Well, certain people would not waste the time they currently waste due to not knowing it or one person hiding it from the other.
It would streamline things a lot. Probably more for men.
Men who want a long term relationship, kids, etc. would probably stay away from the women with large counts and seek out the ones with small numbers. I just guys who want to get laid and who think she will be easy might be more apt to go after a girl who is really promiscuous.
It will occur in reverse with the girls evaluating the guys but probably to not the same degree. Women can see who the players are who sleep around a lot. Some may avoid those guys but women don't really care as much about sex history. They care more about his job, finances, resources. But some women will care and avoid certain men. I'd bet some women would avoid a guy with zero. Guys would probably flock to a girl with zero but I think many times a woman will avoid the same. They'll think, what is wrong with him, why doesn't anyone else want him.
It would streamline the process of weeding out the types we don't want.
Imagine there are two girls who I am considering for a first date. One has 24 on her forehead, and the other has 7. Which should I choose? Most people will say "7," of course.
Now, here's the rest of the details. "7" got married soon after high school, and was married for 45 years, until her husband died two years ago. Since then, she has had 6 sexual partners.
"24" was a wild child and was screwing every guy who came along until she finally saw the light, settled down, and got married at age 27. At that point, her body count was 24. Two years ago, after 40 years of marriage, she got divorced and has dated but not had any sexual partners since the divorce.
If I'm looking for a woman who will be serious about dating and commitment, which one is more likely to be the best candidate?
To me it would make strictly no difference. I don't date and I don't fornicate and thus, a body count of 1 is just as bad as a body count of 200 like this hoe on the picture.
I guess that if I was forced to date, I would only chose a person with no body count and with no history of ever watching lewd pornographic content or body manipulation. Only then could I be more or less sure that this person is not a sex freak that thinks with his genitals rather than with his brain and that has nothing but sexual nonsense in mind.
Body count is one of those things you’ll be judged for no matter what. If you’re a virgin you’re a loser if you’re getting sone you’re a whore or a player. Though if someone has a low body count and wants someone who also has one I think that’s fair.
What gets me is hypocrites. People argue with me because men with high body counts want to marry a woman with a low one. It’s like women (they complain about) who have a bad history with men but want a good man at the end. A woman whose a virgin by choice wants someone who has a similar mindset and standards as she does.
That would be insane lol but the good part about it , people would be more honest with each other instead of blowing smoke up each others’ asses and relationships and marriages would probably survive more than failing because if you cheat on your partner , your body count goes up lol
I look at it this way if I like her fir all the things and reason it and what I'm looking for and if she has been tested and is clean
Then I'm going to date her and the same thing fir me I would hope I don't care about her exs or what they did together how they did it I could care less
For me when I start a relationship That's it the oast is the past I don't kneed to know anything because our moment starts there
I’m interested in what that bill of health looks like and that they’re not a malicious cheating bastard. As long as they’re healthy, not abusive or a cheater, cleansing their Energy regularly, it really wouldn’t make a difference to me. Comparison is a thief of joy. I’m not comparing myself to a past relationship/fling that’s absurd.
Cleansing their energy? What new age nonsense is that? 😂 I do think having their infections and their body count listed on them would make the world a safer place though.
I used to work the door at a bar. One night before closing I was out sweeping the patio and there was a young couple in their early twenties sitting at a table. I heard the girl tell the guy that she slept with a bunch of dudes when she was a teenager, and when she tells guys how many they disappear. She looked heartbroken when she said that and I felt really bad for her.
The beginning of a new and formidable Jesu--- Jeff Bezos era, sanctifying people obsessed with ratings. They would finally live in the Black Mirror world they want to see happening so badly.
While the others would get surgery or wear implants to hide this abomination that forehead has become. They would probably form a new institution: The liberated front (a pun for the french-speaking).
I would be ok. Having sex with someone many times over a long period of time is not the same as sex with many people over a short time. That notion of self control and commitment is something I value and thus would only be with someone else who values it.
That would suck. Your body count is private. Mine is only one if you only count going all the way, but I still wouldn’t tell somebody that on a first date.
Yeah it probably would for a lot of people. I only have 2 so far so it wouldn't bother me so much but I have friends whose numbers are up there and it would probably completely devastate them if this was a thing.
I thought the other way around. Men don’t like girls that have had multiple partners. A guy might have zero but hey we have to start from somewhere. Why should we be ashamed or looked down on that. We have to start somewhere. Women always judge men on things that don’t make a good man
For me it would be fine, but I think we would all judge people much harsher if we could see just how much people got around. lol There would probably be a lot of guy and gals wearing hats :P
@Simslover92 They would probably think my number was bullshit, like many of the guys here boast about their alleged body count, and most/many of their sex partners numbers are only in their head
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I think that'd be hilarious. I'll never understand that women that get upset over a guys judgement of a number. Nobody is holding gun to your head and making sleep with a large number of men. And if you're not ashamed, then why get upset?
I do think the number would discourage interaction. It would turn some guys off and some women off. But is that really a bad thing?
Fantastic. I'm a cavalier womanizer flirt and I've only slept with 3 women. One is my wife. I slept with those 3 women thousands of times. More than twice a day in my teens and 20's. Man I wish I could sleep with all three of them in one night. Probably could now that I'm 43. My wife still gets off like she was 20 but I need a few hours of foreplay.
Someone has to be willing to add to our ‘totals’ for it to grow in size in the first place. Sex wise I don’t seeing that having an impact. Being seen as a worth while pursuit versus a mere conquest I can see becoming an issue for some.
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