Has your type changed as you aged?

[Simslover92]

I used to like the bad boys in college but now I love the nerds. Give me a nerdy guy any day of the week.

[Babygirl_S]

Yes! I liked only darker black and Indian guys as a teenager but liked white guys in college as they seemed interested and I liked the thrill of someone from a different culture and country.

Currently , I put men in two categories. There are the lighter ethereal looking men who make me emotional and darker sexy men who make my heart beat faster. It all depends on who treats me well as I can like both ❤️

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When it comes to personality, I have always wanted someone who could take care of me instead of expecting me to be independent. I don’t want an abusive man and loyalty is important to me. Somehow, I like the guys from Western countries more attractive. They seem more experienced because their culture encourages dating. I also like their confidence and accent which most guys around me don’t have. They struggle to finish sentences with me which turns me off. Communication is very important for me to feel attracted. So is a peaceful and fun personality.

[realeyeofthetiger]

Where are you from?

[KittygosMeoWW]

Yes definitely less into fuckboys and pretty guys

[Unit1]

Hardly.

My "type" is flexible to put it. I love multiple things in women such as being a sex machine, hypersweet, hyperromantic (deredere), (trying to) generate income instead of leeching off from me deliberately.

Flexible hereby means I'm not expecting a perfect girl to exist and therefore will decide "on the basis of her whole package" that she is made of e. g. she might be a cute sex machine but she's limited or lacking in another area.

[bowenw]

I think a lot of people realize the same thing as they age. Nerds rule!

[Simslover92]

Yep!

[bowenw]

🤓 🤓

[AmeerX]

🤔you do know that Nerds is a word not found outside US?

[PrettyCrumblBb]

@AmeerX how does Asia not know the word nerd?

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊🤓

[Simslover92]

You're so welcome!

[beefcakebradybatson]

Only if they're buxom !!!

[AviatorTom]

When younger I used COURIER as my type. Then, I switched to TIMES NEW ROMAN, which used to be Microsoft's default. Now, I prefer using ARIAL type. 😏

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@AviatorTom LOL. :D

[DrPepper12]

🏆🙌🏻 winner!!

[molonski2]

Ohhh , I've changed a lot , so has my view , wish I had it when I was younger , I was all about image and a particular look.
Taking a step back and being mature , I fcked up a lot , now I like sporty / nerdy is awesome , not just the surfer chick / fitness girl.
And I'm very interested in what they have done /. doing.

[silvermoon84]

well, when I was twenty I went for twenty year olds, now I go for 40 year olds 😄. Kidding, sorry I love being sarcastic.

I’m not sure if I ever had a “type”. I just went for whoever I liked. Even now I don’t really have a “type” per se, just as long as he’s not sporting a long gangly beard and a man bun, we’re good (no offense to the bearded guys with buns, I just have never found that look attractive).

[Aethellen]

Never had a physical type, so that hasn't changed. It's always been character traits that appeal to me - hard working, but also loves to get outside and play; kindness to others; open minded, eager to try different foods, books, music, art, etc; and above all humble and accomplished in his own way. I would say - now that I'm 50 and my kids are grown, I'm not looking for a provider and white picket fence fairytale guy, but instead am in a good place where compatibility of character is the whole thing! At this age I can say I have changed and am much more grounded and focused on having a healthy view of relationships vs living up to stereotypes my parents had about who I should be with.

[Garud]

Yes, when I was hitting puberty, I started liking glamorous women of my ethnicity on TV and then when I was a teenager, I started liking actresses from other ethnicities.
After the age of 17-18, I started finding girls around me beautiful, but even then I used to focus only on those whom almost everyone called beautiful.
After 20-21, I started observing beyond looks, how good a person is.

[drummerdude25]

Not really… just a little more expanded. Pretty, dark-haired girls, brown eyes, pretty much any ethnicity... classy and well put-together look and demeanor… easy going…

Seems too hard to find these days lol.

[adventurous-1]

certainly did, when I was younger I liked younger women and what they had to offer. Now that I'm older I prefer older more mature women and what they have to offer like my wife. Actually this is due to the fact that I met my wife in high school, that was over fifty years ago and we are still happily married and in love with each other. We have kept pace with each other's needs, outlooks, and companionship through out our life together.

