Nice girls finish last? Club girls /Baddies get married faster than good girls?

[Anonymous]

Marriage material women & virgin women are single (Cause most guys won't wait they want to test drive or be intimate)

Yes, I agree. Nice girls/Marriage material women finish last.

Guys tend to lust over the bad girls who are not wifey.

[Zack-Bann]

You do know a poll is supposed to be Yes and no, not yes and yes. Else you’re not asking for opinion only validation.


The fact is:
For both boys and girls, there are the proactive and the complacent.
Most self proclaimed nice girls and nice guys are just people who are lazy: they don’t take care of their appearance or their social life. Often live secluded and safe on the sidelines.
And yes they finish dead last if at all.


Those you call club girls are girls who went out of their way to attract a man.
Assuming they are all promiscuous sluts with nothing between the ears is presumptuous and false.


Many upstanding citizens who work all week decide to go have fun, dance and drink on the weekends
And they meet each other
Come Monday they’re back to being upstanding citizens and now are dating someone as well


So instead of wining about how unfair the world is because you’re such a gem and no one knows about you, just take back control of your life and go manifest your destiny
As in go out more

[ohsheeT]

Yeah you're probably right I mean I was 16 and a half when I lost my virginity because I was so curious I was just lucky that I lost it to the girl that I lost it to

But are you talking about You... i mean it's none of my business. Are you one of the nice girls at finish last.

I think it's a beautiful thing really and I would think that other girls look up to you but I have a question for you if you wouldn't mind answering I mean if you want you can send me a DM thank you

[Asker]

You can ask me here dude.

[ohsheeT]

Okay so is it you that you're talking about

[ohsheeT]

And if it is let's pretend to you got a boyfriend all of a sudden and he wanted to make out how far would you go

[Asker]

Kissing is fine. Nothing wrong about that. Fornication is a big sin that will lead to hellfire.

[ohsheeT]

Okay so you really like each other and you really want to basically please each other and make each other happy so you make a deal where you can make out have foreplay but just no penetration so I guess fornication would be if this was to happen and he rolled you over on top of him grab the hold of your hips and just in slow motion just slid you forward slow motion slid you back forward back maybe reach up grab a hold of your hair pull you down so you can kiss your lips your face your neck so I guess that is fornication too right.

Like I said I dated a girl that was a. Virgin and I promised her I would keep her that way but what I just said we did that I mean we made a deal no penetration but everything else was okay. So I was just curious on that what your thoughts were about that

[ohsheeT]

Wouldn't kissing be fornication too kind of

[Asker]

Nothing wrong kissing & holding hands. Oral sex (body parts) without penetration is also forbidden. Sex is a gift from God for Husband & Wife. Guys in general cannot control their lusts & urges. Remain pure until marriage. It's worth the wait

[ohsheeT]

Yeah it's a little bit too late for that for me LOL I had to experience it early age I was 16 and a half and I was pissed off because it was bad cuz I thought I was going to go to hell but she was 19 and she said it was good but we tried it three more times the next two times we're just like the first time bad I thought she said it was good so now I was going to go to hell even deeper I thought we were supposed to see fireworks but on the fourth time it was our last time but I completely changed everything I did and we both seen fireworks that time. So even though I was still going to hell at least I learned something that day and have perfected it from that day to this day except for I'm not as wild. It's been almost three and a half years probably

And like you said it's a gift and it's between a wife and a husband it's also between two people who love each other and most people that love each other don't even know how to please each other and they don't understand the meaning of becoming one because when you can become one with somebody it changes everything and I believe when we were born God gave us all the gift and that gift this choice when we get to choose who we want to be in life of things that we say and we do and I'm one of these guys that I need to experience and understand. Everything and like I said most married people most girlfriend and boyfriend don't even know how to become one with each other

[yummyJoe]

Nice girls don’t finish last—they just take the scenic route. The truth is, men chase what excites them, but they commit to what fulfills them. Baddies and club girls might get more immediate attention because they exude confidence, fun, and a little danger—things that trigger instant attraction. But marriage? That’s a whole different game.

The real plot twist? It’s not about being a nice girl or a baddie—it’s about balance. The ones who know how to be sweet with a little spice, classy with a hint of naughty? Yeah, those women don’t stay single for long.

