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I’ve had very little success in the dating world from online dating to in person.
I’ve always been told I’m pretty attractive at lest slight above average at the very least but I just think I have very bad luck.
Recently tho I’ve been going through a lot in regards to this girl I like.
I just feel there’s a strong lack of communication in her part on how she truly feels and in relegated to often times give things just time for her to sort it out which is tough for me since I’m an over thinker and impatient.
Some situations have also lead me to the mindset of doing almost anything necessary, necessary in order to win I almost look at it if as a game to an extent and it’s scary.
Alls fair in love and war as they say and from my standpoint as a guy who often gets the short end of the stick it’s even scarier from lying and manipulation as well as other attics I’m starting to think these are all things that maybe I should be using.
A female friend recently told me that nothing really coms if being nice in life especially in dating and that honestly a conclusion I’d come to a while ago but I’m generally just a kind person.
But instead of good things come my way because. I l already know some idiots rebuttal to that will be “well you expect good things to happen to you cause you nice that’s not how it works duh”
Ofc that’s not how it works Jackass but why would anyone won’t bad things to happen to them because if the kindness they show others.
And dating this hold even more so true I used to want to prove people wrong about nice guys but I don't know anymore I kinda feel like I’m better off doing what I need to do I can get the girl even if it’s a little shady and unhinged most girls seem like they prefer that over the typical nice guys even though they will tell you differently but there actions show otherwise.
I don’t know if I’d say I’m on a better path or worse path but this is how the dating landscape has pushed me to think so yeah.
I’ve always been told I’m pretty attractive at lest slight above average at the very least but I just think I have very bad luck.
Recently tho I’ve been going through a lot in regards to this girl I like.
I just feel there’s a strong lack of communication in her part on how she truly feels and in relegated to often times give things just time for her to sort it out which is tough for me since I’m an over thinker and impatient.
Some situations have also lead me to the mindset of doing almost anything necessary, necessary in order to win I almost look at it if as a game to an extent and it’s scary.
Alls fair in love and war as they say and from my standpoint as a guy who often gets the short end of the stick it’s even scarier from lying and manipulation as well as other attics I’m starting to think these are all things that maybe I should be using.
A female friend recently told me that nothing really coms if being nice in life especially in dating and that honestly a conclusion I’d come to a while ago but I’m generally just a kind person.
But instead of good things come my way because. I l already know some idiots rebuttal to that will be “well you expect good things to happen to you cause you nice that’s not how it works duh”
Ofc that’s not how it works Jackass but why would anyone won’t bad things to happen to them because if the kindness they show others.
And dating this hold even more so true I used to want to prove people wrong about nice guys but I don't know anymore I kinda feel like I’m better off doing what I need to do I can get the girl even if it’s a little shady and unhinged most girls seem like they prefer that over the typical nice guys even though they will tell you differently but there actions show otherwise.
I don’t know if I’d say I’m on a better path or worse path but this is how the dating landscape has pushed me to think so yeah.
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U do understand that these tactics can only be used to get someone attention for a very short period. What makes them consider u are qualities that cannot be manipulated
You say that but could never understand the position that lead me up to that I’m not even sure I want love anymore
As a girl , we can see it when a guy manipulates. Girls see through everything
Manipulation can get attention , but never a real connection
Really cause a whole lot of girls out there with guys out there that couldn’t care less and are happily doing all sorts of crazy things for them even tho they cheat get other woman pregnant so on and so forth you woman aren’t as all seeing as you claim to be in fact id say out of the two genders you girls are pretty blind
If some bum can get a 10 out of 10 to stay with him even though he treats her like crap but I can get the average girls to give me the time of day even though I Try all the respectful bullish woman claim they love them I’ll take my chances
It’s because those girl too wanna have fun. They don’t care which guy they are doing it with as long as they are doing it with someone.
U are a black guy. U need to accept u are hierarchically disadvantaged
What your saying literally contradicts itself they care they just don’t care to do it with the nice guy they’d rather have the man that will treat them like crap I’m tried of having sympathy for the ones who are so beautiful and sometimes so kinds and everything you’d want in a girl but they choose the bum that doesn’t deserve them
What does that even mean hierarchically disadvantaged in what way?
Because the bums are white men. I would not mind being knocked up by the tall , handsome , white man with great genetics
U do understand only a loser will need to manipulate girls for attention
If a bum is getting a girl , he either is tall , white , or comes from generational wealth (royal bloodline )
White men are bums but you’d love to be knocked up by one with great genetics?
They don’t manipulate lol
Yessss. Women are programmed to want , racially , physically superior men. Like tall white guys. Because the offspring would have better genetics. Imagine giving birth to a dark skinned nigga child. Or a racially superior white baby. Most women chose the second
And women don’t like men who make it big from scratches. They love men who are born into money. Royal blood , as they put it
These kind of men don’t manipulate. They know they are superior. And when chiding wives these men too chose equally superior tall blonde , white women. Look at Donald trump for example.