[AmeerX]

I used to like darker skinned girls than myself. But now I don't. And I don't like someone who is not serious about life unless they are 20 years old or less. Anyone who thinks life is all party, I never liked them.

You don't really change your type as much overtime I think in terms of personality.

[asarjam]

I'm so off-center as a married open marriage that I probably don't have a great answer. I moved from rebel to looks, then personality with looks I liked, to simply how they perform in bed. Probably not a conformist answer LOL.

[Anonymous]

I wanted a girl with a 10/10 face and 10/10 intelligence.

I grew older to realize, you can't get both. AND, they are always a little crazy and will come with some drama no matter what.

However, I do prioritize intelligence over face though now.

[IslaTheWitch]

I never had a type... so it didn't change :D

[midnightmoon05]

Actually no.
I have always been attracted to the same type.
family oriented, ambitious, good values, nerdy? Yes. all the same since college…

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

So you were always looking for a potential husband, even when you weren't ready to get married?

Not trying to disagree with you, just genuinely curious.

[midnightmoon05]

@FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa I guess if that’s how you put it.
My college ex boyfriend called me marriage material… I was clueless… now I get what he means… like I’m not the type guys just want to play and dump.
Marriage was never in my mind or plan… just knew I wanted to have a loving boyfriend.
Marriage, kids happened so that’s good.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Maybe you were so wifely you didn't even realize how wifely you were. Because you couldn't imagine yourself being any other way.

So guys were never trying to have sex with you like short term? Guys would only hit on you if they wanted to be in a relationship with you?

Did you get married young? Like right out of college?

[midnightmoon05]

@FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa
You are a guy…sure they do… I just know how to weed out that type. I don’t waste time… once I chat with them… I am clear with my intend and I am clear with theirs…it’s not that complicated when we know what we want.
I had my serious boyfriend in college… he told me I’m a wifey material…
Didn’t work out because we were young and other situations.
So I took time off… healed up… started dating again around 24/25… met a few guys here and there online… just one date I knew they are not my type…by 27 I met my first hubby… married, kids. Marriage ended… heart broken..
I joined gag… and learned a lot… I met some gag friends in real life…
Off gag because I stared to date a guy… not for me… ended after a yr… back on gag…
No intention on dating…
Then met my now hubby here… gag kinda put us together… went through some rough times of ups and downs… almost killed each others… lol…
Been happily married since 2022…

Thank you for asking and reading my little short bio…
Yes I am very family oriented!! Without families.. we are a little grass…wondering through life and being blown around … our family is a big tree protecting us.

[midnightmoon05]

Your 16? lol… well welcome

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Oh wow quite the bio. From the opinion you posted, I kind of assumed you got married right out of college and that was it.

It sounds like you didn't exactly have wild times but I guess you dated a lot.

It also sems like you think dating isn't fun, or like isn't worth it, if it doesn't lead to a serious relationship. Which seems odd to me, but I guess I see your point.

How did G@G put you and your husband together? You literally met him on this site? G@G doesn't seem set up for that, although this is only my second day on here.

You can message me if you feel like it. I tried to message you but I apparently can't do that because I'm too new or something.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Yes 16.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

I can understand you not wanting to discuss your love life with a 16 year old.

[midnightmoon05]

@FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa my love life? 😂
You got my mini bio… feel free to ask anything I’m an open book.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Well... okay, I was going to ask this by message, but if you don't mind talking about this in public, where anyone can read it... did you have sex before you got married? Just wondering because you sound very traditional-minded, so maybe you wanted a white wedding. But twenty-odd years is a long time to wait.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Also, still curious to know how G@G brought you and your husband together.

[midnightmoon05]

@FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa I had sex with my first real boyfriend in college.

After my first marriage ended, I found gag and have met like 8 people on gag… in real life… 3 out in California… I met them all when I went out there years ago… like 2013 or something… one is still on gag.
Then I wanted to date… So I met a boyfriend online dating… off gag for some time … that relationship ended… he was not a good fit for me….
Back on gag…
I was asking a question about that ex bf…. A few people answered and I started chatting with 2 I can remember… one of them is my now hubby…
I had a vacation… I always go places… so I said I will be going to DC, he was going to his brothers wedding… so we met up and went to the zoo… all was good…
Summer… I have a long vacation… he lived out mid west…. I have never been so I said cool I can check out the mid west…
He has a guest room… i stayed in the guest room…
The next morning we were on our way to the gym… he said let’s go see

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

I'm guessing there's a part 2 to this story.

