Would it bother you if you you found out your new date had a body count much higher or lower than yours?

[dinojames22]

Higher would bother me

Lower would bother me

Neither.

A total of 20 votes were cast: 11 girls and 9 guys. See detailed results

[DishLady]

My “body count” (I dispose this term) is WAY low so lower than mine would basically be a virgin. However MUCH higher (ANY double digit) would bug me to no end; I’d need several months of consistent STD screenings before being with a guy like that.

[Lliam]

It doesn't matter to me. I never asked a girlfriend or my wife about their body count and none ever asked mine.
All I know is, I could tell that they weren't the type to hook up with random strangers. Even though they weren't virgins by any means, they had self-respect and were picky about who they slept with.

[HighValue]

Any casual sex = bad morals and not good enough quality for an exclusive LTR.

[Genie23]

I wouldn't care but I'd definitely want him to get tested for STD because I'd assume he hooked up with strangers in the past before he changed as a person.

[Genie23]

But to be honest, I would never ask him about his body count but if he prefers to tell me, you know what my answer would be

[EmmaMary]

@Genie23

I think you have just spoken on behalf of the majority of us women... Thank you. 💕

[Genie23]

Awww! That's so sweet of you 🫶🏻

My pleasure, lovely 😊

[Anonymous]

I can count how many guys I’ve been with on one hand. With that said I can’t control how many women whatever guy I’m with slept with before me so I’m not going to judge him or raise the red flag 🚩 because of it. As long as he gets himself tested for STD.

[katiesmuff]

This question keeps showing up and always gets the same results which is basically nobody gives a shit what you were fucking before we came into your life.

[Anonymous]

At my age it's understandable that she's probably had a few relationships and slept with those guys. But if it's double figures, not interested! Just move along.

[Flower7]

Both would bother me.

[jahaims]

I wouldn't date someone with no self respect