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I got used to be alone& lost desire for men as no one made my dream of attending family functions with me come true.😔
at 13 my friend don’t like me back & distant.
at 17 guy I liked don’t like me back& like a blonde girl.
At 18 my guy friend went on date with me but he chose other girl he was talking to first& left to navy.
At 18 I met guy at job that liked me& he’s only guy that dated me but were never offical. He used me for sex&dates 7 years& denied meet family. I thought he was my boyfriend& he saw me as friends with benefits.
we never dated weekly, just 2x a month, only one month we dated weekly. so at 25 I dump him.
at 25 I fell in love with guy at my job. we met 3 days as we got seperated due to work schedules & missed chance exhange numbers&felt he was my soulmate.
then I get fired.& return to job at 26. Between that I met 100 guys online & all wanted sex only. One boy I did hookup with but only cuz he acted & looked exaclty like the guy I fell in love with. So it was blissful night together in an Airbnb& he even slept in same bed with me like a husband. he lived in another state& only wanted sex.
I came across one guy that wanted marry me meet family but it was guy that looked like a fatter version of the guy that used me for sex & dates that I dumped. & i didn’t like him back.
I’m 27 & talking to new guy at work since Dec, that I’m smitten for. it’s all slow & not sure if we’ll be couple in future. it don’t seem like he wants me for sex cuz he’s not texting me fast for kiss, sex & its 3 months I know him. It’s more like a spiritual emotional connection he’s doing w/me.
2 other guys from work I met & texted me fast&wanted sex fast.
I met guy last wk but he lied how we’ll go for beach date & he’s distant as he only wanted hookup.
everyone in my family is married pregnant have babies & I remain alone at the family functions
But I lost desire to go on dates, or to meet more new men. I only Desiré talk to men as friends as I don’t get along with girsl. But I have lost interest romantically and not sure if this is normal.
I would love live with that guy I’m smitten for and hav his baby at least , but the universe won’t make it come true just once make it come true with a guy I desire deeply. It’s ok if it
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You're experiencing a loss of desire for men due to repeated rejections and emotional pain. This is a common defense mechanism. Many men you've met pursued casual sex, not commitment, leading to disillusionment. Focus on healing, self-care, and building genuine connections. The new, slow-moving connection may be a positive sign. Consider therapy to process past hurts and develop healthier relationship patterns. Your worth isn't defined by your relationship status.
Then only guys I don’t like want be my boyfriend so I’m depresed. I want a boyfriend be someone I deeply like a lot hav butterflies want sex with. As if u have a boyfriend and marriage u will need hav sex daily. U obviously need have attraction to ur partner
😓 I feel stupid. My life feels dull and empty, I want go to restraunts each weekend with a man, fun places fun trips with a man, live life, go to store buy decor for my babies bday party , go visit my bfs parents , I want begin living life 😓
But no guy wants be my boyfriend only ugly men I don’t like 😓 even young girls get bfs so y the young guys don’t want be my short term boyfriend? I don’t want marriage just a short term boyfriend that meets family 1-2 years it’s ok
Don’t give up. Give love a chance. It may find you when you least expect it - but it likely won’t be online.
I have deep feelings for someone in real life at moment but he’s reserved n shy so eveything is too slow there’s no kiss dates nothing not even text yet. But I see him daily as we work samw place. Please don’t say u can’t get a boyfriend at work yes at my workplace it’s normal. My workplace is like a school.
But I like him a lot so I’ve also missed chances talk past 2 wks as I get intimidated so that’s another reason y progress is slow. Also due to my fault.
But I’m scared meet more new men as men I like don’t like me back and only old men 60-70 want be my boyfriend or guys im not sexually attracted to. Also even if a random church guy wants to marry me fast I won’t feel butterflies or anything for him. My desire for guys is becoming low. So in concerned how I’ll live with a boyfriend have babies meet family as I dream of.
Of the guy im smitten for ar my job cud do that short term 1-2 years I would be satisfied with that.
Then after that at 30 I can find a guy to marry as my dream of having a first boyfriend being someone I deeply desire came true finally so I would be able start my settled married life with someone new
I am the same way too. I don't get as turned on thinking about women anymore. And with Trump and the world ending due to insane amounts of greed I am losing interest even faster.
Did u read my whole story? No guy likes me lol. I’ve been trying since 13 get a boyfriend.
Supsoivly people say the first boyfriend I have will be my husband.
Yeah, I haven't gotten anyone either for decades I tried. I figured If I can't find anyone by now I probably will never find someone. My desire for sex is low. I chit chat with women, but I know it won't go no where.
I only am smitten for one one new guy. But who knows what’ll hapen with him. Only good news is he is only one that spent vakentines day with me all day at work. N it never feel like he wants me for sex or else he would of texted me fast for sex
He might be the one. I never had no one for valentines day. You're lucky.
But we haven’t talked after that due to me missing chances to talk.