Boyfriend booked holiday weeks ago and told me the night before he got on the plane?

[Anonymous]

Hello, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and we’ve had our ups and downs. It was his birthday on Monday and Tuesday, so I gave him his birthday presents, etc. He then went back to work on Tuesday night, as he works away from home at the moment.

He rang me on Wednesday evening to tell me he’s going on a ski trip this Friday. He knew about it for a few weeks and never told me. He said he booked it weeks ago, during a time when he thought we had broken up, with his friend. He’s only telling me 2 days before the flight. He had plenty of chances to tell me, but he chose not to, claiming he wasn’t sure if he’d be granted the annual leave.

He accepted his birthday presents from me and then, the following day, dropped this on me. It feels so deceitful. What should I do? I feel so hurt. Now he’s saying I should go out for a few days too, but I have exams next week, as I’m in college.

[ohsheeT]

You are kidding me oh my God that is just so very rude and more I know what I would do I would say see you goodbye

Everything he did was premeditated was wrong and is still wrong and even what he said to you was wrong

And this is going to be the worst when he gets back depending on who he went with but there was a girl or a guy but if it was one of his guy friends when he gets back he's going to need a place to come once in awhile and guess who's going to come see and who's going to want and how many times he's going to say he's sorry just so he could get back and do whatever he wants I hope you do not allow this I hope that you think go f*** yourself

[Anonymous]

Dump him, book your own ski trip and binge One Piece on the flight.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, he's an ass for pulling that on you. Do what you feel is right.