If false accusations don’t ruin men’s lives because some succeed, does a woman’s success mean being raped didn’t ruin hers?

[Anonymous]

[SteveSmith1985]

I'm getting muddled in the way you worded your question. I may not be clear on what you're asking. Still:

-False accusation of rape is inexcusably horrible.

-Rape is inexcusably horrible.

-Nobody should accuse anyone falsely. Or they should be forced to answer for their crime.

-Nobody should rape. Or they should be forced to answer for their crime (and the cost should be much higher than it currently is)

I don't know if that answers what you were getting at. But I tried.
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[Effably]

Seems like a dishonest argument for both of sides. Rape and false rape claims both do serious harm to their victims. Different levels, I'd argue, but harm.

Where do you want to get with this? I assume someone made the claim that slander, if proven wrong, is not harmful? But pretty luch every legal system in the world disagrees with that statement so, where is the precedent for discussion? Pure hypothetical?

[Shiprex]

Success in life isn't necessarily a factor in negative life experiences.

I would say a success in life in spite of negative lived experiences add more to the character to the person concerned.

[Anonymous]

Guys know that false accusations is the price of doing business when it comes to women.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

A woman is down for whatever right up to the moment she's not. And guys know a lot of times they won't know it till she accuses him of something nefarious. Eg. when I guy invites a woman over and they end up sleeping together. Then the next day she regrets it and decides she was raped. Guys no this can and will happen. And a smart guy weeks out the flakes as best he can but some women may give no indication she is a flake so some may still slip through. And guys know this. So guys just accept this as an inevitable fact of dating.