Looking back, do you wish you had "saved it" for husband #1?

Did you have sex with anyone between husband #1 and husband #2?

[midnightmoon05]

a water fall … it was in the middle of a city… sure… we took like 20-30’stwps down… the water fall was beautiful… I decided to jump on top of a railing… (no big deal… I was a HS gymnasts)… well the problem…. i jumped off onto the other side with lots of rocks… landed on a jugged rock… my heel was broken into pieces and almost fainted with my bone broken…
Well… the rest is history… he had to take care of me between doctors, surgery… instant husband/wife kind of

[midnightmoon05]

You never know where life takes you.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Oh wow. Interesting.

I'm kinda guessing there was sex involved between you two while he was helping you heal. Maybe I just have a dirty mind though.

Do you regret your first marriage, since it didn't work out?

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Also, how's your heel? Is it better? Can you still do gymnastics?

[midnightmoon05]

@FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa
We are adults lol… sex is part of being a good relationship.

I don’t live with regrets…I picked a good man to be my first husband and made a family together. We have 2 awesome kids.
I tell the kids that he is a very very good father …
My goal in life to to keep family together. So we can succeed…
No point to live with regrets… it’s the past… spend a little time on it…learn from and move on…

[midnightmoon05]

Go ask a question publicly so I can answer

[midnightmoon05]

I don’t want to hijack this post.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

So you and your ex still get along then? So it was a friendly breakup?

Can you still do gymnastics?

Do you ever miss being single and free to... like... experiment?

I'm gonna mention messaging again. Not big deal if you'd rather not, but scrolling through all this is getting hard.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Can you just message me? Or would messaging me feel weird to you?

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

I can understand that private messages with a guy my age might seem weird.

[midnightmoon05]

@FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa
I’m over 40 😂 I am too old to be playing with gymnastics after the surgery.
I don’t like bei by single… I can… but I like being in a good relationship…I’ll do anything to keep a family together. Even if we are living in 2 separated homes…

[midnightmoon05]

It was a bad divorce…lawyers, money wasted… anger, depression, anxiety, stress…
No meds!!
But hey… we came out better.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

So I tried to ask a question publicly, and apparently I've asked too many already? I asked a few anonymous ones.

[midnightmoon05]

@FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa tomorrow you can ask again

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

So you were a gymnast in college, huh? You must have had guys begging you for dates.

[midnightmoon05]

Nothing is weird to me. If I don’t like… I block. I don’t waste time. I met a lot of gaggers in real life… we have become phone friends… even marriage…
We met one in Germany 2 summers ago… he is still here… good guy.. we met one with his wife last Friday… he is like an old friend we talk often… we also met a former gagger… she and her boyfriend was visiting my town in October…
Let me get to know you a bit more… when you ask some questions.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

The stereotype is that gymnasts are hot. And... you know... flexible.

Do you miss all the attention? Like just walking from one class to the next, and all these guys are looking at you, and I guess lots of guys you knew just had to shoot their shot with you. Was all the attention and admiration fun?

[midnightmoon05]

Experiment? No… I am not a toy… I highly respect relationships, feelings. I don’t like to waste time or play games… I value families. I raise my kids the same way so they can focus on greater things in life than wasting time.
A small % of our society have been brain washed… another small % have been trapped… in the US… we have choices… take that as an opportunity.

So… I can become an angry, bittter divorce bitch.. and make my kids hate their dad… but I choice not to…
I even encourage my ex and his wife to take time to bond after their new baby is born and we can help with babysitting… like when baby turn 6 months and older…
That… is love and unity.
Take care…

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Maybe I'm one of the people who's been brainwashed then. I want to experience different people, different bodies, different... well, different experiences.

But maybe that's just me being young and horny and naive. Maybe women and girls see it differently.

How many kids do you have? How old are they?

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Just asked a question.

Girls, what are some advantages of doing serious competitive gymnastics?

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

It's in "Girl's behavior"

[midnightmoon05]

@FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa
It says you have not ask a question yet.

