How should you respond when you girlfriend always calls you a disappointment?

[Anonymous]

Like she always said I was constantly disappointing her and in ways it felt exhausting to be accepted

[SteveSmith1985]

You break up with her. This is not how anyone should feel in any relationship. Ever.

Sorry man, this has to end. You can't be made to feel constantly not-good-enough. That's bad for you. That'll fuck you up long-term.

That is the only healthy response. Get out of that relationship.

[Nikki1989]

Ask her to explain why she uses this language. Try to understand the root of her feelings.

Notice the other opinions on this post. There you can see why so many relationships don't last. No one wants to tackle the hard questions, they rather run away and hide from their problems and instead of resolving the issues.

[Nikki1989]

4 people so far all got it SO wrong.

[Levin]

Nah, they're all right. Anyone with self-respect wouldn't tolerate something like that. That's some real emotional abuse there. There is nothing to salvage. The relationship would be over as soon as someone said that to me.

[PeachyPie93]

Tell her to go choke on a bag of dicks.. then tell her she is draining you and becoming a burden, if she doesn't fix up soon you are planning on abandoning her.

[slatyb]

I dump her and get another girlfriend.

[goaded]

Leave her, it's a toxic relationship.

[missindiana93]

Dump her ass

[jahaims]

Dump her obviously

[zombiewoof]

She would be an ex

[Anonymous]

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