Why do you think my girlfriend is ignoring me lately?

[Anonymous]

She acts like I don't exist, especially when we meet up with friends. I've tried to figure out what's wrong, but she acts distant and barely responds to me. Is it something I did, or is she dealing with something on her own? How should I handle this?

[MisterWack]

Asker: “She acts like I don't exist, especially when we meet up with friends. I've tried to figure out what's wrong, but she acts distant and barely responds to me. Is it something I did, or is she dealing with something on her own? How should I handle this?”

My Honest Advice: Tell her exactly what you wrote minus “how should I handle this?”.

You should tell her how she makes you feel lately and advocate for yourself using your words. Ask her what is wrong, if you did something or if she is dealing with something because you’d correct the mistake best you could & support her with whatever she bothering her. Reach out to her, talk to her in person, and figure this out to come to a happy conclusion. All will be fine when you speak up, step up, and uplift her.

[sage2021]

I remember when I was in a relationship with a guy for 3 years and we always argued about everything,!!
He smoked pot every single day and a lot! I don't do that or any other drugs or drink alcohol.
But after 3 years with this guy, he started dressings different - kinda weird and I didn't like it. So I wasn't warming up to him like before.
But then he started getting physical with me and putting me in bear hugs and wouldn't let me go.
One time I told him that I had a dream about a famous movie star and right there on the sidewalk in public he picked me up by my coat collar and yelled at me for dreaming about another guy.🙄

Finally I broke up with him and met another guy and we got married 6 weeks after we met.
He didn't do drugs or drink alcohol either and we got along great!! 😃

[Paris13]

It appears She could Be losing interest. Talk To her. xxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks To Gag. xxoo

[hahahmm]

She is mentally checking out and getting ready to dump you. Probably banging somebody else or doing heavy flirting and her friends all know. Women almost always find guy #2 before dumping guy #1.

If she had always been like this I'd say she always had another guy and you were just her fun toy. Which can be true even if you think you have a serious relationship.

[josie]

It sounds like something is wrong, but it could be something personal that he's dealing with. Maybe he's going through something and doesn't know how to talk about it yet. The best thing you can do is give him space, but also make him feel like you're there to talk when he's ready.

[Asker]

Thank you, that's really sound advice. Maybe he's really going through something and he just doesn't know how to talk about it. I may need to give him some space, but it's also important to let him know that I'll be there for him whenever he's ready.

[monkey]

It feels like she’s distancing herself, and honestly, it’s hard to tell if it’s something you did or if she’s just not as invested anymore. If she’s barely responding and acting like you’re invisible, it could be a sign she’s checked out. Maybe it’s time for a real talk to figure things out.

[Asker]

Yes, I really feel that way. I don't know what I'm doing or maybe he's just not investing enough in the relationship anymore. It's really hard for him to treat me like I'm invisible. I think I'm going to have to have a serious talk and figure out what's going on.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Communication is the key & as for you it’s time to open that door & have a heart to heart with your girlfriend & figure out what is really going on. On the flip side if she continues to ignore you maybe you should give her the space she needs & let her do her own thing & see if she comes around if she doesn’t maybe you two should think about parting ways.

[Miristheiss]

You aren't a priority. She is probably into someone else.

Trust her ACTIONS not words. If she were in love and into she'd want to be around you all the time. She actions show she's not into you.

[ProbablyClueless]

Sounds like the relationship has fizzled out for her.

Whenever communication drops off like that, 99% of the time, that's the sign you're about to get absolutely fucked. And that's not just a dating thing either.

[Purpleronnie]

Not sure why you can’t just ask her if you honestly have no idea , which seems unlikely by the way. Based on what you have said you’re unlikely to receive any meaningful advice or opinion.

[chick]

If she’s acting distant and barely responding, it could be a sign that something’s changed on her end. It’s hard to say for sure, but if you’ve tried talking to her and she’s still ignoring you, it might be time to rethink things.

[Asker]

I understand, thank you for the advice. It's really a difficult situation. I've tried to talk to him but he's still distant and barely responds. Unfortunately, I'm really worried that something has changed. If this continues, maybe I'll need to reevaluate the relationship.

[Nikki1989]

Unfortunately, relationships can sometimes fizzle out.

[Anonymous]

Try not to internalize it. Maybe she’s on her period or it’s coming. I know three weeks in a month I’m consumed by my period. It sucks. Mental fog, tired and weak. Ask her thiugh instead of the internet

[RedInnocent69]

She’s sending you a message. She’s already seeing someone else

[CarolinaGirl5]

Maybe because she's like not your girlfriend

[Anonymous]

Give her space. Don't smother her.

[12karen]

ask her and communicate

[JesseP1nk]

Easy. Dump the bitch

[KrakenAttackin]

She's banging some other guy.

[Anonymous]

Is she still committed to you?

[Jmmmfi4]

TELL HER TO KICK ROCKS