Are a man's standard too unrealisticly high if he doesn't like getting with taken women?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

I always found taken women so damn repulsing. I dont care if their s/o is smaller, docile or inferior in any ways compared to me.

to me taken women who still have the need to cheat and be unfaithful dont deserve anything, not even 5 seconds of attention. if they can't be fulfill themselves in their own relationship then that is their problem and should be envolving others in their mess they call life.

unfortunately taken women are the once I attract the most. in my college days I couldnt stand when taken women used to stare at me even with their cuck excuse of a boyfriend walking next to them. a few taken women in the past have even gotten flirty with me but once I found out they were taken and I told them to get the fuck out of my life they would play the victim and claim I was overreacting like a "weirdo"

lastly the girl (if we can call her that) that almost won the title as my first girlfriend back in my teen days was already taken herself. after I told her I wanted nothing to do with her she tried to cling on and use me as bread crumbs. so maybe my standards are based on ptsd. but either way if there is a cure for then I dont want it or believe I need it

Yes

No

[D_Bone_Steak]

Taken women, from my experience, are judged as garbage from men that are at least considering a relationship... because for that, yeah they're fucking garbage. I mean seriously, they're cheating to begin with and if you feed into their probable lies that it's all his fault, now there's the question of why she's been giving everything to such a shitty man? On top of that, she's probably lying to you just like she's lying to him, and he might be a good dude and she's just doing it out of lust, greed, boredom, attention, or whatever you want to call it. SHE WILL, eventually do the same shit to you if you go full retard and decide to fully commit to one.

They do have their use though. Usually, a lot cleaner than the average village bicycle unless she's way out of hand and has really been getting around. Personally, I like the ones that really don't want to fuck up their situation. They'll make it clear they want you to be discreet af which is a green flag for me.

THESE WOMEN ARE NOT A GOOD CHOICE, for a relationship minded guy. THEY ARE GOOD FOR, being a cum dumpster (in her mouth if she can get pregnant). I mean why do they do it? Lots of reasons as I listed in my first paragraph, but the reason that stands out to me is the ones that want to get used sexually. It could be a closet homo they have as a man that won't touch her or whatever, they have their reasons and I have my reasons for simply wanting to nut without the bs of relationshit bullshit.

Anyways, that's my thoughts on it. I think they have their use, which is their sex or money, but there is no way I'd take one of them as my own or want a family with her in it. I think they're a dime'a'dozen because they usually have a job and don't need to tie themselves down to a provider, but they do it anyways and then resent the guy for not being home all the time or whatever her bullshit reasons are. The main reason I don't feel sorry for them is that they're just being shitty people to some dude that's trying his best, or like I said, he's not the best and this is the route she's taking to still get off and usually driven by their huge ego. I don't respect that... I just use them.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

" lying to you just like she's lying to him, and he might be a good dude and she's just doing it out of lust, greed, boredom, attention, or whatever you want to call it"

this is exactly what they are after, it can't be just a coincidence. they are not worth the risk

[SotiCoto]

When they're fucking around like that, I'd say they've lost any right to NOT be subject to violence. If they get uppity and act like they're somehow the victim because you don't want to aid them in cheating then... y'know... smash their kneecaps.

[Apple1996]

No that doesn't even seem like a standard like its just expected to only want to date someone who is single. I know maybe there's some weird loophole like a person might still be married but going through a divorce. Id consider them single tho. Some people also date multiple people at the same time but aren't seriously committed to them so they are technically single to. Weird things like that are they taken or single is a matter of opinion a bit

[Filthy_Immigrant]

"I know maybe there's some weird loophole like a person might still be married but going through a divorce. Id consider them single tho"

sounds like you dont mind gambling with your life. people who are going through divorce are extremely dangerous

[Apple1996]

Oh I wouldn't risk them lol im just saying they exist and claim to be "single"

[Filthy_Immigrant]

you literally said...

". Id consider them single tho."

trust me these are the last people you want to consider anything worth approaching. if you ever date someone going through a divorce you will risk become a sitting duck for the fact that their ex who most likely filed the divorce can jump the gun and assume he/she was seeing you during their marriage.

trust me, I seen it happen numerous of times and they end up in tragedies

[WhitneySnow]

Not at all. Most taken women don’t want to cheat anyway.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Consider your viewpoint is based on your view. These taken but cheating women don't even tell women like you what they really get up to, because they know you'd judge them for it. Trust me, they're abundant, and they don't just hide it from their man.

On the other hand, women that are just like them... they do shit like invite them to my place and I have a threesome with the two of them. I'm just saying devoted women and cheaters have their own clicks in the woman world, and they are like oil and water to each other if exposed. If you've ever expressed a desire to cheat around one of those girls, they'd latch onto you like white on rice. They LOVE to have partners in crime.

[WhitneySnow]

@D_Bone_Steak no thanks. But you might have a point there.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

"Most taken women don’t want to cheat anyway."

man this is gotta be the most gullible statement I've heard in this site

[ChiTown33]

Absolutely not! That's minimum standards as far as I'm concerned. Why the hell would you even consider a woman already in relationship? Because if she has no quams about dumping her partner for you. I promise you she'll have no problem dumping you for some other guy eventually. Chasing after someone already in a relationship is just FOUL.

[Zylos]

No, that is a perfectly reasonable moral standard to want your potential partners to live up to.

[Sevenpointfive]

while they made princess cartoons for little girls for before my lifetime, what have they been doing for little boys? that little mermaid got awfully close to being trans.