Did you post anonymously?

You can ask another question today.
Post it public so we can all see that it came from you.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

YEAH i POSTED IT ANONYMOUSLY, SORRY.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

I'll ask a public question on Sunday.

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Okay NOW I've asked a public question.

[MemeSupreme]

i mean i liked the bad boy type too when i was a teenager but that went away fast lol

now i don't really got a type like just be a good person and make me laugh like be fun to be around

[Aurav22]

Your pfp 😂😂😂

[NathanDavis]

nope... smart, interesting and funny... I'm still very much into that

[DancingQueen16]

Not really because for as long as I can remember, I've always liked boys with blonde hair like my first crush was blonde and my current boyfriend is blonde

[Nikki1989]

Nope. I have always been attracted to music geeks and musicians, and that will never change.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Nope. How innocent I believe they are has though. All of them are just meat sacks of evil at this point.

[RavVid]

Nah the archetypical hot girl in my reptilian sex brain is completely hardwired and unchangeable. Praise be.

[Bricealan]

@Simslover92 no, I can’t make a distinction between the women I liked in my 20s and 30s and now.

[MysticDevice]

Nope. My tastes have remained the same.

If you know any tall, slender, dorky, nerdy, shy chicks, send'em my way.

But seriously, I've been single for years, send'em.

[Tarifa]

No, always liked the same type of girl. Fell in love over and over again.

[CindyRuns]

I definitely feel like I'm starting to get like my parents !!!

[Hellraiser1984]

I used to be into the hot bitchy type. Because my mom always taught me opposites attract. I now realize my mom was completely wrong. I'm a nerdy type so I need a nerdy type.

[exitseven]

Not really, I still like athletic girls that are active

[MoonFace2]

Yes! I used to like Cleanshaven, pretty boys. Now I like hairy guys.

[convo_king89]

Nope, I’ve always liked the shy modest girl. Ever since I was a teen I’ve always been attracted to girls wearing regular panties and still do.

[Circushowcowboy]

I don’t think so too much. I think I have more types just from being exposed to more people through different phases of life.

[msc545]

It has. I used to like crazy because it was easy. Then I found out how dangerous crazy really is.

[RHK36]

Not really. Maybe more fine tuned to what I like, but my preferences are pretty much the same.

[LiamJHayden]

Between 14 and 20 my type was any woman who said "Yes." I am much choosier now.

[genericname85]

the basic type no. but my expectations for fitness or being in shape have dropped.

[Anonymous]

Me too, but I haven’t been into bad boys since my freshman year of high school

[MikeTheBartender]

https://youtu.be/wknywxfcE5M?si=QXfNj0U8jJs3E1F8

[Dou1994]

Not much but I my desires change but it is for what I don’t want

[Khadiislovee]

I've always liked unique and smart men around my early 20's and now I'm 40 and can say I still do. Unfortunately many men aren't my type.

[Slim57]

Nah I've always preferred the cute, shy, intelligent girls over the hot/sexy, confident, loud/party girls

[HonestAnswersOnly33]

Yes. I have matured as a man and look for qualities that matter more, this has lead to deeper feelings

[Anonymous]

Nope, I have always been attracted to normal, grounded, girl next door types.

[Anonymous]

I used to attracted to black women, but maybe because I watched porn or something, I like white women.

[Aurav22]

I agree miss...
You don't Like bad boys now?

[Simslover92]

Nope

[Aurav22]

What if bad boy fall in love with you? 🥺

[Simslover92]

Not happening

[Aurav22]

What if it's happened?
Never say never 🥺

[KingslayerC]

Pretty much zero difference as I've aged.

[Apple1996]

I've never had a type so no

[Unap0logetic_]

Yes mine has definitely changed.

[DrPepper12]

Not into blondes as much. I like shorter now.

[Anonymous]

hahaha yes, older, bearded and an accent.

[TonyMetal___86]

Just a good guy will work out

[beefcakebradybatson]

I've ALWAYS wanted buxom blondes.

[Eleni0199]

Some things more like matured.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes absolutely that's called growth

[Jimmerjammermama83]

I don’t think so

[Anonymous]

No, I always like the same types of girls.

[beenherebefore]

A little bit.

[eagle1951]

yeah