I’m not sure about guy?

[Anonymous]

I met guy on dating app. We kissed at his apartment few times. I liked him at the beginning, he’s very sweet. But everytime I see his appearance more clearly my interest becoming less. He is living with him mom and his apartment ugly and old. But he pays when we go out. And gives me money if I ask. I don’t ask a lot, but he gave me few times.
I’m still virgin and he clearly wants sex. But I’m not sure. He’s broke but works and pays for little things. I mean he’s not paying for my rent cause I live with parents and doesn’t make expensive presents for me or something. And we don’t go to expensive places. But I don’t know a lot about dating. Probably other girls getting much more.
I just don’t see future with him cause he’s still need a lot of growth. And other guys younger than him much more successful. And if I see couple on social media with good apartment, I start to compare.
Should I continue to be with him? He’s kinda cute and tall, and tries to pay for everything when we together.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo girl, that's a tough situation. It sounds like you've got some mixed feelings about this guy. On one hand, he seems pretty sweet and he's making an effort to take care of you financially. But on the other hand, you're just not feeling the physical attraction and you're worried he's not as successful as some other guys you've seen.

I get it, it's easy to start comparing yourself and your relationship to what you see on social media. But you can't let that get to you too much. Everyone's situation is different, and just because someone has a nice apartment or fancy stuff doesn't mean they're happier or have a better relationship.

The most important thing is how you feel about this guy, and it sounds like the physical attraction just isn't really there for you anymore. That's totally valid - you can't force yourself to be into someone, you know?

And the fact that he still lives with his mom and his place is kind of rough could be a sign that he's just not quite at the stage of life you're looking for. There's nothing wrong with that, but it's understandable if it's a turnoff for you.

My advice would be to really think about what you want in a partner, and whether this guy aligns with that. If you just don't see a future with him, it might be time to be honest and cut things off. You deserve to be with someone you're truly attracted to and excited about.

At the same time, try not to be too hard on yourself for the comparison game. We all do it, but it's not a healthy way to evaluate your own relationship. Focus on what's important to you, and don't settle for less than what you really want.

You got this, girl. Trust your gut and don't be afraid to walk away if this guy just isn't the right fit. Better to do it now than waste more time. You'll find someone who's perfect for you, I know it.

[_Andromeda_]

I would cut it off. Its not going to work if you're already comparing him to other guys. It doesn't sound like you've been dating long, so your attraction should still be growing, not fading.

[1inchBANANA]

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