Is my life over if I'm an ugly girl?

[Anonymous]

I'm quite ugly, my classmates told me this sometimes and I can see myself in the mirror. I look very manly (huge jaw) and my eyes are super uneven. And I have soo much acne. My body is also super ugly, I don't have a flat stomach, and when I asked my doctor about how to lose weight healthily he told me not to because I'm already thin and could become underweight. I thought that I could save up for plastic surgery and liposuction and buy & learn make-up to make up for that, but then i read some posts on here and apparently that wouldn't make me pretty, just fake.

So I don't know what to do now. No guy has ever asked me out or even complimented me and on a school trip once when we played spin the bottle they made me sit it out because none of the guys wanted to kiss me (and we werent even doing french kissing just normal kissing). Chat is my life over should i just give up? there's no way ill ever find a boyfriend looking like this and there's no way out…

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Also I got a response saying maybe I'll become prettier in the future but what if I don't (I'm sure a lot of girls don't). And I've never heard of puberty shrinking jaws or making eyes even…

[ohsheeT]

Hey hold on for I min. OK FIRST OF ALL YOU HAVE GOOD AND BAD PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD.
When we were all born we were given a gift. That gift is choice.

We get to choose who we wantbto be in life. It's our choice

Ok next thing is every one on this planet is made from water and atoms. Atoms brok down Equals energy

So we are all made of energy Understand this energy has a life of itself It's within us it's what guidance it's what teaches us it is What molds is the thing that when we die? We'll gather our soul our spirit and it will take it to wherever the next dimension is


O k now we are our thoughts Whatever we think in our brain at any given moment. That's what happens that if you say you're ugly you're going to end up being ugly

You have to understand every thought that you have is guiding. Us step by step in every moment. So please stop calling your self ugly

The other thing.
There is no such thing as ugly only comes from the inside out. All the people that give you c*** every day. They are ugly people. They are selfish

Wait two years after you graduate And run into those people again. I guarantee they're going to The most miserable unhappiest people you Will ever meet in your life. It's not karma What it ISIS how they treated everybody else. It was a thought that's who they become I would love to write a book about this


Anyway.
Do not allow anybody In this world to get inside your head And make you think you are that person Because you're not

I want you to have the most beautiful positive thoughts each and every day. Do not call yourself ugly anymore. Do not put yourself down anymore. Because that's who you will become, you need to look in the mirror each and every day and say I love you. I am beautiful. I guarantee that you are right now.


You need to be kinder to yourself. You need to quit listening to other people. You need to listen to you are The Creator of you.
You keep telling yourself that you're smart everyday. You're going to be smart? Happy everyday? You're going to be happy. Beautiful everyday.
You're going to be beautiful?
Because it's already inside you. All of those are already inside of you. You just have to say it to bring them out.

The other thing.
The people that give you a hard time and call you ugly. They do not like themselves. They are miserable, so they want to bring you to that same level. Do not go there because that is their destiny that is their goal, and if they can make you the same way as they are that you start treating people like that, then they win. Do not pay attention to them. Clear them out of your head.


This is just a moment in time that you have to make it through. After school's out, you'll never see those people again. But they'll be in your head if you allow them to be, they'll be in your subconscious. If you allow them to be do not allow them in there you are better. You are better because you are beautiful. You are smart. You are happy and you have to. Keep telling you.
Rself, that just to get through this moment in time. This is the part that shapes you for your future. Do not allow them in.
You need to smile and be happy. And when they say something, just let it bounce right off of you. Because I guarantee it in a few years after school. You're gonna see these people? You're gonna be the most miserable and you make it through this. You're gonna be absolutely gorgeous smart wise happy healthy and that's who you have to be

[FunkyMonkee]

Apparently, being ugly is all the rage! Look at how many pretty women pay shitloads of cash to have doctors make them look ugly! Cher, Dolly Parton, that Versace chick that looks like a tiger, now, Loretta Swit. They were all at least average looking if not very pretty and look at what they paid to have done to them!!
Throughout most of my young life, I had loads of my peers tell me that I'm ugly but, most of the others in my life considered me a very good-looking guy!! From what I recall, the last time someone called me, "ugly" was 1982. One of my ex-guitarists said it to my face! A few weeks later, I got my very 1st girlfriend!! A year later, I got my 2nd (she once told me that I looked like Fabio!!), another year later, I got my 3rd!! There's also been several other women that were just friends of mine, or even people I just met shortly before, who couldn't resist giving me a passionate kiss, for some reason! In most cases, they were married!! So, how bad can I be?
Don't pay much attention to what your friends say!!
I don't know your age but, chances are, you're still going through your ugly duckling phase and that should end before too terribly long. Acne will eventually go away. As far as guys not asking you out, don't put that down to ugliness. I'm hearing from quite a few women in their 30's that are still virgins and never had a boyfriend!! It's a recent societal thing, not about you being ugly. In fact, it could go the other way!! If you're very pretty, a lot of guys won't bother asking you out because they figure, you're so very pretty that you probably already have at least one boyfriend and several more waiting their turn so, there's no point in bothering to ask you out but, in reality, the girl has never had a boyfriend BECAUSE she's so pretty!!
When I was in college, I met a girl that was drop dead GORGEOUS!!! She could've easily been Debby Harry's twin sister and most people thought she was prettier than Marilyn Monroe but SHE thought she was fat and ugly!! In the meantime, nearly every guy on campus wanted her!! She was only 17 (a month shy of her 18th).
Besides, personality is your selling point! if you've got a great personality, you'll have no trouble getting a guy!

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Some people lye I thought i was ugly for a long time because that's what my classmates told me but they lied in Def not ugly ans now I'm happily married to an amazing man ans am a trophy wife so don't believe something just because people tell you it

[Bricealan]

@trumpetplayerforlife Same thing I told her.

[Asker]

What if theyre not lying tho

[Asker]

Like there's ugly girls out there maybe im 1 of them

[LiaRaven]

If you allow it to be over, it’ll be over even if you are the prettiest girl

[slatyb]

Please get counseling if you can. I felt quite unattractive at your age, and so did my wife. Finally I got counseling as I was leaving a disastrous marriage, and it saved my life. If you can't get counseling, is there any supportive adult you can talk to?

[Bricealan]

Young girls, your age are always 'ugly' (in their own mind) as a result of the stupid things that teens say to each other in their gross ignorance. I would bet that your attitude towards yourself and your self image will change dramatically once you get out of the nightmare of high school

[Alex-Snow]

Not a chance. Your classmates are idiots. It is the person inside the body and the personality that counts. Hang in there and do not hang with those that out you down. I'm sure you have many good qualities. When you least expect it the right guy will enter your life!

[zombiewoof]

You may be a late bloomer, a girl that comes into her beauty later than others, several girls i went to school with were average or less, 4 or 5 years after school suddenly they were true beauties, much more than the nice looking girls back in school

[SexyPulse]

your life is not over if your an as you call it a ugly girl

[Billybob46]

My girlfriend has a huge jaw but I still like her.

[Anonymous]

Don't worry. Simply try to have many friendships, some gas will be interested in you

[chocolatetwopointo]

fake it till u make it

[Jeff51]

No and don't listen to others

[Anonymous]

Nope

[Tempest_Flame]

yes.