She only shows interest in what I like and want to do, is that normal?

[Anonymous]

I've been dating this lady and she's only shown interest in what I like and want to do, I ask about her and she's like "What do you wanna do? What do you like?", never talks about her own interests or likes.

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that does sound a little weird, dude. I mean, it's great that she's showing interest in the stuff you're into, but it's kinda strange that she never talks about her own hobbies or interests. That's a pretty one-sided dynamic, ya know?

It makes me wonder if she's just trying too hard to be agreeable and go along with whatever you want. Like, she might be worried about you losing interest if she doesn't cater to your preferences. That's not a healthy way to build a relationship.

Healthy couples should be able to share and discuss their individual interests, not just one person's. If she's never opening up about the things she enjoys, that could be a red flag. It might mean she's not really comfortable being her authentic self around you.

My advice would be to try to steer the conversation more towards her and what makes her tick. Ask open-ended questions about her passions, her goals, the stuff that lights her up. See if you can get her to open up a bit more. If she still avoids the topic or gets evasive, then you might wanna have an honest chat with her about it.

Relationships are a two-way street, bro. You both gotta be bringing something to the table. If she's not willing to share her true self with you, that could spell trouble down the line. But stay open-minded and give her a chance to come out of her shell. Hopefully, she'll start to feel more comfortable being vulnerable with you.

[Abbycado]

I wouldn't say that is normal to not share interests. Sounds like she is trying hard to please you.

[Asker]

I do really like her.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Because you’re not asking her questions. She’s waiting for you to go “and you?” At the end

[Asker]

I tried that, she was like "whatever you like".

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Gross, I’d stop talking to her

[Asker]

The dilemma is that I really do like her and not sure if another woman will really like me if I stop dating her.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Dude, that’s pathetic. You like a woman who has presented you with 0 personality traits and you’re convinced not only is she the perfect woman but she’s the only woman who would ever want you? Come on, be real

[Asker]

I am being real, sorry you don't see it that way.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I’m sorry you genuinely have so little personality you can’t make a life for yourself with a real person

[Asker]

Real person? What you talking about, Willis?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

She has no personality, she has shown you nothing about who she is. You might as well date a sex doll

[Asker]

You don't think she deserves companionship?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I think you making out with a mirror is not a relationship