Should your first baby daddy be excused?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

For what. Making a baby. NO

5 minutes before you both were going to have sex he had the opportunity to excuse himself by wearing a condom 5 minutes before that he could have looked at you and said I really love you and I need to protect you so I'm going to wear a condom

You got to think about 20 different things before you guys even started
And not one of them was to protect you or himself so now there's a child in the world that needs to be brought up right that cost money lots of money
It also takes two parents two good role models that are there for that kid each and every day they do not argue and fight in front of them but show them kindness and loving from each other no there should be no excuse

He could apologize to you but then he better hand you a big fat check too each and every month why should you have to do it all on your own

And believe me it's not all his fault it's your fault too I'm not going to get into that because you are the one taking care of the baby right now but you had a choice in the matter too
It's your life you can do anything you want
You're not being mean if you're asking for money to support your child
Everything that he could have done to stop this from happening he could have done he chose not to

So after he apologizes he should be there and he should tell you that he will be there for his child to raise the child the best that can be raised with love from both

[Summeroflove]

Well you shouldn’t be planning on having many baby daddies. But at least you’re not wasting a decent man’s time though I feel for your kids.

Shit happens sometimes relationships don’t work. People die. The list goes on. But most people aren’t planning on that stuff.

[Apple1996]

Any baby daddies should he excused if they're a shithead

[egarcia1360]

What, like, stricken from your record? Some type of car insurance "your first accident's free" deal? If that's what you mean, that's not how any of this works... I doubt you're going to find any guy that can just ignore that, but I'm sure plenty would be able to get past it if they liked you enough, and especially if they had similar histories and could relate.

[Flower7]

Excused from what?

[jazzy34]

Excused for what?

[Asker]

Excused for making a mistake

[jazzy34]

So, the baby is a mistake? Your question is confusing.

[In_Trance]

From?