For which gender is it easier to get a boyfriend or girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Men

Women

[FunkyMonkee]

Women!! They just have to walk into a room of 30 guys and at least 25 of them will want to fuck her on the spot. A guy walks into a room od 30 women and 3 of them might even go so far as to bother look at him.

[Asker]

Spot on

[DrPepper12]

Why were you going on in this for this vanilla question?

It's obviously easier for a girl to find a guy whether it's for a relationship or an ONS

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

All these guys saying women because they are confusing sex with an actual relationship. I'd say it's equally hard to find a real relationship.

[Chthou95]

It's really not. Women just want the select few men they desire to be faithful to just them but those men dont play by women's rules and then women get bitter & complain about it

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

So then you're saying it's easier for men to get relationships cause they can just lie their way into it and not be a committed partner. Got it.

[Chthou95]

It's easier for a select few men. Women dont want most men and so they expect the rare few they're chasing to be faithful to them. The problem is that these men are wanted by multiple women so they never have to settle dowm with just one woman

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Well that's just incel nonsense there. If that were true, nobody would be married.

[Chthou95]

Attack the argument. Dont throw ad homien when you don't have an actual rebuttal

[Nirmroth]

She did by saying there would be no married couples or couples in general. Go actually outside, preferably in a park and have a look around.

Problem with incels is that they life in their own echo chambers in the internet repeating the same stuff over and over again. Their ego doesn't allow the fact that theyre single bec theyre nasty looners and rather blame women to avoid reality.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

As Nirmroth said, I did attack the argument. I also said it's an incel argument.

I'm sorry reading comprehension eludes you, but that's not my problem.

As I said, no couples would exist because supposedly all women want only the "top men" completely ignoring the fact that everyone's tastes are different. So what is top tier for one woman may not be the same for another. In all honesty, we go for the kinder guy who treats us right. Sometimes that message gets mixed and who we think is right ends up being abusive garbage who are great liars and manipulators.

Yoi are confusing a small subset of gold diggers with the entire female gender which, frankly, is an incel thought process.

[Chthou95]

@Nirmroth I don't need your condescending advice. I have life experiences and have a life away from the internet. I observe patterns and here we go with the just world fallacy bullshit

[Chthou95]

No women's taste tends very specific. There's always a general type. Generalities are thing and i value that more than individualism. A typically a high value man is pretty objective. In shape, has money, status and confidence. It not as subjective as you think it is. And being high value doesn't mean you're a good person. A high value man can be a bad person and still be successful. And if the word incel didn't exist, what word would you be using to describe something you disagree with?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I'd use whatever word would accurately describe the, frankly, incorrect life views you are spewing. Right now that's incel view although I'm reserving the right to use that name for you in general for a later date and time

[Chthou95]

My views of life are more accurate because i pay more attention than you actually think you do. And that's fine. You can call me whatever you want. Im not gonna lose any sleep over it. But generalities are a thing and they're very valuable

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Ok then. Cool story, bruh

[Nirmroth]

You "observe patterns" (watches incel stuff on youtube) sure. Its gonna be a big surprise in 50 years when humanity hasn't died out bec women would only partner with the top 20% or whatever % you think off like you claim.

[Chthou95]

@Nirmroth Yiu re making assumptions again that i don't have a life away from the internet. I was talking about real life experiences. And birth rates are on the decline. Less and less people are having kids

[Chthou95]

I'm gonna put this in caps. GENERALITIES ARE CONSISTENT PATTERNS OF HUMOR BEHAVIOR & SOCIETY

[Nirmroth]

Sry but what you say doesn't allign with real life thats why its my assumption that you dont get to go outside much.

Declining birthrates are the cause of women entering the workforce having higher education and thus getting children much more late, birth controll beeing widespread and children beeing an economical drain bec their upringing costs that much. there's multiple research and articles about it, none of them has women picking only the few top men as cause. You dont bother to research or look at the greater picture of the things you claim.

Bec you were dumped or rejected a few times its not the fault of women but you and doesn't reflect the experience of the majority like you claim.

[Chthou95]

@Nirmroth I could have a lot of experiences with women and still have tue same views. Implying i have these views because i get rejected a lot is dumb af. And just because women work more doesn't mean they're not pickier and have higher standards

[Nirmroth]

It just doesn't make sense to me as you just need to take a look outside to instantly dwarf your assumptions about women. That what lead me to believe you're just butthurt.

The working argument was a response to your assumption that your rightfully mentioned declining birthrates (at least only in western nations, were most women tend to work for their own income... mmh strange) are the case of pickier women.

Maybe we are just missunderstsnding each other tho, I fully agree that women are way pickier on dating apps but otherwise this narrative of yours that women only date the top peak of men irl is simply wrong.

[Chthou95]

@Nirmroth That's another assumption. Assuming i don't go outside enough. I have a lot of experiences in life and am not on the internet 24/7. These views were formed from real life experiences and consistencies. They didn't happen over night or watching one video on the internet

[Nirmroth]

Yes an assumption based on the information you give me.

How do you explain all those couples in your worldview?

Oh I am aware that incels usually radicalize themselves over a longer time by watching multiple videos not just one and spending time in like minded forums etc.
No one goes to sleep and wakes up indoctrinated.

[Anonymous]

There are multiple angles to this.

It's a fact that women have higher standards when it comes to choosing a partner.

It's also a fact that men today seem more interested in casual sex than committed relationships.

There are a lot of reasons for the latter, most of which are a rather poor reflection on today's women and what they have made of dating and marriage.

[strateguy632]

Women easy to find men. As the saying "who hired who".

[Anonymous]

Women, they can freely approach a man but he couldn't do the same in response

[RavVid]

A vagina is a winner!

[Iron_Man]

Female

[Chthou95]

Come on now you know who

[sirderpsalot123]

Women

[Slim57]

Women duh

[Cheerfull009]

Women