If you weren’t physically attracted to a woman, would you still pursue a relationship with her?

[Anonymous]

If you liked a girl’s personality and got along with her well, but had no physical attraction to her, would you still pursue a romantic relationship with her?

i’ve been seeing a man for about a year now. We hug, hold hands, kiss, even sleep together sometimes (literally sleep, no sex), but he will not be sexually intimate with me.

any time i question him about it, he will get annoyed and shut down. My only theory is that hr does not find me attractive. Because i’m fairly certain he’s been intimate with previous girlfriends. And before we got together, i overheard him make sexual innuendos around guys, so i know he has an interest in sex… just not sex with me.

No, i would not pursue a romantic relationship

Yes, i’d be interested in a relationship, but not have any physical interaction with her

[Anonymous]

The context "relationship" suggests beyond pals/friends.

Probably not. Because if SHE considers it a "relationship" she's probably not OK with it staying static like that. And it would be mean to give her false hope of it ever being more. Not saying it couldn't ever be more, that I couldn't develop attraction to her etc. But I'm not about to exploit her like that. I wouldn't want it done to me, I'm not going to do it to someone else.

[Abbycado]

Not into girls, but if I was and didn't find her attractive, no I wouldn't want a relationship with someone I don't find attractive.

[Abbycado]

Ty for mho

[dudeinohio]

Sure
And it would get sexual too.

[jahaims]

Nope.