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Is it time to leave my baby daddy?

We’ve been together for 8 months and I’m 4 months along. I feel like he trapped me. Mind you he is an almost 30 year old adult. But it’s like raising a child. After work (if he does work) all he wants to do is play video games or watch tv and lay in bed all weekend and every afternoon. I’ve had a very rough pregnancy so far so I need the help while I’m working a full time job. I make more money than he does so I’m constantly having to cover expenses because he either blows money or doesn’t work enough to cover bills. I’ve tried to get him to get an another job or even a part time job because soon I’ll be having to go on bed rest. But he keeps saying he will when I never see any progress of him doing anything and saying he deserves so much money an hour and he’s not gonna work just for anyone. He barely even wants to touch me now and days. He has two kids from a previous relationship and in all honesty the way that he treats them concerns me and concerns me for my child once it is born because he has nothing to do with them, he screams at them because he wants them away from him, he is way too aggressive with them when disciplining them, not like a regular spanking it’s more like jerking them, squeezing there faces and even told the oldest one because she looks like her mom he wants to beat the heck out of her. Which I end up taking care of them the entire time it’s his time to get them. Which I have already discussed it with there mother. He doesn’t want me involved with my family because his words is “when you start a family you kick your family to the curb” so he wants me to loose contact and only see them like once a month max. And I’m very close with my family. I’m even having a hard time sleeping beside him and has developed a hatred for him over the pregnancy. I want to work things out for the sake of my child having it’s father but I don’t know how much more I can handle. Please I need advice.

Is it time to leave my baby daddy?
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