Do women normally address relationship issues with their female friends?

[Anonymous]

Like talk through the issue with her female friend maybe even bash the guy but not actually address it with him

[virtualwasp]

no, i always want to address issues to prevent them growing but they fall on deaf ears

[Asker]

Yeah this didn’t really happen she would talk about the issues to her friend then randomly she would bring up that they were bashing me when they would hang out

[virtualwasp]

I hate it when people try to use a back channel, its under handed and doesn't address the issue. Bit like when they wind you up then leave and someone else gets the brunt of it. I get wound up then they change shifts and the next crew get it. pisses me off.

[virtualwasp]

worse bit it if i try to address it, im negative, a narc, trying to manipulate, jealous, throwing a hissy fit. Classic gaslighting to discredit me.

[StevenMcGarrett]

Definitely. I know what all of my sister in laws are up to and I know what all of my wife's friends are up to. Including what happens in the bedroom and out.