My ex-FWB cut me off after things got more serious with the guy she was seeing. Is it unreasonable for me to still want to be friends?

[Anonymous]

I was Friends with Benefits with this woman for two months then she started dating this guy. One day she texted me that things were getting more serious with this new guy and that she was ending things. I thought that we would still be friends, but now she’s unfollowed me on everything and won’t answer my texts and calls. Whenever, I see her she’s cold and distant and things are awkward.

[DishLady]

She's your ex wife. Why do you want to be friends? Do you have kids together or something? If not, why are you hanging on? Let her and whatever He-Man clone she's with do their thing. She probably cut you off bc he asked her to.

[PeachyPie93]

You don't usually stay friends with people you used to fuck once you are dating someone.. especially if the other person would still like to sleep with you. Most friends with benefits are not actually friends its just someone they bang..

[lorenzomichael]

No I don’t thing it’s unreasonable however I do thing it’s probably not a good idea. But who am I to say? I think you should ask her that’s what I think. Good luck Bubba.

[Asker]

Why is it not a good idea? Whenever I try to talk to her she ignores me like we never knew each other or looks uncomfortable.

[lorenzomichael]

There it is you already know the answer. Good job.

[slatyb]

You can want whatever, but in this case you aren't getting it. It's over. Move on.