[DishLady]

Yeah, guys DO tend to lust after nice looking gals... and try to date them because it's nice to show your friends that you have a nice bit of eye candy by your side. But that gets old really quickly and then guys find themselves either shifting from one lustful connection to another OR find themselves looking for the nice girl.

Do nice girls finish last? Yeah, unless we meet a nice guy who knows what he needs to do to get us to finish first, haha.

[conanbdetective]

Most of the married women I know/knew over the years were the ones with High School/Uni Sweethearts or found partners in the workplace. Generally kept up with their interests, friends and family, didn't go to the club and "lived it up" every cheque.

As for club baddies, the ones you know objectively 8-10's, they know their time limit before they're outmoded. Think about it: real baddies go home, with a new partner and or friends, before the lights are up in the club. They ain't catching first trains or the sunrise. If they're farming for attention, it's a different story.

[Asker]

Not everyone meets their match at High School/Uni or Workplace. It also depends which country. Most of the Western countries yeah different story. Got other reasons too like couldn't find your type/ the guy is unattractive or husband material.

[AnonAndrew]

I think you are setting up a bit of a false choice here between virgins and "Club girls /Baddies."

Personally I happen to prefer promiscuous women, but I know that's not the norm.

The average guy doesn't want some innocent virgin who wants to wait until marriage, though. The average guy wants someone in between the virgins and the promiscuous women.

However, if forced to choose between those two, many guys will choose the promiscuous woman over the virgin. She's at least fun, sexually open, and great in bed. So even if she's not his first choice, he'd rather settle for her than the sexually reserved virgin.

[jahaims]

Nice girls are the ones who are married and not desperately blaming everything but themselves for why they are still single.

[Asker]

Not all nice girls are married. Got good people ended up single mothers.

[Anonymous]

No. "Baddies" as you call them (I hate that term), just put themselves out there while the so called "good girls" don't.

Closed mouths don't get fed hun.

[Asker]

Nice girls don't go outside the house? Of course yes. Not all nice girls get proper gentleman. They get bad guys. Got so many single mothers. Guys ran away from their responsibilities. It's better to marry late than marry wrong.

[Opinion Owner]

It's got NOTHING to do with going outside the house. It has EVERYTHING to do with 1. Knowing your worth. And 2. Communicating your feelings. Too many women today EXPECT a guy to read there mind. There was a time when women nonverbal communicated thier interest to be approached and chatted up by guys. This does NOT exist anymore. So many women bait guys just for attention that half of men do not approach women and the other half approach any woman they think they can get a piece of.
The so called "nice women" you talk about, are not nice. They just THINK they are. If they were they would easily be scammed by some guy with a smooth approach. And that brings me to the next point, Single mothers. There are VERY FEW women victims when it comes to this. Most of these women simply NEVER used thier head. Too many of these women sleep with a guy to quickly and without a commitment from him. The ONLY person I feel sorry for in an illegitimate pregnancy is the child. Because the child didn't deserve that. Everyone else reaped what they sewed.
I agree it IS better to marry late than to marry wrong. Pass that on to your sisterhood. They already know everything😆, so it does no good for a guy to tell them this. Women think they lose value as they age. I'm not going to lie. They DO lose sexual value. But that's only relevant if that's all she has to offer. And a woman that ONLY has that to offer is not a good woman.
Your gender really needs to lose the mindset that your body is the only thing you have to offer a man. And your gender needs to take thier time and make better decision. Make men EARN you. A GOOD man WILL wait! If he unwilling to he's either not a good man or you're not really a good woman. Or at least not good at projecting your worth. Because a good man will see it. It may not be immediate. But he will see it if it's there.
Hope this helps.

[Opinion Owner]

WOULDN'T be easily scammed

[dudeinohio]

You have to try it before you buy it.

[Asker]

We are not cars though. We all got the same "it".

[dudeinohio]

We have to find out if we are sexually compatible.

[Anonymous]

No, nice guys finish last.

[Asker]

It goes both ways dude. It doesn't happen to only 1 gender. Everyone has 2 eyes but not the same view.

[AnonAndrew]

The guys who tend to finish last are shy or overly passive guys who describe themselves as "nice guys."

Normal guys who are actually nice tend to finish ahead.

[Asker]

@AnonAndrew Those shy guys use dating apps to find someone.