When it comes to dating, what is your attachment style?

[HawkPerception]

This is a link to the attachment style test
https://www.idrlabs.com/attachment-style/test.php

Secure

Anxious

Avoidant

Disorganized

[Summeroflove]

Well feeling secure around someone is what I aim for. But you can’t expect to feel secure around one another overnight. It’s when two people can honestly discuss with one another when they feel a certain way rather then holding back and showing it in negative ways.

Sure, some relationships you will peacefully put a end to. Because you’ve communicated and figured out that it’s not going to work. As painful as it is it’s less painful leaving on good terms then bad ones.

It takes knowing that both people are honest, have integrity, and are loyal. To feel completely secure.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I'd say secure.

Simply put, I don't like to play games and I have already enough stuff to worry about nowadays - work, family, divorce, going back and forth between the US and Europe.

I got those results, split right in the middle, but I don't think they are 100% correct. Perhaps my answers are influenced by the fact that while I am open for frequentations, I am not that eager to jump right back into another committed relationship.

[Genie23]

I got this in result. To be honest, I used to be very open and trusting but after some bad experiences (not only in relationships) over the years- I became bit scared and tend to push people away when I first started liking them and start to feel attached but those who understand my reason behind that fear still stayed in my life like a rock and after some time, I start trusting them completely and have 100% faith whether in relationships or in friendship that they genuinely care and won't leave/avoid me.

[Genie23]

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[HawkPerception]

Yeah GaG has been pretty glitchy lately. My messages often get cut off and only show a snippet of what I've said.

Seems to me like those are pretty good results, so I wouldn't be unhappy with that 😂

[Genie23]

😭 That happened to me too, and only when I typed lengthy messages—like 3–5 paragraphs, lol. I mean, I wouldn’t mind GaG cutting off my harmless/funny trolling comments or short answers, but I take a while to write thoughtful responses to serious questions. 😭 Gotta go send this bunny face image to the GaG official account to express my displeasure. 🙅🏻‍♀️ Lol

I’m happ, but I just wanted to show that I’m not as cool and calm as the results made me look. I used to be a real pain in the neck at some point 🤣

What's yours? Or I can make a guess too based on the things I've noticed 😯

[HawkPerception]

Sure take a guess. I think you'd be surprised 😂

[HawkPerception]

And I'm the same way. Lengthy, thoughtful responses. That's why I wanna throw hands when they cut my message off 😠

[Genie23]

You want to just throw hands... That's still so nice. You know what I want to do?


Just kidding 😂

Mmmm... From what I've noticed you're capable of experiencing true love and would want to stay with that person for life but you also tend to doubt yourself at times and also probably wonder whether your partner will choose to stick through thick and thin. So, I feel like you can be secure when you meet the right person but before that you tend to be anxious. So, I'd say you're sort of leaning toward anxious attachment style. 🤔

[Genie23]

I think you won't mind even girls who are clingy as that girl will give you reassurance that you're needed and she loves you.

[Genie23]

Sorry if I'm wrong about you! 😶

[HawkPerception]

Wow... that's very impressive. I didn't think you'd get it but that was bang on. Anxious attachment is my style. And yeah, if someone makes me feel loved and puts in effort into the relationship, I can definitely feel secure.

You blew my mind there!

[HawkPerception]

Definitely earned my respect. You're a very observant and intuitive one.

[HawkPerception]

And on top of it, you're considerate. Worried if you offended after mentioning your opinion. Don't worry though. In the future, you don't have to hold back with me 😊

[Genie23]

Thank you! Appreciate it. 😊 I’ll give the credit to books. I grew up reading mystery novels, especially The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes. Those stories taught me to notice tiny details—like people’s choice of clothing, their mannerisms, how they talk, or what they say and what's the reason behind their words. When I got older, I started reading not only novels but also a lot about human psychology and biology, lol. So I tend to analyse and deduce before I express what I think of people. I guess it paid off. 😄

I feel the same way. I’ve seen you give so many thoughtful and deep responses, so I could tell you’re very observant too. I appreciate that. 😇

[Genie23]

And yeah, some people get angry or upset on GqG if I express my honest opinion. So, I apologise in advance to let them know I don't mean no harm. Thank you for telling me that. I'll express freely 😊

[HawkPerception]

I'm also a fan of Sherlock Holmes. Although I haven't read the book, I've enjoyed the movies and show.

I have a pretty high opinion of your intellect now 😊

[Genie23]

Wow! That explains why we get along so well. Maybe when you retire after few decades, give that book a try. Trust me, it’ll take you to a whole new world. It’s such a rich and rewarding experience! 🤩

Coming from someone as intelligent as you- that made my day! Wow, that explains why we get along so well.. I’ll see you around, Hawk. 😇

[Genie23]

Thank you for MHO!

[DishLady]

Sometimes secure (in the maternal way esp for children and the elderly, but this is usually my go to); sometimes disorganized (bc being a a guy requires a great deal of mental resilience).

[queenofcardio]

I knew it was going to be secure.

Relaxed-Engaging (Secure):

[Crimsyjo]

On edge/engaging on the test. And I'd agree with 80-90% of what it said lol

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[Bloodparadise]

It's complicated.. a messy past

Still kind of indecisive whether to show my love to him or not

[LiaRaven]

I don’t do attachment lol

[HawkPerception]

Too cool for that, eh?

[LiaRaven]

Very cooooool lol

[Jennz6]

I’m staying away from dating men

[WonderingManII]

Anxious.