Is attraction and dating racist?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

This question has been asked over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and

Preferences are not racist, they are preferences. A simple search miss anon would have garnered that conclusion

[Joshua_H_1010011001]

Yep... And its OK.

No one has the right to "make you" like somone or be sexual or have a interpersonal relationship with anyone.

That is your human right.

So, the reasons are irrelevant. Every straight person is essentialy "homophobic" for not wanting to be with a potential partner of the same sex.

Or racist for not wanting to be with a person of a different culture or skin tone.

But it's each individuals choice.

This is why the left wing ideology and "woke" is so dangerous.

The momomet that right to choose is impeded... you will have all out war.

People will just push back and say fuck you.

[MoonFace2]

I don’t understand the question…do you mean that having sexual preferences for specific races is racist? If so, good question. I don’t think it is racist.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

What have you done that makes you question if your preferences are racist?

[Asker]

im intrigued by woke culture and wonder if it will turn on itself by the wokes as they are against racism and appropriation but windered were its stands on dating.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

This place is a majority conservative opinion. If you want a better sample group of that specific mindset, ask Tumblr. They’re very left-wing radical types

[HawkPerception]

Preferences aren't racist. Everyone is free to have whatever preferences they like. If people didn't have preferences, we'd be okay dating someone that looks like a frog.

[Summeroflove]

No because everyone is different. There may be racists out there but dating in general and relationships are not last time I checked it seems people of all races date

[OlderAndWiser]

If you prefer guys instead of girls, are you a misogynist?

[Zack-Bann]

Considering “the heart wants what the heart wants” it can’t be racist


By design racism is a product of social conditioning
You get told over and over again how a group of people are bad for society and eventually you develop hate for them


But attraction works on its own. You don’t get conditioned for it (not the same way at least)


Although I have a theory that says: whatever cartoon character (s) you develop a crush for as a kid will heavily influence your type when it comes to dating


I find that it heavily applies to my preferences at least

[Anonymous]

Depends on which definition of "racist" you're using.

If it's the traditional definition that would've been used say 40 or 50 years ago, then no--attraction and dating aren't racist."

If you want to use the new definition which is essentially "disagrees with woke-tard leftists" then yes--it's racist. But then so is everything so who really gives a fuck?

The game these retards want to play is to use THEIR definition to determine whether or not their target is a racist (it is--because it ALWAYS is) but then to use the REAL definition of racist to determine how to punish/sanction them.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I just bang hot chicks, and they're usually not my own race. If anything it's sexist because I only bang chicks.

No matter your race or creed... if you're sexy and female, you have an equal opportunity to become my cum dumpster.

[Joshydavid25]

Are preferences in attraction and dating racist? No

Excluding groups from attraction and dating though? Yeah, that's racist.. Because then you gotta ask yourself, why? It's natural to prefer someone you feel you'll bond with better, and people are natural very tribal which can lead to racism..

[Anonymous]

if you define "racist" as pure hatred, then no dating isn't racist

if you define "racist" as discriminatory, then yes dating is racist

you can't force someone to be attracted to certain skin colors or certain asset sizes generally existing within certain ethnicities

[Asker]

Do you think a socioeconomic element is at play

[Opinion Owner]

definitely. some ethnicities have to work extra hard, harder than others to get attention

[Anonymous]

I saw in your other reply that you are a white woman only attracted to white men. There's nothing wrong with that, it's not racist. Some white girls sleep with men of other races to appear less racist, though. Or they're just curious. Most white girls these days date and sleep with black and brown men but settle down with white men.

[AmeerX]

Having a preference isn't racist.
But calling dating for love is stupid.
Arranged matchmaking is family to family and dating is individual to individual judgement.

I don't think people have an idea but calling dating love marriage is wrong because if it were true why do people stop loving each other after sometime.

