Can a women with 5 kids date again? after leaving a very stressful relationship?

[TiaraL]

[Screenwriter]

It's according to if you're ready. How long ago was this relationship over? Is it truly done? You don't want it getting in the way of your seeking love again.

Make sure you have a good support system in place. Sitters so you'll be able to date. Online site for people who have children or want to date others with children. Try Meetups, whiche focuses on making friends with people with mutual interests: softball, sailing, volleyball, conversation and more...

Have therapeutic support, too. So you have an objective adult to talk over your dating experiences and keep you straight on red flags. Good luck.

[TiaraL]

it's been 5 years and I have been so busy working on myself and at the point now im asking myself if im ready to pick up another mindset? how would it work? will I have time to give him attention and support ?

[Screenwriter]

These are the right questions. According to your children's ages, you have to figure out how much free time you'll have to date. And anyone dating you will have to realize that your attention will be split SIX ways. Your children and , lastly, him. This might be a hard pill to swallow. But you have prior obligations, as much as you want to INCLUDE a SO.

First, FIND someone who's interested and see if you can fit him in and if he'll accept your time imitations.

I think IF you find someone who enjoys you and your children, you will all work out the kinks.

[Zack-Bann]

Yes she can.
But it will be hard.
She will have to temper her expectations and maybe even review her standards.


I know it’s not something anyone likes to hear but the fact is having even one kid is already a major development in a person’s life never mind 5.


Some men will not put up with that.


I would suggest an open mind though: maybe finding a man who’s also a single dad himself and is very family oriented.
Or a man who was told he can’t have kids but always wanted to.
There are all kinds of people out there.


And the reality is: being young and childless gives you more options but if she’s willing to play the game with her current reality she can be successful

[TiaraL]

Thanks 😊

[ohsheeT]

Any woman that has had five kids and has survived can do anything she wants as far as I'm concerned LOL she has to be a pretty smart tough lady that's all I have to say yeah I don't see why she wouldn't be able to love is love

[Valdemort]

When she's certain she's open to it. Not all men scare away from a woman with kids, but if there's a lot of bagage, find someone willing to deal with that- which might be difficult but not impossible.

[TiaraL]

Thanks for the advice 😊

[IslaTheWitch]

everyone can date...

just first, she should heal after a stressful relationship and not bring it to the next relationship...

[TiaraL]

Thank you I believe I’m ready now just needed 5 year healing

[SuperJJ]

Of course you can always date other guys. I just imagine it would be very difficult to meet a nice guy who would accept five children.

[molonski2]

Well , I have seen it done , so never say never..

[Anonymous]

Going to be a little more difficult. You say you have 5 kids. Some guys are going to be a little more picky about that. But also the guy needs to accept that fact that your a mother. But There's not one relationship that is stress free.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Anything is possible I guess

[Staximus]

That's up to her, not me

[KittygosMeoWW]

Of course it’s never late to find someone

[Ariesman81]

Sure. There's plenty of cucks out there.

[zombiewoof]

Sure, with a patient and understanding person

[jahaims]

Plenty of desperate men exist

[TiaraL]

Wowww I’m not looking for no desperate men