What do women gain from going into a relationship and not actually being interested?

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she wasn’t into the relationship at all communication was constantly a struggle she was more invested in what was on her phone or something else rather then talking this led to a lot of miscommunication and arguments. My thing is why not just say no from the start why even go into the relationship I guess this is one thing that sticks with me. Like why pretend like my perception of actual interest has been destroyed because she was just abusive during the relationship calling me horrible names and physically hitting me

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

So maybe the question should be what does a man gain when he's 100% honest with himself it falls in love with a woman that he truly knows from the inside out instead of falling in love with a woman because he wants something his wants and who she is way it out what's more important

Before it can go any further he has to know who she is and if he doesn't then he should have find out the hard way

But if he's being selfish and he's only thinking of his needs in that moment he's blinded and doesn't see the real her so it's not actually her fault it's the guys called for not being honest with himself

No matter what we do in life we have to pay for it I don't care what it is we have to pay for it if you're getting together with somebody because you're blindsided because you're only thinking of one thing two things and not looking at that person on who they truly are and what they're doing right in front of them already that's on them you have to pay that price.

She's still the same old person there was nothing for her to gain

No I'm not saying this is what happened or anything I'm just saying look deeper before you jump be honest with yourself with everything she just doesn't become the person that you're talking about their signs of that

Or maybe the question should be when this happens in a relationship how fast can I get out of it before everything turns sour how much sanity is a man's going to gain LOL by removing the situation
because he was blinded by her beauty or or whatever what is the man going to gain by being honest with himself and saying this isn't going to work we got to go our separate ways and be done with it I mean you have to take some of the blame or we all do guys have to I know I've been there than that you just got to move on it happened so it's how you go forward not put to blame on anybody

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

There is a few options as to why people get into relationships without genuinely wanting to build a connection these are broken miserable people who take their misery out on others despite not ever doing anything but trying to help them.

People who cannot make a real connection many times are looking for materialistic things, social status, and things of that nature. They may have dreams of the fancy house in the suburbs or whatever her dreams are. They want to be seen with someone to impress others.

My thing is drop these women like the bad habit they are. There is better out there and frankly it’s better the be alone then miserable.

stephanie-ramos · Accepted Answer

Attention. If that’s all she wants, then this happens. She puts herself above you and anything else in the relationship and you’re left in a corner.

the29thhuman · Accepted Answer

Guys do this for sex all the time but when women do it 😂😂😂 poor little baby boys can’t deal with their own taste of crap 😂

michalpl00 · Answer

My ex was pretty nice in the beginning, but then she turned very cold and distant. She would be on her phone all the time playing games scrolling for TikTok and pretending to watching the movie with me. It was pretty obvious that she was losing feelings, so I made her leave me on purpose kind of, I just wanted her end things but at the same time I was like yeah she’s gonna show me what is real if she actually loves me or not, and it turned out that she did not know the reason why she became distant was because she lied to me and broke my trust And I couldn’t trust her and I guess she didn’t like that but also she didn’t take any accountability for her actions. She slept with another guy and lied about it. I guess she must’ve felt terrible or she might’ve actually had something else I just made her feel terrible because I was bombing her with love , it was a bit manipulative but it just showed me what was real.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Social pressure

We are seen as failures for being single for a long stretch of time
It’s doubly true for women

So some people just solve the problem by sticking with a broken relationship just to keep scrutiny away

ProbablyClueless · Answer

She was looking for a meal ticket/piggy bank

SolitarySolace · Answer

Free food, drink, rides, etc? Fucking freeloaders

LiamJHayden · Answer

Attention, validation

Anonymous · Answer

She wants you to pay for everything.

CarolinaGirl5 · Answer

Attention

msc545 · Answer

$$$$

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