long min an this goes both ways ) the person gets attached the kids then if things go bad. It seems like there's a empty spot from it. Which is wires then missing jus the person tour dating

DesiringSupport · Answer

I don't think anyone hates single mothers? where do you get that idea? would you mind answering some of the questions I've posted? im also looking for a friend, or someone supportive?

Jfranco12 · Answer

I don’t hate them but I am not dealing with or taking care of someone else’s kids especially at my age

gntlman · Answer

It really depends on the situation. However in many cases, children can make the relationship complicated especially if the single mom is so overly protective and enabling toward her children, that the man has no disciplinary authority. I know a couple of guys who have married single moms, and those moms consistently undermine their authority in the house.

Jlegacy · Answer

Hate is a strong word. Personally I believe everyone gets turned on by people who make extremely smart decisions but that doesn't mean you'd crucify someone who made a mistake, owned it and is thriving now. I'd never hate a person like that.

iBeowulf · Answer

The juxtaposition between the men's and women's answers! Hahahaha! Don't be her golden parachute, boys!

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Its not about hating them. It's just easier not to. Easier to plan time together, can be more spontanious, and if guys you've seen doing this are your age, they aren't ready to settle down

raw_is_war99 · Answer

I don’t hate single moms, I guess it’s the expectation in my mind that these aren’t my kids and those kids may be somewhat pissed off because their dad is no longer in the family.

exitseven · Answer

I do not hate them. Kids take up a lot of time and resources especially when they are young and often cause friction in a relationship. If the kids were grown I guess I might feel differently.

Andres77 · Answer

Hate? I don't see that. As long as the single mom was hot guys are still going to want to fuck her but guys are seldom excited about raising someone else's kids. That does not equal hate.

CreamySeed · Answer

Kids take up a lot of time (and money) you as a man are just a replacement for the baby daddy who may still be in the picture pissed off/stalking her etc much better to find a childless woman if at all possible

DWornock · Answer

Hate is a pretty strong word implying we wish to do them harm. That is very rare so men don't hate single moms. It is enough to know that single moms are trash and, since they have no value, it is best to avoid any close relationship.

Avicenna · Answer

We don't hate then, it's just that we know that they generally aren't dating material (I can think of only one single mom I know who is).

dillbill561 · Answer

They have a habit of leaving their men. The man is still alive, they either symbolize bad judgement or immature/unloyal behavior. The dilemma is really becoming a pandemic

Yaharro · Answer

Not reason for hating single mom personaly. Most dudes avoid kind of relationship simply because they don't share deep relationship or it's because they don't want to take responsibility

Vikkrram · Answer

Honestly speaking i never have thaught about this...

I know many guys will not date single moms but why do you hate them?

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