What can men do to up their game in 2025?

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What can men do to up their game in 2025?

Joshydavid25 · Accepted Answer

Those are some solid takes.. -Stop watching porn. -Stop paying for onlyfans. -Stop putting women on a pedestal.  -Stop giving social media street walkers so much attention.  -Find the Lord.

LiamJHayden · Accepted Answer

For those to whom it apples, "Stop being pansies!" You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Risk rejection.

ohsheeT · Answer

Well you just lost because you call it a game it's no such thing

You're either real or you're not
There's no faking it

If you don't have confidence in yourself you don't have confidence with anything

And that doesn't mean be over cocky either that means just be yourself be real..

And if you don't know who you are you better just find yourself because otherwise nobody else is going to find you either

If you have to look for something with inside you to up your game you've already lost

You're at an age to where you've already written your destiny and anything else you throw out there to try to make yourself bigger better whatever
People will read right through it

If you have to look for something to up your game your grasping at straws and it's just never going to work

You chose who you're going to be a long time ago and that's who you are

If you can't be yourself and if you can't be real like I said you need to find yourself because there's no such thing as faking it.

mandyfire98 · Answer

Work on yourself. That's always important. But to standout anymore, just being respectful to others will set you a part, sadly. Most people in general have become disrespectful and borderline sociopathic it seems. Just be the opposite. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

If you want to be mentally healthy and physically tough, find somebody to protect and help. The endorphins and dopamine boost you get from being kind to others boosts your testosterone and your immunity to disease, which is good for your muscles, your mood and your bones. The research shows men who take care of sick family are half as likely to die in ten years than men who only care for themselves. Humans are social creatures and being kind lengthens your life.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Nothing special about 2025. The same things that worked 50 years ago still work now.

HawkPerception · Answer

This is my favourite motivational speech I've ever seen/heard.

purplepoppy · Answer

1. Grow the fuck up, too many of you are mentally still living in the school playground. Dress like an adult, stop pretending gaming is anything but a child's pass time.

2. You're not a millionaire or hung like a donkey. Deal with it because in the real world you're competing against the average guy on the street and not Chad thundercock. Plenty of ordinary guys can get girls so why can't you.

3. Stop believing memes and influences, it's giving you a shitty attitude and scaring girls off.

4. Stop letting your mother cut your hair, ever notice how every incel has the same hair cut? You stand out a mile. And shave that beard off, it looks good on models but you just look like your homeless.

5. Success breeds confidence and confidence breeds success. So aim low, she might'nt be wife material but it'll give your dick some much needed practice. Sure you might get an itch but STD clinics are a great place to meet sluts.

6. Stop calling yourself alpha, if you wee alpha you'd have a string of lovers and wouldn't be flipping burgers would you.

LeatherDame · Answer

Different groups of guys have different issues but her are some generic tips:

Hygiene: if you have body odour we can smell without being right up close to you, it’s time for a shower. It’s laundry day if your clothes are dirty, time to shave when you’re scruffy etc.

Listening: work on active listening skills, practice these skills often. This is one of the bigger filters for partners that we use. If we consistently don’t feel listened to or understood it’s going to be a short relationship.

Career: most of us don’t care if you’re heading to 6 figure salaries but we do want to see you care about your career and have plans/a goal of self improvement of some variety. Most of us aren’t after someone who took an entry level job and has no intention of moving up or onwards. We like ambition. Being dedicated to a cause can matter more than income levels so this one’s pretty open to interpretation.

Fitness: not a requirement but if you’re wanting to stand out from the crowd being in shape helps.

Emotional intelligence: this is an area women have a leg up on men and we often find men a little frustrating in this regard. Getting good at figuring out and communicating what you’re feeling and identifying patterns/internal scripts you’re acting out is a critical skill. Men already being less developed this way means we tend to find most men a tad immature by this standard. Most people just try claiming they have no patterns etc which is never true and just tells you they lack emotional intelligence.

Anonymous · Answer

Girls/women won't be my priority in 2025, they aren't worth it, all modern day girls do is play games, break hearts and move on. I have learned not to trust them. 2025 is about me, family if needed and helping those suffering overseas. The picture pretty much sums it up. I have been a gentleman, paying for dates, I'm not some weasel POS guy trying to fk and dump, genuinely tried to be there for but all it led to was wasting months, wasting years and her insulting me or ghosting me and I'm tired of this sh.. it, females are a headache and aren't worth the effort or my value of chivalry, yeah that's right I said chivalry... Women don't deserve it with how they behave -- the narcissistic, feminist extremist, rude, the stupid "we'll see: which is code for ill see if there's no one better then I may consider it".

