Not sure how to proceed with dating anymore?

[Anonymous]

• Friend of 2 years.
• We would often play video games together and hang out together outside. A lot of times, it would just be the two of us playing video games together.
• I developed feelings for her later on and confessed my feelings to her. She rejected me, said she only sees me as a brother.
• Ghosted me forever after that.

• Next up, know this girl for 3 months.
• We could banter but I decided to just shoot my shot and asked her to hang out.
• She said no thanks, then told her friends that I should hang out with her in a group first before hanging out with her.
• Also got ghosted after that.

• Another one - interacted with this girl for 3 months too.
• We tease each other a lot and feel comfortable with light touches.
• Tried asking to hang out. She didn't directly reject me but gave a reason why she couldn't hang out.
• Now completely avoiding me.

TLDR - I think I must be doing something wrong because the girls whom I pay attention to are always not interested and ghosts/avoids me after that. Dating feels difficult... are we only interested in people who are not interested in us?

Some girls say that girls are only interested in you if they are nervous. Well, these girls were not nervous with me, so maybe I should have looked for signs of nervousness instead before asking a girl out...

[Anonymous]

You live in a fallen world and you wonder why you can't find a decent woman? A lot of these women have demons which impact behavior. I didn't know any of this until I started seeking first the Kingdom of God. Only God ordered steps can have you find a good woman. Everything else is futile!

People deny the spirit world, but it never denies you! It knows it exists and it knows how to impact your life.

[BriannaLidle]

The fuck is wrong with you? 😆 Get psychiatric help

[Opinion Owner]

Also note the following:

1 Corinthians 1:27

''But God hath chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise; and God hath chosen the weak things of the world to confound the things which are mighty;''

[lightbulb27]

Yea mr anon…thats not totally abnormal (lots prople male and female bomb out) its just that how you are projecting yourself. The girls are not getting feelings. You need to be the man and project confidence something they can connect to.

[Anonymous]

It seems like you’re starting as friends with all of them, it might be better to ask girls on dates without months of time as “friends”.

[Asker]

That's what I did, I asked them to hang out. In my culture (I don't live in the west), asking for a date right away without hanging out first to get a sense of things is seen as rushing the relationship.

A lot of friends tell me I shouldn't rush things and give it time for the girl to develop feelings.

And likewise for me, if I don't feel anything for a girl, I am not going to immediately ask her out. Usually it takes months for me to get to know a person before I start having feelings.

[Opinion Owner]

That makes sense, I guess there are cultural differences.

[NicholasRedone]

I retired from dating at 30 (in 31 soon this 2025) lol

[Godihateyou]

Ask female friend to help you make another female friend that you are interested in jealous. They will both ask you out... if you aren't ugly.

[Crazzyyworld]

All the girls want $ugar daddy

[Crazzyyworld]

All women are $poiled