[Shiprex]

I don't think it can be because attraction is based on personal preferences that aren't based on prejudice. I can't help liking oranges more than cabbage even though both are edible and nutritious. One gives me more pleasure than the other

[godfatherfan]

You cannot control what you are attracted to. I have no issues with other races. But I am only attracted to specific type of woman, white and some hispanic types. I can't control that. It is what it is.

[EmmaMary]

Just what the fuck is all this Bollox about... A more indepth explanation would be very much appreciated... Thank you.

[WowGIrl4ever]

I love the word Bollox

[BadApple69]

How the hell did you come up with that question?
Is breathing racist? Or maybe urinating... Maybe that's racist too... Really please explain how attraction and dating is racist?

[McLlovin]

Lol that doesn’t make sense as a question. But no its not, even if its because of race. There’s a difference between preference and prejudice. The difference is the why/ motive.

[Fireguy17]

no, not unless you rule out a particular race just based on their race then that could be construed as racist, but not finding someone attractive or dating someone.

[SquishyBuns2628]

Can we get some context because this is just every where and no where at the same time 😅

[genericname85]

no it's not. if you try to see racism, you see it everywhere it's a self fullfilling prophecy sort of. but you're losing touch with reality doing that.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope having a preference because that's what your attracted to is different from hatting someone you don't even know just because the look different from you

[Anonymous]

Yes. White males should not be legally allowed in any form of relationship other than financial provider for the superior races. Or eager cuckolds for women.

[Garud]

then i am racist towards super beautiful celebrities

[BCRanger10]

Oh, I can't wait to hear this one.

Amuse me.

[Dirtydangerhart]

I think personal preference can be Racist, but it's personal to the individual. Being attracted to a certain skin colour is somewhat racist, but again it's individual. So yes and No.

[Anonymous]

You're allowed to like or not like anyone for whatever reason. They haven't found a way to outlaw that yet.

[Anonymous]

Any form of relationship or sex that isn't white women submitting to black men, is completely racist and should be shamed at all costs.

[Opinion Owner]

I wish my fellow white people would back me up on this more often.

[ProbablyClueless]

Nope. It's not racist to prefer your partner to generally look a certain way.

[FunkyMonkee]

Absolutely everything is racist!! Didn't you know?

[Phoenix98]

Nope and for the people that think that god help them because no one else will.

[LiamJHayden]

Not inherently, but people with racist tendencies can have standards that are completely in line with their racism.

[elTAHAwy]

No people aren't racist because they love BMW not VW for example

[Ladsin2]

Not to my knowledge. Maybe that's why I'm always called racist though...

[9214xs]

Definitely not, just like with food people have preferences and we should respect that.

[ICanSmellTheCosmos]

According to some people nowadays, everything is racist, so, sure, why not?

[Xoirwinkan]

This is silliness. It's like saying 'if you don't find me attractive you're racist'.

[Anonymous]

In order to achieve equality, you should love everyone the same.

[Anonymous]

A lot of times. But more so with women then with men.

[Anonymous]

I had lots of women flat out told me they only date black guys or hook up with them 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Crazzyyworld]

Are you a black girl wanting white guys?

[Asker]

no, im a white female only attracted to white males, does itmake me racist?

[Crazzyyworld]

People have preference. As long as they are honest about it it’s ok I think. Many black people won’t admit that they like white men so they are jealousy. Even black men want white men. I don’t know if I am right

[Crazzyyworld]

Women want $$ at the end anyway. Why the hell so many men are lonely? It’s all about money in the end. They like white guys abut they want $$ so they are dishonest

[SuchSightsToShowYou]

No.

Why would it be?

[Anastasia06]

No, it’s what your attraction is. And Preferences.

[In_Trance]

It is if you make it that way

[Jmmmfi4]

What does that even mean

[Ms_Facesitter]

It's not

[Anonymous]

Huh?

[WowGIrl4ever]

Huh?

[jahaims]

Open a book

[beefcakebradybatson]

Often.