Guys and men really need to take back their pride and move on from women and girls in 2025 -- she may be a 7, 8, 9 or 10 on the beauty/looks scale but have 0, 1, 2, 3 in terms of personality. If she ain't genuine, she's rude, she's erratic, if its all about her... gentleman, move on because its time now that females in life and even reading these messages understand they have gotten away with bad behaviour and this is why having children is down, this is why chivalry is non-existent, this is why marriage is declining, this is why guys and men aren't pursuing women. Seems like women and girls want that stupid Miss Independent life style of hanging out with stupid gIrls, supporting OF, and getting free meals and free being there for her so she doesn't feel lonely, it ends in 2024 so that women and girls can humble themselves because they aren't special when they behave this poorly in life. This is not incel talk which is a term females on GAG love to use. It's called placing boundaries and barriers with females who act like femcels, yes, that term exists.

LaurenM1997 · Answer

Number 1- don’t call yourselves alphas cause there’s no such thing it’s so boring

2- stop fucking up relationships

3- be more patient with woman

4- work on yourself and be a better man

5- don’t get someone pregnant if you don’t wanna be a dad

6- being nice doesn’t cost a thing

Truthatanycost · Answer

Place God first and everything else last... in other words

Matthew 6:33

''But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.''

When you realise the truth of the above, chasing tail will become a thing of the past and you will realise the enemy wants you to waste your time chasing!

Bricealan · Answer

@coachtanthony well, coach that guy in the picture, in order to up his game, he needs to get rid of the dark glasses, shave, get a hairpiece and try to look less like a barbarian? Well with that said Jason Stratman can get away with that look since he’s already kind of a James Bond character, but he doesn’t wear the dark glasses and to be honest he’s better looking than that bozo? 😳😳😳😳😂😂😂😂😂

Crazzyyworld · Answer

well, men can lose belly, grow some muscle, shave, wear something dressy, shower well, make some money by side hustle, eat something good, think positive, have some fresh air often, have some coffee at cafe, call family and friends more often, stop think of suicide, get a pet, spend money for travel and clothings, get a bicycle for an exercise

DryGermanGuy · Answer

„For most of my life I made my own rules. You don't do any favors, you don't ask for any. Watch the percentages.“  - John Smith, Last Man Standing

GlowUpGirly5 · Answer

Money
Power
Intelligent
Be fit
Be attractive, smell good, dress well
Have a personality
Be a gentleman
Have a great reputation, socially skills and network
I dont want a man no one respect or no one knows
Have hobbies

Silver158 · Answer

Not sure about the "Level up your circle part" Your friends should be levelling up with you and even if they're not unless they're shitty people trying to screw you over or hold you back (I've had both) then they're still your friends.

exitseven · Answer

Get in shape, for real. Learn a new skill, read a book, stop using drugs.

mistymidnight · Answer

Look at what men used to do when they were trying to get a girl take them on dates and buy them flowers. And just be nice and be yourself women don’t want an Alfa male they want a life partner

OzzieOwens · Answer

purplepoppy summarized it perfectly. Do likewise.

Staximus · Answer

Talk less? My dad was from New York, that's not going to happen

Unit1 · Answer

Up their game from Call of Duty to Call of Duty Digital Deluxe Edition. Easy.

ClassicDropout · Answer

I will not be upping my game in 2025 🗣🗣🗣 I will be pleasing me instead of some random hoe

tzdc21 · Answer

Stop paying for only fans and gain some self respect.

Wiredone · Answer

They can treat women with respect and not like they are just a piece of meat

msc545 · Answer

Become taller, become richer, become better looking. Those are the only things that matter to most women.

red324 · Answer

I think it's women that need to up their game. You know, put it just a little bit of effort? would be nice.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Be true to themselves, their plan, their soul.

Djaay · Answer

We men don't need to up anything. It'was never men with the delusional diabolical ideological theosis

Anonymous · Answer

stop listening to women. start listening to God and let the dominoes fall in place

Bigguy66 · Answer

Learn to accept no just because you get one no doesn’t mean harass the girl leave her alone and move on and one more one thing because one no there million yes you just got to look around.

Anonymous · Answer

Hygiene first, gym second, grooming/style third. Then work on building social skills.

emeraldsaphire · Answer

Learn to talk about their emotions!

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Why do men need to "up their game"?

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Have beaucoup de bucks, though I've never cared about "game."

Lovergirl007 · Answer

Prioritize God & reading The Word daily. Scientifically proven to boost mental health & reduce depression / anxiety / stress

Anonymous · Answer

Up my game for what? To be a better servant to ungrateful, bitchy women who think I’m less of a man because my penis is 5 inches instead of 7 and because I make 60k/ year instead of 200k/ year? Yeah, no thanks. That’s a hard pass

Dargil · Answer

Jason covered all of it.

UrsulaY · Answer

Be more thoughtful and respectful.

Anonymous · Answer

Be considerate Even though I hate the bitch 🙂

MzAsh · Answer

Get therapy

Luopio27 · Answer

To give up once and 4 all women!

FenixG45 · Answer

Be your true self & stick to it.

Anonymous · Answer

Achieve ultra instinct

Anonymous · Answer

speak to us.

noohair · Answer

Man up...

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Get rich

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