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I saw recently a guy who I dated 3 years ago. It ended in very bad terms. We didn’t date long. I’ve lost my feelings but in the past I liked him a lot.
Yesterday I saw him at the grocery store. He walked in to the checkout area. I also walked to checkout area (almost same time as him) and at the same time I was talking to my friend. He then looked at me and we locked eyes. It obviously felt very awkward and I then made U turn and went to another line out of his view. So he obviously noticed how I ignored him.
But it was funny how he quickly recognized me although he hasn’t seen me for a long time. Also my friend noticed how he turned to look at me and got tense. He quickly paid his food and walked out of the store lol
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Is this a question or are we reminiscing lol
Question lol
Oh, what’s the question? Sorry if I missed it somehow
We locked eyes as soon as I got in his line of view and he got tense (even my friend noticed) . Why would he tense up even 3 years later? Hw was the one who cut contact
I’ll be super honest girl but I think that is just surprise from seeing you randomly in person lol I mean you guys did date, you weren’t just some random chick so it makes sense for him to remember your face. Plus you ended on bad terms so it could’ve been a bit awkward. But I don’t think there was more to it than that.
I’m kinda mad that I kinda started to panic when I saw him and quickly changed my direction lol
It’s all good, I think we all have an idea of how we’d like to act if we ran into an ex yet when it actually happens it’s a whole other story. I think you both just felt the awkwardness of the moment, since things ended so badly and you haven’t spoken since.
Well I do kinda think about him sometimes but I don't know about him. He’s single what i’ve heard from friends..
What was the fight about? If you don’t mind me asking.
I was one hour late for our date and we had communication issue
It’s just escalated abd ge said ” I’m looking fir my soulmate and I don’t want to waste my time”
Clearly he hasn’t still found his ”soulmate”
See, when men do shit like that, cutting things off for the dumbest reason, it makes me think they were just looking for an excuse to end it. In my opinion unless you didn’t have any reason for being late then he should’ve and could’ve been more understanding. That’s how you know he didn’t really see a substantial connection, because he wouldn’t have thrown it away so stupidly like that. Anyway, if I were you I’d leave that door closed lol. Any time that I’ve got back to an ex-whatever it never paid off, there’s always a reason it didn’t work.
I don't know I hope he’s matured. I also did made mistakes. What’s odd is he’s really good looking and all of his friends are married but he’s still single. When he dumped me whe was talking about finding a wife lol
I’d say this is less about maturity and more about knowing what you want. I think that if he really wanted you, he wouldn’t have cut ties simply because you were late, especially if it wasn’t purposely done. I don’t say this to put you off or douse your hopes whatsoever, I mean if seeing him triggered something in you to reach out then go ahead. I just think his choice to cut you off over being late and go all these years without trying to salvage anything says a lot. He has your info, has some sort of access to you, and hasn’t made a move. Even since you recently saw him.
I saw him yesterday. Also I removed him shortly after our argument from my instagram and he got mad about it
He doesn’t have your number? No mutuals?
I changed my number but I still have the same username on instagram
Gotcha, just curious if he had any way of contacting you or how you would contact him, assuming you haven’t blocked each other. So if he did have some means….
Nice story
But what's the question?
of view and he got tense (even my friend noticed) . Why would he tense up and feel awkward even 3 years later? He was the one who cut contact