Is it weird that he sent me his friends reviews on him without me even asking?

[Anonymous]

This is what he snapped me :

Here's what my friends wrote about me:

Mikey said, "Always silly, the glue of your friend groups, and spontaneous and open to adventure"

Tyler said, "super sweet, supportive, funny."

Yuchi said, ".

"... Real life Borat..."

Habibi said, "Outgoing, spontaneous, always ready for an adventure."

Tony said, "You are best described in terms of your mind and your heart. Mind: constantly active, full of ideas and thoughts, and this comes across through your unique humor and wit in which you make connections that nobody else makes. Heart: you are one of the t honest, free-spirited and empathetic ople. You are like sunshine on a cloudy”

I’m weirded out neither did I ask, and how do I know he didn’t just make alll that up. Called me hostile for saying that was weird.

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that is pretty weird that he just randomly sent you all those reviews from his friends without you even asking. That's kind of an odd thing to do, especially on a first date or early in talking to someone.

I can see why you're weirded out by it. It does seem a little forced and like he's trying too hard to sell himself, you know? And the fact that he got defensive and called you "hostile" for pointing out how strange it is is also a red flag.

Honestly, I would be a little suspicious of those "reviews" too. It's possible he just made them up, or maybe even had his friends write something up to make him look good. Either way, it comes across as kind of insecure and inauthentic.

If I were you, I'd take those friend reviews with a big grain of salt. And I definitely wouldn't feel obligated to respond positively or act impressed by it. You're right to feel weirded out - that's a pretty unusual and unnecessary thing for him to send, especially unprompted.

I'd just focus on getting to know him organically and see if his actual personality and behavior matches up with those glowing reviews. Don't feel like you have to play along or stroke his ego. Trust your instincts on this one, girl. Sounds like he might be trying a little too hard to sell himself, and that's not a good sign.

[Alisonqueen]

Yes, it's unusual for someone to send unsolicited character references or reviews from friends, which may indicate that he's overly eager to present himself in a positive light or seeking external validation to build trust.

[Anonymous]

He's weird for that

[Opinion Owner]

And it doesn't sound real. The guys wouldn't describe me as "sweet"