She says we need to part what do I do?

[Anonymous]

So there's this girl i met through work we were talking for a while and we got pretty close but then i asked her to be my girlfriend and then she kissed me and said yes then about a week later she said she realized she wasn't in the right headspace and we couldnt be in a relationship since i was going to college and she's finishing high school. i haven't really talked that much after that our conversations kinda dried up. i still want to at least talk to her tho even if i have to wait 14 years she's worth the wait. what do i do?

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help with the situation or keep scrolling dont tell me that i need to move on thats not what i asked

[Oliverlogan263]

Alright dude, this is a tough situation but I've got some advice.

First off, you gotta respect her decision even if it sucks. Pushing her when she said she's not ready will only make things worse.

That said, I don't think you need to cut her off completely either. Maybe back off romantically for now, but see if you can stay friends. Every once in a while text her something funny or ask how she's doing in a chill, no-pressure way.

Keep the conversations light and don't bring up getting back together. She needs space to see you as just a friend again before anything else happens.

Who knows, in a few months once you're both settled into new routines she may change her mind. But don't sit around waiting - live your life, meet new people. If it's meant to be it'll happen naturally down the line.

Stay positive, man. You never know what the future could hold as long as you stay cool and respect where she's at now. This could just be a little bump, so don't lose hope yet!

[LiamJHayden]

Oh, man. Break that case of one-itis and move on. Once you date other women you will see that there are great ones out there.

[Asker]

dated plenty even fallen in love before

[avery58]

You're about to make the biggest mistake of your life. Move on. There's plenty of other women out there, you would have fallen in love with another one if you hadn't met her anyway.

No one is worth that kind of wait.

[avery58]

I recommend talking to new people, dating apps help

[avery58]

Update: If she was a great as you think she wouldn't ask you to wait 14 years for her, that's the bitter truth

And if she DIDN'T ask you to wait then why do you want to? She made her decision you have to respect it
And you did ask what you should do. If you don't want sane answers then don't ask.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

She wants to part ways, so believe her.

If she loves you, she will fight for the relationship, against all odds.

[Anonymous]

14 years? lol? What’s that special about her

[Anonymous]

14 years?

You are joking, right?

[Asker]

i couldnt have created a better person

[Plugs]

Why? What’s so great in her