Does he find his cousin attractive?

Question

My boyfriend and I visited his cousins for Christmas. They live in the US and my boyfriend and I live in Canada. Therefore he doesn’t see them much. One is a boy same age as us, the girl is 2 years old. Today we went out and I realized he is VERY talkative to her and ONLY her. She has a boyfriend but every time the boyfriend talks or the boy cousin talks he is VERY short off and wouldn’t even try to make conversation. When the girl talks he leans towards her and turns his body away from me more towards her. Her boyfriend was acknowledging her and putting his arms around her. Mine literally acted like I wasn’t even there. Ever time he would ask a question like “should we get more to eat” he looks straight at her and only her before she even says anything. I know he doesn’t see them much but he was only like this with the girl. The second he dropped them off he started acting like normal, and acted like I was there.
Is this overthinking, or is there something?

SueShe · Accepted Answer

His behavior looks a little odd to me and the signs would point towards him liking your cousin a little more than he actually should, mainly in view of the fact that she has a boyfriend and that he is your boyfriend.

It is time to have this discussion with him and to tell him to lay his thoughts off from her.

What will happen next is already programmed. He will ask for her number (if he hasn't already done so) and he will start texting with her behind your back.

Of course, he will deny any physical attraction towards her if you ask him directly but that is a clumsy defense as all indicates in his behavior that he has a little crush on her.

Time to be very cautious and to ensure that the entire situation does not degenerate.

silvermoon84 · Accepted Answer

Sounds like it, and even her boyfriend noticed it if he was putting his arm around her every time. That’s a non-verbal “back off” que if I ever saw one.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Of course he does and you know that too

And he probably won't see her again for a while so this is when you get to have fun and tease him
About it I mean I don't know what type of guy he is but it's something that you can both laugh at if you say the right thing

Something like I don't know if you noticed but when she would start talking you would lean so far forward your butt was up off the chair and you were still in sitting position until she stopped talking and then you would fall backwards

I mean there was a couple times where I had to scoot the chair forward because I was afraid you were going to find your way back LOL

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

I hope not but if you get a SICK feeling in the pit of your stomach don’t ignore it. Confront him on how you feel

molonski2 · Answer

I think 100% he does.. Just ask him if when he is making love with you , is he thinking of his cousin? He is probably doing this or even worse , secretly masturbating over her , this is a damming scenario for his lust , sneaky buggar.