True or false: guys should give the girl the space to message after a first date and exchanging numbers?

[Anonymous]

If after the first date, you both had a good time and she asked for your number. And you both swapped numbers. Should you give her the space to message first? If you said to her to send a message when she gets home.

Yes give her the space to message you first

No you should message her and say you had a nice date and thank her.

[Summeroflove]

Depends on the situation but in a situation where both people are genuinely attracted. It won’t just be one person putting all the effort in, messaging first, planning dates, etc. If only one person is doing that assume either this person isn’t into you or is one sided. Either way probably not going to work out well in the end. So know when to just be kind but say you don’t think things are working out but I enjoyed the time we spent.

As long as both people are making a effort to talk, plan dates, and the list goes on. Then it’s a green flag both people are genuinely interested. If it feels one sided and forced. Not good

[RebelinSteel]

I just message either way, even if it’s a ‘thanks for a great night etc’

[Nirmroth]

If you asked her to message you when she gets home safe then ofc the ball is in her field. If she doesn't message within a day I would ofc ask if everything is allright

[jahaims]

Opinions aren't true or false. Facts and fallacies are.

[LiamJHayden]

If the first date went well you plan the second before saying good night.