Fellas,
I need help with understanding if there may be hope down the line for myself and this guy I had been seeing.
I recently met up with an old friend from college and we hit it off. We went on a date and it was one of the best dates I’ve had in a while. It was so good to where he was shocked at our chemistry. We met a few times afterwards and were always on the phone without issue. Things started to slow down the past few weeks due to our schedules. We haven’t been able to see each other or talk much. This includes texts or calls.
I spoke up on it and stated that it did bother me and he validated my feelings and explained where he was at in life. I completely understand and respect his autonomy. I explained that I would give him space due to everything simply because I know how I am and I would end up hurting my own feelings.
I didn’t want to let him go. I did explain that I was open and willing to work and put in the effort to make things work but he hasn’t responded the message. We haven’t healthy communication and it was an open conversation. There was no bad blood and a lot of reassurance on both ends when we spoke but my head is spinning at the no response. What might he be thinking? I didn’t double text to give space. I do like him a lot.
Have you all ever had a situation that you had to end due to conflicting schedules? Did you ever circle back down the line?
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What Guys Said
Sounds to me you told him you'd give him space expecting him to fight that response and you wanting him to tell you to stay close to him.
I mean you WERE the one who said you'd give him space, so it's like.. ain't much you can do buddy
If everything points to you guys being okay but just not ready for eachother right now then so be it. You guys don't seem to have any thing you guys hate about eachother so just chilllllllll my friend
Just because he hasn't replied doesn't mean he doesn't like you anymore, as you said your guys schedules aren't matching so maybe he's busy, maybe he forgot to reply, maybe his cat died, whatever the reason is, at the end of the day you guys can't be together anyway so. Just chill lolll
It does sound like you guys can be a thing in the future, but don't go waiting 5 years for him and missing out on others
Thank you
He ended up responding. Stated that although he’s not in the space to pour into us seriously he still really likes me and didn’t expect to
If he wanted to be with you, he would find a way.